Wife is "putting up" with me? (Update)

[Betty_42]

Yeah I just wanted to thank y'all for all of the support and wonderful advice you gave me on that post back there. I actually compiled a list of my wife's grievances and addressed them with what I felt were reasonable compromises that we could both be happy with and then I wrote not just one, but two 3 page emails detailing these compromises as well as what I'd like from the relationship and my personal assurance that I would never need surgery. "I'm still technically a man darling! Donnie is still there and he's ALWAYS going to be there!" That said, there are some interesting developments...

First off, I'm starting to think that she's growing fond of my new breasts? She likes to play with and spank them! Secondly, she's relaxed enough about it to joke now. For example, I have a kitten sleeping in my lap and she says, "What? I thought you promised me that you'd never have a pussy between your legs?"

While I've yet to get any real response to these compromises, the fact that I'm not sleeping out on the couch right now tells me that I probably did something very good for our relationship back there? Anyway, I'm just going to take it one day at a time from here on out. Thanks again girls!

PS: Should I tell my wife that she should join the forums here? Would that help her at all? It's just that the description adds, "and their friends and family" and so that just got me to thinking?

[Eryn]

Spouses are certainly welcome here. It's a safe and accepting environment for them as it is for us.

Remember, we have all of our CDing friends with whom to discuss the issues we face. Your wife only has you. Getting a broader perspective here can help her to see that she isn't the only one in her situation and that CDing can even make relationships stronger.

[Jodi Anne]

Betty, I am so glad to hear that things are moving in a positive direction. It may seem slow but you have to go at her pace.
Ask her to read on the form and see if she wants to join, last night my wife & I were looking together at some of the post here and I asked her if she wanted to join, she is thinking about it.

[Tibby]

If your wife wants to talk with other GG's and to share experiences with them, ad to possibly gain an understanding about what being married to a CDer can mean for her and for your relationship then yes I'd say it would be beneficial for her to join. There is a FAB fourm she can join to be able to talk with GG's in confidence so i would say it may be helpful to her.

[Jeannie]

That's really good news Betty. Take it slow and easy at her speed. My wife is not computer savvy at all and she has said that she doesn't need to be on here and the perfectly understands why and that's ok with her. Good Luck in the future. Hugs!!!

[Betty_42]

Yeah like I said in the OP, I'm just gonna take it one day at a time here... I intend to purchase some more items for my breasts along with a present for her soon! I don't like to leave her out... Part of that whole loving for and caring for thing, but that's just my best theory!

[Beverley Sims]

Yes even if you are getting positive comments like the kitten joke, do not push it but just laugh with it without raising it to the next level.
It helps make life more natural and flowing.