linda allen
03-01-2013, 07:55 AM
Almost out. Not "outed", out of the house.
My wife generally accepts my dressing and she often picks out clothing and jewelry for me when we are out shopping. She's OK with me dressing around the house but deathly afraid of neighbors or friends seeing me dressed. I see her point, it woud be pretty embarassing and hard to live down.
I've been trying to find a way to get out of the house dressed. My plan has been to leave with her after dark, walk to the car and ride away as if I were a female friend of hers (if anybody saw us, that would be the story).
Yesterday, I drove her fifty miles from home to look at some puppies (she wants one). She asked me to take some pictures and of course I did. When we got home she asked me if I could send them to Walmart for prints and I did. She wanted the prints to show her friends this morning so she suggested driving to Walmart to oick them up. She asked if I wanted to go with her or if she should go by herself.
Sensing my opportunity, I suggested that we wait until dark and I would dress and we could go together. She said "Into Walmart with your boobs on?" and I said no, I would wait in the car.
There was some hemming and hawing and she finally said "It's up to you." I said, OK, lets wait until it's dark and I'll get dressed and we'll go.
For anyone who has been married for more than a few months, you know that when your wife tells you something is "up to you", it really isn't.
I thought about it for a while and then went to her and said something on the order of "This is bothering you, isn't it?" She said "Yes" and told me about her fears of being seen, the possibility of an accident or breakdown, etc. I said "OK, I'll dress like a man and we can go." so we did.
On the way, we had some more discussion about her fears and what I could do to minimize the chance of problems. She talked about how she was trying to understand my dressing and we both talked about how much we love each other.
So - I'm still not out of the house dressed, but the seed has been planted and I've started watering and fertilizing it.
My wife generally accepts my dressing and she often picks out clothing and jewelry for me when we are out shopping. She's OK with me dressing around the house but deathly afraid of neighbors or friends seeing me dressed. I see her point, it woud be pretty embarassing and hard to live down.
I've been trying to find a way to get out of the house dressed. My plan has been to leave with her after dark, walk to the car and ride away as if I were a female friend of hers (if anybody saw us, that would be the story).
Yesterday, I drove her fifty miles from home to look at some puppies (she wants one). She asked me to take some pictures and of course I did. When we got home she asked me if I could send them to Walmart for prints and I did. She wanted the prints to show her friends this morning so she suggested driving to Walmart to oick them up. She asked if I wanted to go with her or if she should go by herself.
Sensing my opportunity, I suggested that we wait until dark and I would dress and we could go together. She said "Into Walmart with your boobs on?" and I said no, I would wait in the car.
There was some hemming and hawing and she finally said "It's up to you." I said, OK, lets wait until it's dark and I'll get dressed and we'll go.
For anyone who has been married for more than a few months, you know that when your wife tells you something is "up to you", it really isn't.
I thought about it for a while and then went to her and said something on the order of "This is bothering you, isn't it?" She said "Yes" and told me about her fears of being seen, the possibility of an accident or breakdown, etc. I said "OK, I'll dress like a man and we can go." so we did.
On the way, we had some more discussion about her fears and what I could do to minimize the chance of problems. She talked about how she was trying to understand my dressing and we both talked about how much we love each other.
So - I'm still not out of the house dressed, but the seed has been planted and I've started watering and fertilizing it.