Well, wife's best friend knows...LOL

[Jessica86]

My wife had her best friend over. She was helping her dye her hair in the bathroom, using the tub and all. As interested as I was...I sat in the living room, laughing, knowing oh yeah...I don't have to dye my hair...I just change wigs! Anyway....while getting her hair done, my closet was open....

She asks my wife "Why are there dresses on his side?" My wife just casually says "Because he wears them." So, she stops and tells her that I am a crossdresser. I was surprised that just after this, she talks to me like nothing happened. (Her friend). So, after she leaves, my wife tells me what happened. I was surprised as I haven't had any real negative reactions with this so far. I just need to watch who I let around my closet. :heehee:

[RADER]

Maybe install a self closing door closer, that way the door will always be closed.LOL
Rader

[MissTee]

I should be so lucky. My wife's best friend chews tobacco and spits on the sidewalk. I'd be labeled "queer" before sunrise. :brolleyes:

[Sallee]

A new friend with doors open that's great Why would you expect negative comments especially in your house

[stacycoral]

Jessica, i hope everything works out fine,i bet your wife know that she can be trusted, good information for all us girls, thanks girl, take care, hugs.

[Bree Wagner]

It sounds like your wife is pretty comfortable with the topic and/or needs to get 'out of the closet' as much as you do so she can share/discuss/commiserate with one of her friends. Hopefully everything turns out well for you and her.

Good luck Jessica!

-Bree

[Rogina B]

If they are close enough to be playing in the bathtub together,then they are close enough to share! I am sure this woman will see you in a new light! All good!

[Maria in heels]

Jessica...your wife is definitely good with all of you, so just embrace and enjoy! Her best friend is really that, and she is just doing a little girl talk

[Jennifer Marie P.]

It think its great she knows but you should put closing doors on your closet.

[Beverley Sims]

Jessica,
The world is full of surprises.
As long as she doesn't spill the beans....

[wilt575]

My wife had her best friend over. She was helping her dye her hair in the bathroom, using the tub and all. As interested as I was...I sat in the living room, laughing, knowing oh yeah...I don't have to dye my hair...I just change wigs! Anyway....while getting her hair done, my closet was open....

She asks my wife "Why are there dresses on his side?" My wife just casually says "Because he wears them." So, she stops and tells her that I am a crossdresser. I was surprised that just after this, she talks to me like nothing happened. (Her friend). So, after she leaves, my wife tells me what happened. I was surprised as I haven't had any real negative reactions with this so far. I just need to watch who I let around my closet. :heehee:

Your wife sounds like she very accepting, to just casually say that, are you lucky enough to be able to go out in public and do things as two girls etc. That would be a dream come true.

[JeanneF]

Jessica,
The world is full of surprises.
As long as she doesn't spill the beans....

And if she does, oh well. What's the worst that can happen? Your wife knows (obviously) and is cool with it. Other than that if anyone else has a problem with it, they can go to hell. :)

My wife told her best friend and it was pretty much the same reaction. But I do get dragged into clothing discussions with the two of them.

[STACY B]

Never mind the Friend knowing ,,, I want to know why you are not dyeing her hair ? I would NEVER MISS that !! Lost Girl Time !!!
Thats the BEST PART of this !!!

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Jessica, It sounds like the beginning of a ladies group of friends for lunch and movies.

[Annaliese]

May be the three of you could have a girls night out just a thought

[stephNE]

I think it may be a great opportunity. Keep us posted. Steph.

[Jessica86]

Your wife sounds like she very accepting, to just casually say that, are you lucky enough to be able to go out in public and do things as two girls etc. That would be a dream come true.

We have, but not nearly as much as I wish we would.

[april_lynn]

So envious. <sigh> Maybe one day it will happen for me. That is great though that she supports you enough to not even really think twice about it!

[Jenniferathome]

Your wife's friend has nothing "vested" in you so it is just a thing. She doesnt have to deal with it if she doesn't want to, unlike our families....

[Gerrijerry]

My wife just had to talk to someone about me several years ago. So she told her best friend. No big deal really until her best friend told her husband and kids. Who told others etc.