Wife might be starting to accept

[Tanya J]

I am not sure if it means anything but my wife bought me some women's control top tights a little while back. When i told her about me dressing a few years ago she was understanding but she did not like the idea of me dressing. I have respected her wishes as much as possible but this summer when i had the chance i asked her if i could wear support pantyhose on long days to help my legs keep from being so tired. She thought about it and asked that i not because it worried her that it would lead to me wanting to wear other things. But this fall we were shopping and she saw me looking at some women's tights and asked if i wanted some, i told her no but later that night i did bring it back up and she went to her drawer and handed me a pair of hers. She told me try these tomorrow if you like them we will get you some more, i did and i told her they were great. The next day she bought me 2 more pairs and several since then. Not sure what that means but it is nice to feel like she is doing what she is comforatable with to meet me half way

[Leah Lynn]

Sounds like baby steps. Hopefully she has more surprises.

[Bree Wagner]

Sure seems to be moving in the right direction. Patience, time, and love can go a long ways.

Good luck to you and your wife!

[Aloha Jayne]

great news, hope things work out

[Diversity]

Hi Tanya,
It sounds to me that your wife is beginning to accept you as a CD'r. This is great news for you both. Keep doing what you are doing and I am sure all will work out in the distant future. This all takes time...
Di

[Beverley Sims]

It is frustrating, keep going at your wife's pace an you may see the light at the end of the tunnel and it won't be a train coming the other way.

[kimdl93]

It means exactly what it seems...nothing more or less. She is ok with tights for now.

[linda allen]

Next time you're shopping with your wife, stop and look at the panties. See how this works out. :heehee:

Seriously, Kim is right, she is OK with the tights. You said they helped your legs so that's why she bought them for you. You're going to have to feel her out on the next step.

Men's briefs are going to be baggy over (or under) the tights so maybe panties would fit better? Try that one on her.

[MeganHenry]

It means exactly what it seems...nothing more or less. She is ok with tights for now.

I would have to agree here. My wife accepts the fact that I wear panties, they are out in the open. I have gob loads of bras however she has not seen me in one yet leggings and yoga pants ok too. However the whole package while she knows is still to much for her.

[ClosetED]

I do hope you simply failed to mention how you showed your great appreciation of her increased acceptance ...

[linda allen]

I do hope you simply failed to mention how you showed your great appreciation of her increased acceptance ...

Good point and something I forgot about. Tell her and show her how much you love her. Buy her a card and write a personal note inside. Buy her a gift. Take her to dinner or take her shopping and make sure she gets something she really likes.

[bridget thronton]

I think it means she loves you and that is a good thing

[Tanya J]

Thank you for the replies and yes i have let her know how much i appreciate what she has done for me. But it never hurts to let her know again. I was a little worried at first that showing her to much appreciation would weird her out about the whole thing but she did seem to like the fact that i told her how much i loved her and that it meant alot to me that she would do this for me. We will see i will give her as much time as needed to figure out if she is comforatable with any thing else or not

[crossdressed911]

What a great step, but at the same time a mixed message from your wife. I hope for both of you it is going down the path of understanding and acceptance. Proceed with caution and try not to move to fast. Let her go at her own pace. I had a similar experience when my wife bought me some pantyhose and a blouse one day when she was on her way out of town. When I came home after dropping her off at the airport I found her present was waiting for me. I was completely surprised and appreciated it. I later learned it was not an open door for her 100% acceptance, but a nice jester of love and care. I continue to learn about myself and my wife as we travel this CD journey together.

[prene]

WOW

You are lucky... there are not very many accepting gg's out there.

At least she is trying. Make it worth it.

[SherylB]

It means exactly what it seems...nothing more or less. She is ok with tights for now.

Exactly. My girlfriend lets me wear them occasionally as well but has made it clear she doesn't want to know about it.

[Joann Smith]

It means your wallet is bout to take a hit ....the wife buy you new tights .. I am thinking she looking at a new living room set. Washer/dryer maybe ... At min you gonna be painting the house this spring ..