Kathy4ever
12-24-2012, 05:45 AM
Respect- I hear this term used a lot on here. I know I am going to probably get crucified for what I about to write, but so be it. Shouldn't respect be a two way street. Each person has there feelings and why should we have to be the bigger person all the time. It might seem selfish or disrespectful that we go against the others wishes,but shouldn't we have a say or have some common ground and be able dress the way we want. Some might say then you should be alone and on your own then. Hey I fell in luv with someone and they fell in luv with me too. Why do cloths make that much of a deal breaker. There some here will say welll woman shouldn't wear pants or jeans then. I think some of the pants and jeans they wear are sexy too (sorry Karen), so I would not say that statement. Others will say you are disrespectful when you try on there cloths. Is it disrectful when they put on your shirts or sweat pants to lounge away in. Could be but no one ever says there wives are disrespectful for doing that. Some will say it is not the same, that we put there stuff for sexual satisfaction. Now if that is why someone puts the wives cloths on then I would say that is disrepectfull or selfish. I do not fall in this category. I guess the answer to my question is that what we do is against what society thinks we should do. Fair or not I guess I have to live like that. For the ones that have accepting spouses or have reached a common ground I am happy for you and you should cherish them with all your heart. YOU ARE TRUELY LUCKY. God bless us everyone!!!!!