For all the singles out there...

[Lady Slipper]

Will you join me?

I pledge on my sacred crossdressing honor that I will tell my SO before marriage about my transgender condition (and I use the term loosely). I will not live in an DADT relationship, I will not hide what I am for the sake of appearances. I am me, and will continue to be me.

Peace and huggs,
Stephanie Marie

[Kalista Jameson]

When I start dating again, that is my plan, but way before we even think marriage. I plan to show her my pantyhose collection on the second date. LOL, maybe, maybe not.

Cheers,

Kalista

[FelicityMay]

heck, I'm finding a girl who loves what I do!
maybe I'll even meet my wife through this haha

[sonna]

if i ever meat a girl shes going to date me as a girl ...aint hidding no more!

[Ressie]

I agree. If I ever get into another serious relationship she will know about Dee. But I've shared my secret with the women in my life since the late '70s.

[Beverley Sims]

I wish you all well in your search.
Make yourself look like an interesting and well groomed person.
When striking up a conversation keep her interested.
She may want to further the conversation with you.

[vivianann]

I pledge to tell her about my crossdressing/transgenderism long before marriage. I hope to meet my future SO while I am dressed enfemme to begin with.

[moniqueCD21]

I plan on women knowing before we even date :) but we take the pledge with you!

[Lorileah]

Hmmm...I think he knows :)

[Lady Slipper]

Any other takers? Come on sisters! :)

[Sheren Kelly]

I've already told her, shown her pictures and been out (in daylight!) with her to a clothing swap, so DADT is OBE.

For those who are acronym challenged:
OBE = Overcome By Events

[docrobbysherry]

Ha ha ha! Sure! Let's all play make believe, girls! Like we'll all be picked prom queen and wear the gown at our weddings?

Fact is, u can make up all the rules and ridiculous stipulations u want. But then, that certain GG will come along and for most of u, your strong resolutions will melt away. And, u will find the words, "Yes, dear. Anything u say, dear", starting to roll off your tongue automatically!

Ha ha! Most of u have no idea of what real life is like, do u? Enjoy your fantasies while u can, girls!

[Melissa73]

ok ill bite! having lived in a relationship./marriage where I didn't dress... I promise when I meet another ..I will tell them all about my dressing!!!

melissa

[Carrie R]

l'll probably remain single, but if I should ever find myself in a relationship I would be completely honest. Why not, many of my friends already know anyways, not a big deal to me to tell. If a woman runs away screaming obviously she would not be the one for me.

[Diane Smith]

Anybody who meets me at this point is going to see a person wearing high heels, long nails, earrings, girly tattoos ... I don't think there will be any doubt about telling her. She'll know exactly what she's getting.

- Diane

[Vickie_CDTV]

I will tell, and she will know long before she makes a large emotional investment, absolutely no two ways about it.

[Kalista Jameson]

Ha ha! Most of u have no idea of what real life is like, do u? Enjoy your fantasies while u can, girls!

I don't think that is true. I think making self declarations can be an effective tool to help set the direction on which path one will take in life. I know for me, by saying yes to what I will allow in my life and saying no to what I will not has helped to anchor me in making it so for many things. Visualizing a response or course of action ahead of time can be highly effective in overcoming initial responses of fear or other emotions. Has always been so for me.

Mileage will vary person to person but I tend to see the value in proactive thinking versus reactive as being a solid approach. :)

Cheers,

Kalista

[Tracii G]

Already there the last 3 women I have dated knew before the first date.
The guy I'm seeing now knows too so its best to get it out there straight away.

[celeste26]

Been there, done that, and married now for 27 years. In fact my whole church knows since I go en femme. The rest of the world will simply have to ask if they care to know.