I could have sworn I just seen asnother CD when I was dressed last night

[jsunic_1978]

I was at Eat n Park, I saw a tall beautiful, big woman head in. she was way too tall to be a woman and of course, I GLLARED AT HER SHOES :)P had to have been size 13 WW she was just dressed plainly. she noticed me checking her out but didnt smile back of course. Maybe she really was a GG funny if she was CD, I hope she wasnt embarrased I was able to read her. I JUST WANTED TO MAKE A FRIEND :)

[Sacpatty]

You should always reach out. How nice to make another friend,'whatever is under the clothes

[mikiSJ]

A smile starts a lot of conversations, and a knowing smile says hello in a way most of us will understand.

[bridget thronton]

A smile and simple hello is often good (people are people with or without labels)

[jsunic_1978]

If the TG meets wernt oonly on weekends, bigger groups and more than once a month. i would go! unfort i do not have wweekends off and never eill because i work in a restarunt now, just till i get something like i once had. even dressed regular, its hard meeting people since i dont go to the bars nor club sceene. I guess i could judt not drink and hit some bars but it seems to be the only way to meet people. however, I do have lot of fun shopping and I go to several stores regularly. People are getting to know me and something will click.

[BillieJoEllen]

Well Jsunic, there really are some huge women out there. I have a relative who has size 14 feet and is two inches shorter than her 6'6" brother. Thing of it is she LOOKS like a woman. I was surprised a number of years ago when we were in a different city while the WNBA was there playing in the playoffs. We were in the same hotel and there had to be at least 11 basketball players bigger than or the same size as me. I didn't really know what was going on there until someone explained it to me. They all looked fabulous too. From time to time one can spot a larger woman. When I spot one I always check her out to see what characteristics a tall or large woman has.

[ghostrider503]

Hello everyone I am Jennifer Lee,quite new to cd would like to meet more experience cd's for pointers. I do not wish to offend anyone or say something wrong on any of these
threads help me please.

[jsunic_1978]

WOW that's interesting Billie :) tough im a dresser, im still curious just like everyone else ie AND THATS ALL. When most others do spot me, if I just say hello back or just smile 99 PERCENT OF PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO BEAT ME UP AFTER ALL. Its just human nature to be curious and I have really learned something. And Ghoster, I did wrong miss postings for EVREYONE ON THIS SITE LOL. Just pay attention to threands and no swear words and no cutting down ANYONE, even judgmental people and no stereotypes peroid ( no rants). You'll be ok. What ever piece of womens (outter ware) your pulled by the most, learn how to dress according with your preferense. My preferences are SHOES.. LITTLE tougher for me to pich and match outfits. Now skitrs, dresses and pants, is much easier to pick shoes to go with, but thats just my opionion and thats why we are on here.

Make up how ever needs to match skin tone (color), unless you just want to hit the club sceenes and drag shows and you can wear clown make up and blend in just fine. Also, I suggest going to all womens clothing stores as a guy first. IT IS VERY INTIMMINATING AT FIRST. looking all red in the face and shameful, what are these women sale assoiates and other shoppers thinking?? For the most part, THEY ARE ALL DELIGHTED. Stick with the basics and listen to replies from this post and others that give advice and you'll be fine. JUST HAVE FUN.

Another thing, If you live in a highly conserative area and cliques are a must and people just associate with eachother only because they have things in common and basiclly closed minded, then you want to explore different areas as a guy first. Just get a feel for the areas. Where ever its easy to make conversations with strangers, especially adding your two sense among a group of strangers and they don't look at you like your from MARS and actually inneract, then possible, that area accepts everybody as long as the individal is genuwine on the insides

[Beverley Sims]

The best you can do at any time is just smile, and see what develops from there.

[andrea lace]

I can never spot a CDer my wife always notices them while we our out and about. But me never

[Julie Denier]

I'm fairly certain I spotted a sister while out to dinner a couple of weeks ago (in guy mode, with my wife and daughter) here in Chicago's NW burbs. I was seated right across the aisle from her and her companion ...

[Maria S]

I often see other CDers when I'm out but that's because they stick out like a sore thumb. If I looked that un-CDlike I'd never stick my head out of the door.

Maria

[jsunic_1978]

if we stick out, SO WHAT may want to do that in a different part of toen anyhow :) co workers dont need to know. My co workers know in the round about way. someone just made a loke and asked would I have a woman dress me up? I said H*LL YES!! :) I work with a really great bunch of people and the day just flys :)

[Donna St. Marten]

There is really a place called Eat N Park?

[Faye56]

A few years ago when walking my dog I would often catch sight of a tall woman also walking her dog , our paths had never crossed until one evening when we found ourselves walking towards each other . I was out as Faye , as I always did when walking the dog and as we walked closer and closer to each other I could see that she was wearing what were possibly size 10/11 (uk ) shoes and was around 6'2" tall .

I must have caught her attention also as she looked down at my shoes and clearly noticed we were well matched in height. We passed without comment but we both smiled as we passed . If only there was a way for us to have started a conversation without fear of causing offence .