BillieAnneJean
02-13-2013, 10:55 AM
Ladies,
I had lunch out enfemme with a new girl Monday. It was her first time out enfemme with another CDer. She had a good time and emailed me her happiness and thanks.
Shelly (not her real name) is a big girl. She is as tall as me but probably almost twice my size. But she was radiant, lovely, she had really put some effort in to her appearance. I was completely comfortable with her both outside on main street and in the restaurant. Part of that was certainly because Shelly is made of sugar and spice. The waitress was sweet and received a good tip, although I suspect she would have been sweet regardless. Shelly and I split a $8.00 half pound burger with wedge fries. For each it was a cheap lunch. The main thing is Shelly was happy and her confidence was boosted. We will meet again.
So if you are a bigger girl, don't compare your size to the GGs and decide that there is no way you can go out enfemme. Match yourself up with some other CDers who are not petite. Find a CD partner. Select and control the atmosphere with the time and location. Then get OUT. Have FUN. You are helping the USofA increase the level of acceptance and tolerance. It spreads as people become used to those not perfect like themselves. One day maybe everyone will truly feel free.
I wore a dark pink miniskirt (just above the knees) and wide belt with a big buckle in the front over black leggings and black heeled boots. On top I had a black blouse. Of course false nails, the wig, shapers, pads, forms, cincher, makeup, women's glasses, watch, wedding ring set, earrings, bracelets and a matching purse. Oh and my long glorious shiny faux fur coat. I swoon every time I get to wear it. I felt SO pretty and feminine. All my baggage went in to a sealed container and I was free to just be who I wanted to be.
I am forming a CDer support group. I want to help others find happiness and acceptance. We have a very private and safe place to get dressed and meet. PM me for details.
Billie
PS: Thank you for this site!
I had lunch out enfemme with a new girl Monday. It was her first time out enfemme with another CDer. She had a good time and emailed me her happiness and thanks.
Shelly (not her real name) is a big girl. She is as tall as me but probably almost twice my size. But she was radiant, lovely, she had really put some effort in to her appearance. I was completely comfortable with her both outside on main street and in the restaurant. Part of that was certainly because Shelly is made of sugar and spice. The waitress was sweet and received a good tip, although I suspect she would have been sweet regardless. Shelly and I split a $8.00 half pound burger with wedge fries. For each it was a cheap lunch. The main thing is Shelly was happy and her confidence was boosted. We will meet again.
So if you are a bigger girl, don't compare your size to the GGs and decide that there is no way you can go out enfemme. Match yourself up with some other CDers who are not petite. Find a CD partner. Select and control the atmosphere with the time and location. Then get OUT. Have FUN. You are helping the USofA increase the level of acceptance and tolerance. It spreads as people become used to those not perfect like themselves. One day maybe everyone will truly feel free.
I wore a dark pink miniskirt (just above the knees) and wide belt with a big buckle in the front over black leggings and black heeled boots. On top I had a black blouse. Of course false nails, the wig, shapers, pads, forms, cincher, makeup, women's glasses, watch, wedding ring set, earrings, bracelets and a matching purse. Oh and my long glorious shiny faux fur coat. I swoon every time I get to wear it. I felt SO pretty and feminine. All my baggage went in to a sealed container and I was free to just be who I wanted to be.
I am forming a CDer support group. I want to help others find happiness and acceptance. We have a very private and safe place to get dressed and meet. PM me for details.
Billie
PS: Thank you for this site!