10 reasons why being married to a CD'er is so much fun.

[Tibby]

1) I get to dress him up just like I did when I was a little girl playing with my dolls

2) I have a husband who loves clothes and shoe shopping together

3) We make a point of spending proper quality time together, no children, no work, just us

4) We get to wear each others dresses so always a constant choice of different looks

5) I get to live with my best friend as well as my husband

6) I know without doubt my husband trusts me, loves me and would never betray me

7) We get to have pamper nights together doing each others nails and make up.

8) No day goes by without us laughing together

9) When he looks at girls I know he's actually wanting the dress or shoes and not the one wearing them

10) We get to enjoy 2 Christmas' and 2 birthday's, a family one and a pretty shiny one.

[Laura28]

Tiddy Great Post!

[MsRenee]

Very cute and so right.
Renee

[SexyErica]

Could not agree more.Showing this one to the wife so she'll understand all the great benifits that come with being married to me!!LOL

[Allison Chaynes]

I love your outlook Tiddy!

[~Joanne~]

6) I know without doubt my husband trusts me, loves me and would never betray me


I don't about anyone else but this one gave me the chills lol I know I read it wrong as it's meant to be very positive but for some odd reason it came across as "I got you by the balls" lol

[Kate Simmons]

Well, ya know Tibby, I think that being married to a wonderful gal like you would be the most fun for any guy.:)

[Tibby]

I don't about anyone else but this one gave me the chills lol I know I read it wrong as it's meant to be very positive but for some odd reason it came across as "I got you by the balls" lol

lol, you read it as "I know he'll never leave me as I know too much about him" :devil::D

[Jane P]

That's a nice post Tibby. It's nice to see the glass half full sometimes instead of half empty.

Keep enjoying life.

[JustWendy]

A great list - I like #8 the best. All relationships would be a lot better if we always remembered this one.

Wendy

[Barbara Ella]

Tibby, these are such wonderful thoughts, thanks ever so much for putting them down here. I know that he shares these feelings with you.

Wish the wife could see these.

Barbara

[kenzee]

I love that post. To bad my marrage wasnt liike that ! Lol

[Robbin_Sinclair]

I smiled broadly with this one: "9) When he looks at girls I know he's actually wanting the dress or shoes and not the one wearing them." I answered just to be sure that I can find this again. Someday, someway for me.

[krisinpink]

Lovely!! What a great arrangement!

[Tibby]

There's an 11th (but you never seem to get 11 reasons why :) )

11) We rarely have to bother with returning a dress, if it's too big for me he gets it, if it's too small for him, it's mine

[Theresa_W]

7) We get to have pamper nights together doing each others nails and make up.



That's one of my favorite! My wife and I try to do that as often as we can!

Terri

[Kerigirl2009]

Love it, I wish my wife would have thoughts like this!

[Stephanie47]

Maybe you can get David Letterman to read it on tonight's show!

I would love to have a wife so receptive to my cross dressing that we would prepare a wonderful meal together and sit down in our lovely dresses and eat and drink.

[veronica66]

My wife bought me some girls thong panties a few weeks ago. That was fun. I do wear panties around the house. I clean the house nude. My wife likes that. But I choose to cross dress when she is not around because she is not really into it

[kimdl93]

Those of us who are MtF CDrs often like to recite lists of things we believe we bring to a relationship. Its nice to have the perspective of a GG about the benefits of a CD partner. It just seems so much more valid.

[KatieGG]

I agree on all of them with number 8 being the biggest reason we make it work. We goof off and act like nerds no matter if he's wearing dickies and a tank top or leggings and a dress.

[Luna Nyx]

There's an 11th (but you never seem to get 11 reasons why :) )

11) We rarely have to bother with returning a dress, if it's too big for me he gets it, if it's too small for him, it's mine


this is the same for me and my SO. :)

[Monicamaryjay]

Tibby this is very good. I am smiling.
What a wonderfully supportive attitude.

It would be nice if other GG`s were so accomodating.
Thanks for sharing, I may need to return to this post later for reference material.
Monica

[CassandraSmith]

I don't about anyone else but this one gave me the chills lol I know I read it wrong as it's meant to be very positive but for some odd reason it came across as "I got you by the balls" lol

If it's a great relationship, he's got the goods on her too ;-)

[JBPerry]

Absolutely love this!!!!

[FaithGrace]

Hopefully someday I'll find the right lady that feels the same way that you do, Tibby!

[Eryn]

Tibby, that is a great list! Not all the items apply to all relationships but some of them resonate very well with mine.

[Lady Catherine]

Very nice of you to share this with us.

[TeresaL]

Wow, just wow Tibby.

I had something profound to say, I really did.

[Ceri Anne]

Wonderful post Tibby, thanks.........now just to convince my SO

[justmetoo]

Tibby and KatieGG, you both seem to have such a wonderful approach to live! :)

[Betty_42]

Awesome list hun! However, my wife won't let me do her nails or hair and she doesn't even wear makeup... Kind of a downer there, but everything else is pretty close!

[Vicky_Scot]

I don't about anyone else but this one gave me the chills lol I know I read it wrong as it's meant to be very positive but for some odd reason it came across as "I got you by the balls" lol

I read it exactly the same MJ.

[becky77]

Can someone turn that list into promotional posters, so I can do a powerpoint presentation for my wife :)

[Claire Cook]

Tibby,

Thanks so much for sharing this -- you've made our day. Sue and I would agree with all 11, especially the laughter. After all, we are funny, it is fun, and I wish all our wives and GF's could appreciate this. And, yes, I get her clothes that are too large, and she gets mine that are too small.

[Kaz]

Tibby, you are wonderful and a star! May you shine forever xx

[andrea lace]

Tibby I too have a wonderful wife who appreciates me for being me I hid my cross dressing for so long and now realize that I didn't need to. I am now 41 years old and have been married for 17 years. I only wish I told her sooner as I would have looked fabulous dressed en femme in my 20's

[bobbimo]

Great post Tibby,
I'm going to borrow this and share it with my wife.
we used to do all these together, but we havent had a girls night in ages.
Thanks!
Bobbi

[Miranda09]

Now that is a refreshing and delightful way to embrace your SO's fem side. Don't ever lose it! ;)

[Lee Andrews]

2) I have a husband who loves clothes and shoe shopping together

8) No day goes by without us laughing together

9) When he looks at girls I know he's actually wanting the dress or shoes and not the one wearing them



These are the ones that stand out for me. Great post Tibby

[RitaCD]

Great thread, Tibby. Now if I could just find one like you.

[Tracii G]

Tibby this is a fabulous post !!!!!!!!
Life is what you make it IMO.
Love your attitude.

[vivianann]

Thanks Tibby for this thread, I hope to find a GG that will be accepting of my crossdressing. That would be fun to share those moments with a wife and best friend.

[Beverley Sims]

I think your ten reasons are very good.
It would be nice if some of those who have trouble accepting our activities could warm a little more.
These could be ten goals to a happier marriage.

[bridget thronton]

Very nice post Tibby

[~Joanne~]

lol, you read it as "I know he'll never leave me as I know too much about him" :devil::D

Exactly ;) Part of the horror of coming out about CDing to anyone lol


If it's a great relationship, he's got the goods on her too ;-)

It sounds like a very great relationship so far and I surly wish them the best but you do have a good point ;)



I read it exactly the same MJ.

Good, I wasn't the only one then ;) lol

I also agree that this is a gem of a post but Tibby is a gem of a woman ;)

[kristinacd55]

that's a gem of a post Tibby....

[sonna]

aaaw so sweet. great post

[SandraV]

Can someone turn that list into promotional posters, so I can do a powerpoint presentation for my wife :)

Love this as much as the original post :heehee:

Great post Tibby :)

[carhill2mn]

It would be so great if other wife's agreed with you!

[Maria S]

Tibby I know my wife thinks on similar lines.

Maria

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Tibby, Oh don't I wish.

[Annette_boy]

Woo Hoo Love the list much of it applied to my wife and I when she was still alive
Hugs Annette:D

[FrancineBrice]

Hello Tabby, these are such wonderful thoughts, all 11 of them! Before my wife's passing we were very lucky to share a lot of them together. Thanks you so very much for putting them in writing here.

[Jenniferathome]

This is a wonderful position for a wife to take but the reality is that many can not hope for this. I hope you share your perspective ont he FAB forum. Now, more specifically, here is my wife's perspective on some of these items:

1) She outgrew dolls a long time ago
2) This is a good one
3) as husband and wife, not dressed, is critical
4) True, but she doesn't like that I can fit into some of her clothes
5) girl me, is not a her best friend, and that's ok
6) Very true. My wife was happy that I could trust her with such a secret, rather than dwelling on the hiding for so long.
7) Not her thing, and not with girl me.
8) So true
9) I don't think she ever had a worry but this is dead on
10) Not our thing.



1) I get to dress him up just like I did when I was a little girl playing with my dolls:
2) I have a husband who loves clothes and shoe shopping together
3) We make a point of spending proper quality time together, no children, no work, just us
4) We get to wear each others dresses so always a constant choice of different looks
5) I get to live with my best friend as well as my husband
6) I know without doubt my husband trusts me, loves me and would never betray me
7) We get to have pamper nights together doing each others nails and make up.
8) No day goes by without us laughing together
9) When he looks at girls I know he's actually wanting the dress or shoes and not the one wearing them
10) We get to enjoy 2 Christmas' and 2 birthday's, a family one and a pretty shiny one.

[Tibby]

This is a wonderful position for a wife to take but the reality is that many can not hope for this. I hope you share your perspective ont he FAB forum. Now, more specifically, here is my wife's perspective on some of these items:

1) She outgrew dolls a long time ago
2) This is a good one
3) as husband and wife, not dressed, is critical
4) True, but she doesn't like that I can fit into some of her clothes
5) girl me, is not a her best friend, and that's ok
6) Very true. My wife was happy that I could trust her with such a secret, rather than dwelling on the hiding for so long.
7) Not her thing, and not with girl me.
8) So true
9) I don't think she ever had a worry but this is dead on
10) Not our thing.

1) yes I outgrew dolls a long time ago but I feel young again which is always a good thing
2) always a good one :D
3) As both, depending on how we feel and occasion
4) He's trim and fit so when he can't fit into mine I feel great :)
5) I prefer 1 best friend (girl him) to know the entire me and several others who each know a bit of me, a range is always good
6) The trust being so deep is very important in marriage, I've been betrayed in the past and the trust he has in me enforces that I'll never be betrayed again
7) Each to their own but I love pretty nails and so does he
8) Most important in any relationship and something which can be added to everything else in the list
9) :D Makes it fun when I coment on an outfit and so does he :D
10) Gasp, extra excuse for celebrations and presents, always good in my book :)

[PretzelGirl]

I love positive posts Tibby! Your husband is a lucky man.

[Intertwined]

Nice fairy tail...

[Tibby]

Nice fairy tail...

A fairy tale for some is reality for others, I hope you find your reality someday honey x

[Breeze]

A great post Tibby as a fellow GG I think it is a fantastic list....I will share this with my husband :D

[Aylineira]

Great post!! Loving it! All of the points apply to me and my wife.

[Jenni Yumiko]

Can someone turn that list into promotional posters, so I can do a powerpoint presentation for my wife :)
I love this, I think if I can turn the whole Jenni life into a PowerPoint with flow charts, ROI's and pie graphs she would be more receptive!