Do straight crossdressers like BBWs and if so does anyone know why?

[Chazity]

Im on flickr ,and I see that most straight CDs have pics of bigger women on their favorites.I myself like a woman with meat on her bones ,so I thought it might be a trend.

[ArleneRaquel]

This bisexual crossdressers likes thinner ladies, but my current preference are well bodied males or alluring CD's. Alluring is in the eye of the beholder.

[Ann Louise]

I thought the mods would pick up on trolls like this.

[Jenniferathome]

Im on flickr ,and I see that most straight CDs have pics of bigger women on their favorites.

No, "most" cross dressers do not. The very limited sample size to which you refer, may. I see no relevance to your statement and a cross dressing site.

[Vickie_CDTV]

I don't know why this question would be considered trolling.

I can't speak for others' preferences, but I know I prefer large women.

Many TVs tend to be submissive, and being with a large/overpowering woman may be an extension of that.

Women who are very large tend to have been abused by society (pretty brutally in some cases) and tend to be more sympathetic toward those who, not unlike themselves, look different and otherwise fall outside of what mainstream society thinks is acceptable.

[cassexy]

well i like all women, whatever be their size, shape,etnicity etc. i love women and love being like them too

[Shari]

If you like the bigger women, you're in luck.
There seems to be no shortage of them these days.

[rah]

i think bigger woman are considered strong and aggressive and CD are more feminine so think we prefer them but i really don't like really fat woman maybe thick

[Jenni Yumiko]

I <3 women, period. White, black, Indian, Asian, short, tall, big, small. Every female has a redeeming factor and a delectable body part!

[luscious]

I see that many BBW women or more excepting of the CD/TG/TG/TS/DQ life style.

especially the ones that love fashion,hair and makeup.

[tammyfb]

LOL. I had to read this thread just to figure out what a BBW was. I guess I'm more naive than I thought. I agree with Jennialy though.


I <3 women, period. White, black, Indian, Asian, short, tall, big, small. Every female has a redeeming factor and a delectable body part!

[Ressie]

A psychological reason that some men are attracted to large women has something to do with their mother. As a child one's mother is much bigger, and the reality is many men find their mom attractive and carry the size difference into adulthood. CDs are also often attracted to their mothers, of course this is all Freudian.

[Jenni Yumiko]

I think though generally speaking, not just in the crossdresser realm, that some guys are attracted to bigger women because they are more open minded and willing to do anything, as well as they (the guy) feel like they will have lower self esteem and would be easier to control. (Drew this conclusion due to two of my good friends are BBW's and they generally attract this type)

[Ann Louise]

I can’t say what I think about this thread because the forum rules don’t allow it.:straightface:

Indeed, Suzy. But, whatever, no? Chazity sure has a sense of humor though

[AllyCDTV]

Not this one. I like to look at people who are fit.

[Eryn]

I thought the mods would pick up on trolls like this.

What may be interpreted as a troll to one person may be interpreted by another as a fascinating question.

I don't think that CDers are any different from the general population in their tastes.

No one can match the emaciated and photoshopped standard of beauty in today's fashion media so the majority of people would have characteristics of BBW.

[paula_16]

Because they like their Big Beautiful Wardrobe?

[Nicole Erin]

To me it seems like men who are into BBW also have a thing for TG women.

[UNDERDRESSER]

No. My GF considers herself, ahem...."Streamlined"

While I'm not locked into a particular body type, ( personality and intelligence more important ) she does have the kind of slim, fit look that i gravitate to.

[darla_g]

wow that was out of left field. Chazity is that your observation or your preference regarding BBW?

[Ann Louise]

I want to apologize to Chazity, and the mods, for calling this post a troll. I didn't know what the term "BBW" signified, and should have researched before I let my fingers do the talking. I really must get out more. Elfin

[sometimes_miss]

Didn't I just read this question on POF.com?? Oh well. AFAIK, crossdressers aren't any different from anyone else in this regard. You will find some who like skinny women, some who like normal women, and some who like fat women. The 'magic number' is the 70% waist hip ratio. The further away from that you get, the less men who will be interested in a female. But there will always be a few.
Me, my eyes are drawn towards slim women with long hair. But it has to be women; guys are a total turn off.

[Leslie Langford]

...Women who are very large tend to have been abused by society (pretty brutally in some cases) and tend to be more sympathetic toward those who, not unlike themselves, look different and otherwise fall outside of what mainstream society thinks is acceptable...

There is a lot of truth to what you say, Vicki. From personal experience, I can vouch for the fact that tall (6' +) and BBW-type GG's seem to be particularly CD-friendly and supportive. Must be that kinship they feel for us for the reasons you have already stated...

[tanya_m]

I like BBW women. Do I think it has to do something with my crossdressing ? - No, I don't think so. But as others said I like all women. Every woman can be attractive with something in her.

[Tara D. Rose]

It's starting to get a little crazy on here and this subject. So are we now asking(yes we are asking), that do straight cross dressers like BBW? Of course that is the question. Why does it have to be straight cross dresser in the question? Could it have not been asked why do cross dressers like BBW? I haven't seen this to be the case at all. Couldn't we ask, why do men like BBW? Or why do straight men(non cd), like BBW? Why is the question so loaded as though it is already established that "straight" cross dressers like BBW? Can not a bi CD like BBW. Can straight CD's not like BBW? Can bi men like BBW?
Well I'm married now, but I like BBW or just BW. But men lose here. It's like this, if a women has a lot of extra pounds, she can claim the title of BBW, but if a man is quite large, can he call himself and would all of society call him a BBM?? Heck no, he is just called a big fat man. It's never been a fair world.

[Beverley Sims]

I like slender elegant women.
If they have a moronic personality I will pick the one with a little intelligence.
At least I can have a meaningful conversation.

[AmyGaleRT]

I dress and I like larger women (my fiancee is one), but I don't necessarily think the two are connected.

Aside: One of the DJs on a SiriusXM station made this point the other day...ever notice that there are no good pop songs about women with small tushies? Whereas, on the opposite side, we have the obvious "Baby Got Back," Queen's immortal "Fat Bottomed Girls," and the equally-immortal "Big Bottom" by Spinal Tap. :D

- Amy

[Brooke Smith]

At the risk of being controversial,if you have observed a preference for BBW by CD's,could it be that CD's look for women that might be more understanding of people that don't fit neatly into the standard ideal of a man.

More easily explained,the big man on campus dates the hot cheer leader, (Ken gets Barbie) while the CD,less secure,dates the fat girl.

I'm running for cover because I realize this can't be true for everyone. Just making an observation.

[ReluctantDebutant]

I don't know about anybody else but I think the appeal that BBWs have on cross-dressers might be its achievability. I noticed this myself when I came across the video on YouTube featuring "Legeffects". An ingenious homemade hip butt and leg padding that gave the male frame a very realistic looking BBW shell. A few years ago I made a pair myself and the change in my appearance was phenomenal. Instead of trying in vain to look like a bean pole supermodel like it now achieve a very Rubenesque appearance. After this I began to appreciate more the plus size model community.

[Stephanie47]

Anyone really interested in exclusively enjoying the company of BBW may want to vacation in Samoa. I may be accused off presenting sterotypes, but, some of the responses really seem to promote sterotypical thoughts. When I stand behind a young woman in the store with a BMI of over forty buying a liter of pop and two candy bars, I do not see BBW. I see physical and mental health issues.

[CassandraSmith]

I have found myself fascinated with tall women lately especially if we could share clothes; however, I like my women fairly trim and if I could have anything I wanted, a little athletic and about 5'8" 140 or so. Basically HWP.

*****
Brooke, there may some truth to that. Also, as an aside, a really cool BBW photographer once propositioned me to do some erotic modeling involving rope. I was too insecure to do that but I thanked her for the wonderful offer!

[GG7irish]

Ok I have to post. Not trying to step on any toes so bear with me please. I used to be anorexic and now am at the opposite end...as a BBW. I am accepting and in love with my SO. It has nothing to do with being BBW since I have experienced both sides of the weight issue. I was taught to be accepting of others. Also being in the dance world I saw many different types of people. I feel if you can accept yourself and be happy in your own skin it helps you be more accepting of others and maybe BBW are just more confident people.
So I guess my point is that being a CD or BBW it is all about accepting those around you and not putting labels on.

[Andy66]

Women are like flowers in a field... there are many different kinds, but all are beautiful in their own way. :love:

[Allison Chaynes]

Yes some of us are. Probably because those of us who are anorexically challenged like me can share their clothes!

[AshleeM]

I've found myself attracted to larger women on many occasions, in my eyes they are kinder and much more accepting of non traditional males. While I consider myself just as manly as any other guy women that society would say are "beautiful" tend to freak out when I share my crossdressing with them. It's as if they think I am in competition with them when in reality, I don't consider myself any where close to them! Though I have run into exceptions for both, you have to be careful not to give everyone a unanimous label because you will find yourself missing out on some great friends!

[AmyB93]

I love BBW's because there is more to love. I dated a woman who was 110 lbs. It felt like I was going to break her in half every time we had sex. So from that point on, yes some skinny women look good, but I choose BBW's all the way!!

[NicoleScott]

Irish, stating a preference isn't rejecting others that don't fit the preference description. I think there are beautiful women (and CD's) of all types, but I really like the look of Asians. I like proportioned women, and prefer a little smaller boobs than a little bigger. I'm straight.

[Karren H]

Because they like their Big Beautiful Wardrobe?

Exactly.... I always chose my girlfriends based on their dress size! lol. lucky for me im not that big so neither were my girlfriends......

[KarenCDFL]

I don't think it is a rule of thumb.

I personally do have a liking for larger women and I have noticed that in the majority, larger seem to be more "Girlie Girls" possibly to offset their larger size issues in society.

Most of the larger women that I am friends with, I have met or work with on a regular basis are always dressed very well, makeup and nails done where smaller ladies do not.

This could be just the way I view people and what I am attracted to and notice.

[PertyX]

I'm err... Heavily into big girls. Not sure if it's in any way connected to my dressing up, though!

All the experiences I've had in bed with big girls have been mind blowing.

[CassandraSmith]

I'm not really into what's known as BBW myself. I like women who are about 5'6" and HWP. I like a little muscle though.

I'm strictly hetero also. I thought the majority of us were?

[AmandaM]

I would say that straight crossdressers are no different than other men, they like women who like them.

[MissTee]

I don't have a preference, and admit I had no idea what a BBW was until I Googled it because of this thread. {she says as she climbs back inside her bubble . . .} :battingeyelashes:

[KateSpade83]

My preference for women is a woman that can fit into my clothes, size 4 to 8. So Ideally she will be withing 2 inches of 5' 4" tall and a size 6, which was exactly Britney Spears when she was young and fit.

[Sophie_C]

Ok, look, the OP isn't off in one thing: Kink. As fetishistic crossdressing is a 'kink', so are things like people being into leather, foot fetishes, etc. Basically, their sexuality is a bit more 'amped up' than most. And, a BBW fetish is another thing in someone who has an 'amped up' sexuality, just like people being into any other crazy thing imaginable. I don't judge, but it's not like the OP is off. If more amped up people have a higher chance to be crossdressers, then they have a higher chance to also be into BBW things. Good for them. Everyone deserves to be loved, so it's a win all-around, IMO...

[Vicky_Scot]

If you like the bigger women, you're in luck.
There seems to be no shortage of them these days.

Reading between the lines of your post I would say that's not very nice.

[Jenni Yumiko]

This thread is going off topic, returning to topic.
I think what OP is fishing for is acceptance, (could be wrong, i am a lot :-)) and do you feel or do heavier GGs feel they are more accepting of TS people.
My personal experience is it is not really measurable and shouldn't be the basis of what you look for in a person. Like I stated before, women no matter shape or size all have a hot part. And personality wise, I have met and been with self centered skinny and heavy people and really nice skinny and heavier people, skinny accepting people, heavier accepting people, its how your raised and how you look at the world that determines your disposition and outlook on life, relationships.

[Lorileah]

Back on subject. Otherwise this thread is history.

[Chickhe]

I don't care if she does drive a BMW! As long as she is a BFF.

[Kerstin]

I don't really get the BBW thing, but each to their own!

[Eryn]

Folks, I had to clean up several OT posts in this thread. I'll remind everyone that this thread is about CDers' possible affinity for BBW (Big Beautiful Women). Stick to that topic, please.

Eryn

[Janet Bern]

I believe Brooke Smith is correct in her comment.

[docrobbysherry]

Folks, I had to clean up several OT posts in this thread. I'll remind everyone that this thread is about CDers' possible affinity for BBW (Big Beautiful Women). Stick to that topic, please.

Eryn
Thank u, Eryn! I wasn't sure the OP meant that or "Big Black Women".

However, in either case, I don't have any idea if "they" r interested in CD's or not. And, after reading the mostly sexist replies above, I think few other TG's know either!

While I'm not offended by the posts, I'll bet some GGs r. So, I'm out!

[Tamara Croft]

If you like the bigger women, you're in luck.
There seems to be no shortage of them these days.No shortages of asses either... :rolleyes: