A question for all the gurls

[deejay_blaze]

OK, first off, I am not trying to degrade anyone with this question. I always hear how CD's complain about nobody takes the time to understand them. Well I am hear to try and do just that.

For those who practice the homosexual lifestyle, how do you exactly justify that it's a correct thing to do? Obviously, it is clear that a woman's and male's anatomy is designed for each to "fit" together. Don't any of those who practice this lifestyle question why the male on male anatomy doesn't exactly fit well? Are you concerned with the fact that two males were not made to procreate and instead only man and woman are? How would you support that this type of lifestyle is legitimate as far as sexual acts go?

Sorry but I don't know how else to ask it.
My apologies.

[Starr]

First of all.. you are taking for granted the fact that all CD's are gay.. many are married straight men who would never have sex with another man. Then of course you have some who are gay... and i am not going to get into that discussion at all... Then you have those who are trans and feel more in line with the female thinking to the point that they feel they should have been born female..
Then look at your questions? They show you are not looking to understand by making statements in your questions... "Obviously, it is clear that a female and male anatmoy is designed to fit together."
If you are serious, ask simple questions, don't make statements based on your thinking.. and LISTEN to what the other person has to say.
You don't have to agree, you don't have to understand, but it would be nice if you listened with an open mind... who knows you might learn something.

[~Joanne~]

I agree with all of what Starr said and couldn't word it better if i tried.

[Badtranny]

OK, first off, I am not trying to degrade anyone with this question. I always hear how CD's complain about nobody takes the time to understand them. Well I am hear to try and do just that.

For those who practice the homosexual lifestyle, how do you exactly justify that it's a correct thing to do?

Are you aware that the overwhelming majority of Cross-Dressers are hetero? I think you would get more action if you went to a homosexual forum and asked this same question.

HOWEVER, some here are in fact gay or bi, and I myself was a practicing homosexual before I transitioned so I'll go ahead and engage with you on this fun topic.

I never justified that it was the correct thing to do. I was attracted to men the way you're attracted to women. No justification necessary. In regard to the fitment of the anatomy, it has always been interesting to me that homosexuals exist at all. On the face of it, rampant homosexuality could mean the end of a species. It doesn't seem like a very intelligent design, UNLESS you factor in data that shows only a small minority of any species turns out to be homosexual. Perhaps it is nature's way of controlling over population?

Who knows? All I can tell you is that sexual attraction is something that is way beyond our control. I grew up a gay boy who desperately wanted to be straight. Believe me, if it was possible for me to like girls the way I liked boys then I would have been a happy straight kid. As it turns out, I grew up closeted and hating myself until I eventually came out, and then realized that I was actually Transgender, so I transitioned and now I'm a legal female. How's that for interesting?

I'm straight now, if that's any solace.

[RADER]

Welcome Deejay to the forum;
You ask some interesting questions; Now you say man and girl fit together, thats true.
You might say it was designed that way. Now if a man transitions to a female, in a séance
He is now a She, and after surgery, will be able to "Fit" with a man. Now you mention
"Procreate"; well there are many real woman who for one reason or another can not
reproduce, so is the Trans person. I believe in live and let live, if two people of any sex
live together, and are happy, let them alone.
There are a lot of Gay people out there of both sexes, Nobody is questioning them on how to live.
So This forum is more about a person dressing or acting in the opposite clothes than what
they where originally born for. Many men who wear women's clothes are as strait as an arrow.
They are family men and adore their wives and kids. Some here are transitions, and some just
live the lifestyle of the other sex. We are not looking to be judge, just to give encouragement to.
Rader

[Tamara Croft]

OK, first off, I am not trying to degrade anyone with this question.Well you could have fooled me, seems like you've just degraded everyone who is gay, CD'er or not :rolleyes:


For those who practice the homosexual lifestyle, how do you exactly justify that it's a correct thing to do?What? are you serious? you think that gay people need to justify being gay? are you delirious?


Obviously, it is clear that a woman's and male's anatomy is designed for each to "fit" together.Oh wow.... is it really? Goodness me, you learn something new everyday....


Don't any of those who practice this lifestyle question why the male on male anatomy doesn't exactly fit well?It doesn't? have you tried it then? do you know first hand it doesn't fit? Obviously, it is CLEAR to me you must have some first hand experience, or how would you even know??


Are you concerned with the fact that two males were not made to procreate and instead only man and woman are?Now I know you're delirious, this is 2013, there are other ways to conceive, not just by having sex, would you like me to enlighten you?? :rolleyes:


How would you support that this type of lifestyle is legitimate as far as sexual acts go?I think their type of lifestyle is actually none of your business and I'm wondering why you're on my board asking such questions. You clearly aren't a CD'er, so why are you here? to question my members? to insult them? You've got some explaining to do, I don't like your line of questioning, this is a support forum, not a 'let's question the gays forum'...


Sorry but I don't know how else to ask it.Maybe you shouldn't have!


My apologies.If you're sorry, you shouldn't have asked, your questions are offensive.

[katlee]

Please close and lets not feed the troll.

[Sara Jessica]

This is what can happen when admission is granted by being able to fog up a mirror. Thank goodness stuff like this is very rare in these pages, something which I am grateful for.

[Jenniferathome]

Well, I am a straight cross dresser. I'm married/straight, like most cross dressers.

By the way, I am a cross dresser due to genetics. I was born this way, JUST LIKE homosexuals. It is not a lifestyle or a choice. They are born that way. Just as you have been born an ignoramus. Don't forget to exhale after every breath in:-)

[NathalieX66]

I'm straight now, if that's any solace.

Great answer, problem solved.:thumbsup:

I strongly believe sexuality is not a moral issue, but a brain wiring issue....like being left handed. It is something that is inherent, and will never go away. 10% of the population is left handed....would you call them not normal? Or an Abomination in the eyes of the Great One Upstairs?

Those who happen to be transsexual are also wired that way.

As for me, I was always jealous of the way women express themselves.

I was also born with a pretty severe hearing defect called otosclerosis, and even though it's surgically correctable , I choose to wear a hearing aid. I cannot live without it. Would it be fair to say that I was born in the brain of someone with perfect hearing, even though my physical body does not match?

[Beverley Sims]

I welcome you to the forum but I think you nee to read a few posts so as you will be able ask questions people understand and they can answer coherently.
Ask simple questions without providing your own answers or views in them.

[Diana Bain]

You have no clue about us. Please leave....and don't swim in the gene pool...wouldn't want to know you made more like you!

[NathalieX66]

Diana, let's inform and teach, not write someone off.
I accept deejay's apologies, and now let's forgive, teach, and move forward.

[Marleena]

Sorry but I don't know how else to ask it.



Your mistake was asking it at all. Do you own Chic-Fil-A by any chance?:D

[ReineD]

For those who practice the homosexual lifestyle, how do you exactly justify that it's a correct thing to do?

What exactly is your understanding of biology and the vast range of physical variances that occur among human beings?

Also, do you believe in evolution?

If your answer to the above two questions is None and No, then I'm suggesting that you've been sold a bill of goods by the people who were responsible for your education. If I were you, I'd become better educated. This will expand your horizons.

Also, like the others I cannot emphasize enough that the vast majority of crossdressers are married to women, have children, and are not sexually attracted to men. This is NOT why they crossdress.

[Tamara Croft]

So, Taylermade, this is you... tut tut... adios, thread done.