Stuck in fem mode!?

[Missy]

been dressing for most of my life. Wife and family members know about my clothing habits, and even got me items for chirstmas and birthday gifts. lately been having the urge to go male mode and when I do I get from my Wife "Are you ok? or hey you are not wearing a bra!" So now it seems if I dress it ok but when I just want to be male I have to explain why. so I feel stuck in fem mode

(be carefull what you ask for you just might get it ) keep going though my mind

[Kate Simmons]

I'm not understanding the problem my friend. You can be whoever you want to be or wear whatever you want to wear you know.:)

[Raychel]

Yeh, Maybe a little bit jealous here.

[Beverley Sims]

Just remember the joy and delight train can easily be derailed.
Wear what you want when you want,remember others have probably got used to you dressing.
Do you want to destroy that image.

[carhill2mn]

And your problem is? You can still be "male mode" if and when you want.

[BobbieBrooks]

Oh my, many here wish they had your problem. They get "you want to wear what?" Congrat's on being in that kind of relationship.

[jillleanne]

Yep, know that one also. I would imagine it's quite normal for us all at some point. I get caught up in gender disphoria and have to spend most of my time just dealing with it in a neutral way until it passes.

[Sarah Doepner]

Just laugh at their suggestions and since you seem to have the choice, wear the clothing you want. They will have to relate to you, not what you are wearing and that's a good thing.

[Patty]

What A problem to have.

[AmyGaleRT]

I'm starting to get a little bit of this...my fiancee will ask me "Are you getting into Amy mode?" when I wasn't planning on it. Be thankful, Missy! This shows how much your wife is really accepting your femme side.

- Amy

[Lainie]

GGs go braless & wear pants--why not you?