antonia_bee
01-21-2013, 05:26 PM
As some of you will have read, I told my wife recently, and aside from the initial tears she has begun to accept it.
The issue we know face is that she has told me that she is struggling with the sexual side of our marriage. She says that she likes her men to be manly, and my admission has shattered that perception of me for her.
As a guy I enjoy the usual things (football, rugby, drinking, DIY etc) but have shaved my legs for ages, and my wife happily admits she loves my more feminine side (caring nature, sympathetic, nurturing, love of clothes and taking care of myself) but is finding it hard to feel sexually attracted to me now that I have said I like wearing girls clothes.
The arrival of our first child has further complicated matters as I have zero opportunity to dress and we are both exhausted.
This is not something that can easily be solved and I know it will take time, but is there anything I can do to reassure her that the 'manly' parts of me are still there?
The issue we know face is that she has told me that she is struggling with the sexual side of our marriage. She says that she likes her men to be manly, and my admission has shattered that perception of me for her.
As a guy I enjoy the usual things (football, rugby, drinking, DIY etc) but have shaved my legs for ages, and my wife happily admits she loves my more feminine side (caring nature, sympathetic, nurturing, love of clothes and taking care of myself) but is finding it hard to feel sexually attracted to me now that I have said I like wearing girls clothes.
The arrival of our first child has further complicated matters as I have zero opportunity to dress and we are both exhausted.
This is not something that can easily be solved and I know it will take time, but is there anything I can do to reassure her that the 'manly' parts of me are still there?