Have you ever CD'd with someone else

[ThatTabooFeeling]

Hi... this is aimed mostly at those like me who experience CD as a sexual/fetish thing, rather than a more personal need. Have you ever tried dressing up with someone else? I am longing to try this, but haven't yet met the right guy. Tell me your experiences!

[Mikaylagirl]

My first time with another male. We were both crossdressed and we both had a our great "first times" together.
It was a total sexual thing for both of us. We met online and found that we lived within a few hours of each other. Chatted for several weeks,exchanged some pics,thoughts n desires. Got to know each other as much as possible via the internet (which I was very skeptical of...not actually meeting the person "in person").
Never talked on the phone and "Brandy" never wanted to. Which I later found out,that she didn't want her "male" voice to ruin anything. Understood. She was coming through a city close to me and she got a room and invited me to stop in for a "play date". I was soooo excited. A few hours before,I took good care to shave 100%. Packed my lingerie into my back pack and away I went.
Brandy texted me the hotel and room info. I stopped and got some beer,to help de-edge us. When I knocked on her room door,she was as her male self. Which I didnt think anything of. We had a few drinks,chatted for about 30 minutes and both decided to get changed. Their were two queens beds in the room and the one she had various different lingerie sets layed out. She asked me to choose one. I picked out,for her to wear,a cute black bordered with hot pink set. She went to the bathroom to get dressed and I took advantage of the full size mirror and vanity in the room. My lingerie was all black. Ok,Im a rebel.
Interjection>>> Brandy: 5'9",160lbs,thin/fit build(yay me)
Me: 5'8",150lbs,thin/fit build,
I wore a black baby doll,with garter and thigh high stockings. No panties. Platform,open toe heels. I have my own natural hair and did up a little "I Dream Of Jeanie" number. I then sat there doing my eyes and lipsticks.
When Brandy came out of bathroom dressed in heels and lingerie,she wore a short blonde wig. Think,Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman,when she was a hooker in the beginning...with a short blonde wig.
Brandy looked just yummy. She strutted over to the love seat and sat down. I approached her and she noticed I wasnt wearing panties.
I stood in front of her and told her coyly that,panties are for sissies.
I leaned into her and as I asked her "do you kiss"? She replied by slowly leaning up,into me slipping her tongue onto mine.
She then stood up,took her panties off and it was game on from there on!
Sorry....not able to go any further than that publicly. For another 8 hrs we enjoyed every aspect of our intentions and we both rocked each other. She looked great. I looked great. For both of us it was a great first time. Ive never got together with her again after that night nor any other crossdresser (due to I cant find another willing playmate in my area).
I remember it as it was yesterday. Probably one of the best days of my life actually!

[Ressie]

Had the experience once (long ago) and it wasn't very good. I had a beard at the time and neither one of us were fem enough to come close any fantasies. My guess is this thread will be deleted!

[deebra]

Mikaylagirl, being this good why didn't you make it a regular get together, especially if you couldn't find another???????????

[Leelou]

I for one hope this thread doesn't get deleted. I think Mikayla did a wonderful job of sharing the experience without getting into explicit detail. Thanks, Mikayla!

I find this topic very interesting and it appears on this board from time to time. The only way I could ever be with a guy is with another crossdresser. I find other CD's to be very alluring. Anyone that can soften their masculine side to the extent of wearing women's clothes is a kindred spirit that interests me.

[marion]

I too would love to experience a shared girly experience. Find the thought very exciting to be honest x

[docrobbysherry]

Great post, Mykayla!

I think a lot of sex is performed by camming now. It's completely safe and u can sign off any time! I've experimented with camming as Sherry with web users who claimed to be GG's.

[AlanaG]

I too would love to have this experience. Very hard to find the right person.

[Lorileah]

Note: Potentially this thread can go way off the rails. It already has violated some rules that has been edited. This is NOT a porn site. This is NOT Penthouse forum. Details about sexual encounters will be deleted and this will be closed if it goes there.

Really people, ya all read the rules.:hwac:

[AllyCDTV]

I've done quite a bit of camming with other CD's but that's as far as it's gone for me. I'd be very concerned that the illusion would completely break down in real life.

[stephNE]

I have limited my CD activities to only my wife. I have thought about others and we have talked about who we might tell the secret to, but we haven't told anyone else yet. Almost all of our friends have children who know our children, so a secret wouldn't stay so for long. Steph.

[xxLaurenCDxx]

I haven't but it is something that has always interested me. A helping hand to do make-up or say how the outfit looks would be nice.

[CdD Janessa]

I too would like to meet someone on here or somewhere who likes to crossdress snd go out to a club or something but havent met anyone dont know if I ever will either

[nhlighthouse]

You are one lucky SOB! YOU ROCK! so when are you coming to the southern NH area?

[CdD Janessa]

I doubt I make it there anytime soon when r u coming down here cuz I dont yravel much

[MysticLady]

I would love to meet other CD's and enjoy their company for coffee and "gossip":heehee:. But I wouldn't want to meet for sexual purposes. I would love to just spend the day with girlfriends. Im a virgin when it comes to being with another man and though sometimes I do fantasize being with a another CD or transexual woman I don't want to really experience it. I want to remain a virgin:heehee:

[NicoleScott]

I would love to meet other CD's and enjoy their company for coffee and "gossip". But I wouldn't want to meet for sexual purposes. I would love to just spend the day with girlfriends.

A little clarification from the OP would be helpful. It wasn't clear if the OP wanted to meet for sexual purposes, or if the dressing itself was a sexual/fetish thing, and just wanted to meet like-minded CDers, as MysticLady said, for coffee and companionship.
There is a sexual/fetish aspect to my dressing, and I would love to meet LIKE-MINDED CDers for companionship and conversation, but without any sexual activities. There would be a purpose to this kind of meeting which would not be possible to achieve with a CDer with a strong internal feminine identity and wanting to be a girl while denying any sexual component to dressing.

[Beverley Sims]

Hmmm! I thought I replied to this thread but maybe not.
It is interesting to cd with another as you get to see what they wear and experience.
I have always had a bevvy of girls to dress me and they had a wide variety of suitable clothing to throw on me at any one time.
The girl who could get me to wear most of her gear was the winner.

[Ressie]

A little clarification from the OP would be helpful. It wasn't clear if the OP wanted to meet for sexual purposes, or if the dressing itself was a sexual/fetish thing, and just wanted to meet like-minded CDers, as MysticLady said, for coffee and companionship.
There is a sexual/fetish aspect to my dressing, and I would love to meet LIKE-MINDED CDers for companionship and conversation, but without any sexual activities. There would be a purpose to this kind of meeting which would not be possible to achieve with a CDer with a strong internal feminine identity and wanting to be a girl while denying any sexual component to dressing.

Maybe I'm mis-reading between the lines, but it sounds like a sexual encounter is the intent. Dressing up with someone else and sexual/fetish kind of implies something behind closed doors. And the OP is new here, unaware of the rules and culture of this forum.

[cathie pantyhose]

Ive been with a gg who loved it when I dressed and a gay male who also loved it when I dressed but never with another cd. The gg was a girlfriend I had on the side during my first marriage as was the guy. They were pretty close to the same time and my only regret was it didn't happen together....

Personally I'm not sure I could do that again although I have no regrets over either. Both were great experience but I knew both very well before revealing my cd habits. Trust is very challenging for me especially in regards to dressing fem. I suppose I could again but it would really have to be the right situation.

[Kelly Smith]

Hi... this is aimed mostly at those like me who experience CD as a sexual/fetish thing, rather than a more personal need. Have you ever tried dressing up with someone else? I am longing to try this, but haven't yet met the right guy. Tell me your experiences!

No, but - with the right partner - it would be a blast.

[Veronnie2]

One word answer here for me.....YES. veronnie2

[Carol A]

No not yet as the wife is still alive, but one day it will happen and then I will know what it is like.

[Karren H]

I've dressed with a couple of local crossdressers but there was nothing sexual about it.... I have this over riding issue with being faithful to the person im married to.. lol.

[monalisa]

It seems with all the members on here who would like to get together with other crossdressers that it should be easier to meet and connect. Maybe we need a match making service or have a convention in each state.

[deebra]

Isn't the best way to do this is just join a CD club in your city, I'm sure you'll find straights, bi's and gay's; then you choose.

[PaulaQ]

Maybe we need a match making service or have a convention in each state.

Is it just me, or are there not links for crossdresser personals at the bottom of every page on this site?

[Kelly Smith]

Is it just me, or are there not links for crossdresser personals at the bottom of every page on this site?
I just checked that out. It's a paid dating site with numbers that don't add up.

[PaulaQ]

I just checked that out. It's a paid dating site with numbers that don't add up.
It has no connection with this site, then? I'm sorry if that is a dumb question, I'm new here and stuff. :)

[Teri Ray]

I have met and dressed with other crossdressers on rare occasions. Sharing this passion to dress enfemme in person is so much different than discussing it on the internet. All meetings have been non sexual and never were intended to be that way.

[Pythos]

My close friend is a fellow CDer, and we have gone to parties dressed. I as usual am my androgynous fem self, but my friend was full fledged.
Oh wait, I have gone to a meetup with two other freinds Cross dressed, and I was full fem. That was a long time ago. One of my friends more cosplayed an anime character, but my other was more cross dressed.

[Laura28]

i would love to meet another to dress with with, my wife has encourged me to explore if i haver the desire not sure i could any further then dressing.

[ReineD]

Hi... this is aimed mostly at those like me who experience CD as a sexual/fetish thing, rather than a more personal need. Have you ever tried dressing up with someone else? I am longing to try this, but haven't yet met the right guy. Tell me your experiences!

You're in the wrong forum for meetups, at least publicly, although I'm sure there are some members who will contact you privately if they're interested. If you're looking for sexual experiences you might check out these sites, in addition to the sites at the bottom of this page:

http://www.tgdatingsite.com
http://transgenderdate.com/index.php?login=1
http://tgpersonals.com
http://www.transpassions.com

There is also craigslist, adultfriendfinder.com, plentyoffish. And if you post suggestive pics on flickr you'll soon have plenty of admirers and other CDers leaving flirty messages so maybe you could find contacts there. And according to some of our members' personal experiences, you could always join any social site and state in your profile that you are TG, bi, and looking. Admirers and like-minded CDers troll those sites as well.

If I've misread you and you're not looking for sexual experiences then you could google any TG outreach support group in your area. My SO belongs to a great group that meets monthly. Spouses, partners, and family members are also invited and it's a good place to make friends, although the shared activities are dinner and social chat and not dressing together alone. But, there are always a few people who go out to TG and LGBT clubs for drinks afterwards and I'm sure that every group has a few members who are looking for meetups as well, so you could give that a try.

Good luck!

[Xandra]

Not yet; but I'd love to.

[Billie Jean]

No sexual fantasy but I crossdressed with the maintinence man at work for a function once. Bllie Jean

[adrienner99]

I once had a girlfriend who found a photo of me dressed and confronted me. I told here my whole history of CDing, and after she got over the shock, she actually embraced it and began helping me dress...She had many other problems and we did not stay together...but it was wild while it lasted...The first time, she sat next to me while I did my makeup...I picked up my lipstick and could not bring myself to open it or put it on...She coaxed me, and I finally put on my Chanel True Red--while she watched...it was unbelieveable...I am not gay and have never dressed with or for a man.

[SandraInHose]

I would love to meet other CD's and enjoy their company for coffee and "gossip":heehee:. But I wouldn't want to meet for sexual purposes. I would love to just spend the day with girlfriends. Im a virgin when it comes to being with another man and though sometimes I do fantasize being with a another CD or transexual woman I don't want to really experience it. I want to remain a virgin:heehee:

You have summed up my sentiments EXACTLY!

[becky9300]

Would love to be able to find other Ventura county cds or other gurls near by

[SHINY-J]

I want to, but haven't gotten the chance....

[cdmcconnell84]

I wouldn't say that I am a CD for purely sexual / fetish reasons, but I can very much get a sort of sexual thrill by being with a man dressed en femme.

For me personally though I probably wouldn't really want to "get dressed" with another partner. I don't like others seeing the transition as I feel like it detracts from the "illusion" I'm going for.

In a non-sexual environment though I'd be very interested in getting the help of other transgurls or GGs for sure!

[falcongts]

I want to Also So bad , tried CL but have not met anyone so far . One person wants me to help them dress up but just not sure about that so far

[AmandaBlack]

Never have...but it's a fantasy of mine to do so.

[Bonnie Stone]

Haven't yet, but met friend in VA and we have a day planned to dress and share thoughts and ideas, friends only

[MsJanessa]

I have met with other CDs lots of times---some meetings were wonderful and developed into regular relationships, others were disasters and still more were inbetween---If you would like to know more, send me a pm and I'll be happy to go into detail, but I'm not about to talk about it publicly on this particular forum.

[Tracii G]

Oh crap! This thread won't last long.

[danielletorresani]

I would LOVE to CD with someone in Vegas, but I've yet to find what I'm looking for.

[Leighcdmd]

Like Janessa, I have met with other CDs on many occasions and like anything else in life sometimes it was great and other times not so great. It all depends on who you are with and again, like anything else in life, attitude.

[Kelly Smith]

No, but I would love to give it a try:battingeyelashes:

[Cindia]

I haven't been with another CD, though have been with men while dressed. The main reason I think is that for me I want to be all girl in the encounter which to me means ignoring my male parts. Lately I have been thinking it might be fun to try though.

[AmandaM]

So temptling....

[donnatracey]

Yes, tempting indeed! I'm also amazed the thread has lasted almost 2 weeks.....:doh: