Questions about sex, sexual orientation.

[LisaSue]

Hi all, I wonder if anyone would like to communicate here via private message in order that might not offend anyone in the forum. I don't want to cyber but would like to share some of my past sexual experiences, and feelings and thoughts about my sexual orientation and identity. Basically just looking for someone to hear me out about things I can't share with anyone. Nothing drastic, just embarrassing and not accepted in my circles. Thanks everyone.

[Luna Nyx]

feel free. Ill try and help in any way I can.

[Tara D. Rose]

I'm here for you too. Send your issues to me.
Tara D. Rose

[LisaSue]

Thanks everyone, I certainly will soon. Just wanted to make sure it was OK. Hugs, Lisa

[Staci K]

Hi LisaSue;

Go right ahead. I'd welcome the conversation on this topic.

Nicole

[RADER]

Yes; I will toss my hat into the ring also.
Rader

[xcdmargo]

I'm open and willing to listen or discuss

margo

[AmyGaleRT]

I'm always willing to listen. And I've seen and heard a lot, so it's hard to shock me. :)

- Amy

[Frank]

I would be up for talking as well

[flatlander_48]

Glad to help. Feel free to let it rip...

[nvlady]

Please PM me too, I also have an issue I would like to tell someone about, but not on an open forum.

[Emjay]

Looks like you have plenty of listeners already but if you need to talk please feel free anytime!

[VanIsle]

Likewise, I'm a good listener, a good chatter and can probably out-wierd you lol

[psion128]

I'm open to talk. Feel free to PM me and I'll reply back.

[tina 1103]

i would be very interested to hear from others on this topic

[EmilyLynn28]

I am interested in talking and hearing as well.

[Jessica G]

I would be up for talking as well

[andrea lace]

I am new to this forum but if I can help say the word

[tanya_m]

Quite a lot of replies. But if you need 1 more to chat with about that stuff I am here for you as well.
I admit CDing is more of a fetish for me so always willing to chat about something of a sexual nature.

[GinaD]

You can include me in the conversation

[Susancd]

I am also willing to listen and help if possible

[Netrixa]

-I have an open mind, Im willing to listen to whatever you have to say :)

[amigoinlove]

I am also interested! Hugs

[Ressie]

The suspense is too much! This is like when Apple announces that they will be making an announcement soon. So is everyone getting a PM from Lisasue? And can't this be discussed in the open?

[CassandraSmith]

Great post! You really have me curious. PM me if you like.

[julia marie]

I'm happy to hear your questions and share thoughts.

[Newcdguy]

I'd love to chat.

[Jodi Anne]

I'll go for a round also, it is hard to find someone to let your closest guarded things out.

[rivercity8686]

Who doesn't like to have a little fun?

[LindaC]

We all have issues of one form or another and we all can use a shoulder to cry on every now and then. I'd love to chat

[Anita_2]

Feel free. Ill try and if I can.

[LisaSue]

I'm overwhelmed by the response! See, where I'm not sure whether I should post is when I discuss sexual stuff. What it boils down to is I have some intense sexual feelings both homo and hetero; I have had intense emotional feelings for both male and female (mostly female though). And I've had odd experiences, none illegal or toooo bizarre, but they have caused me sexual/gender questions. Not to mention it helps to share some of the more embarrassing things with others, even if they might think me a "freak". I have a close gg friend I've shared much with, and she actually has been great, but I can't share everything with her at this point. Maybe someday.

And it's more boring than what it may sound like here, lol. I've already heard some helpful insight. I find it helps more to share one thing at a time than to try and lay out the whole story at once. Thanks again everyone!

[LisaSue]

The suspense is too much! This is like when Apple announces that they will be making an announcement soon. So is everyone getting a PM from Lisasue? And can't this be discussed in the open?

lol, Dee. I'd love to talk in the group. I may ask a mod.

[Sarah V]

Pls feel free to PM me also, I at least like to think all us ladies are here to help each other.

[LisaSue]

Hello everyone, and thank you so much for all your kindness. I hope I got to respond to nearly everyone. I was surprised at how much interest there was in the ways that sex and sexual orientation are intertwined with crossdressing. I hope I didn't "weird anybody out" with some of my return messages. I'm sure I'll be bending some "ears" in the future.

[darla_g]

LisaSue I wouldn't worry much about asking that question here, but better yet there are already a bunch of similar threads dealing with the same topic.

Here is one that is currently going http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?185154-Experience...lets-hear-it-(bi)&highlight=bisexual

Plus here are a bunch more that are currently open
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?184721-Sexuality&highlight=bisexual
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?184699-Straight-CD-vs-gay-CD-question&highlight=bisexual
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?181103-Has-your-quot-bi-ness-quot-evolved&highlight=bisexual

My suggestion is to tag onto one of those threads and you will get a whole lot of insight into your concerns. Not to mention there are a whole lot of closed threads dealing with the same thing.

[Nikki50/50]

I will chat with you if you've a mind to do so. Very few of us here will judge, but know that I do not gild-the-lily, so to speak. I speak very plainly and openly.

[GroovyChristy]

I'm overwhelmed by the response! See, where I'm not sure whether I should post is when I discuss sexual stuff. What it boils down to is I have some intense sexual feelings both homo and hetero; I have had intense emotional feelings for both male and female (mostly female though). And I've had odd experiences, none illegal or toooo bizarre, but they have caused me sexual/gender questions. Not to mention it helps to share some of the more embarrassing things with others, even if they might think me a "freak". I have a close gg friend I've shared much with, and she actually has been great, but I can't share everything with her at this point. Maybe someday.

And it's more boring than what it may sound like here, lol. I've already heard some helpful insight. I find it helps more to share one thing at a time than to try and lay out the whole story at once. Thanks again everyone!

Feel free to PM me as well if you want to. I'm always interested in conversation and sharing thoughts and experiences, and I promise I won't think you're a "freak." It's hard to be a freak when compared with me. ;)

[flatlander_48]

One of the things that I find fascinating here is that, in many cases, people are just totally shocked that they have sexual feelings for other men when they are dressed. Hopefully they realize that crossdressing didn't make them bisexual. All crossdressing did was provide an avenue for those feelings to come to the surface. In contrast, my case was different. I claimed the identity of bisexuality 12 or 13 years before the notion of crossdressing ever hit me. Therefore crossdressing had no bearing on a my determination of sexuality.