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felix.samora
04-19-2013, 11:04 AM
Hi all!

I am first time crossdresser and I was wondering if anyone had try out any crossdressing transformation services? Like boy to girl transformations.

Could y'all tell me about your experiences and what to expect?

For example, will I wear everything a girl would wear when she is dressing up?

Also, what outfits y'all recommend or are like a must do.

I will be going to Phoebes Cross in Atlanta, Ga.

Trishpdxcd2
04-19-2013, 11:24 AM
We have a great transformation service here called Rainbow Transformations. While I have never had a transformation, I do frequently buy clothes and other services. A good transformation service will find a look that is appropriate for you and will make you look feminine, whatever outfits they put you in.

AllieSF
04-19-2013, 02:25 PM
Depending on what they offer, it could be makeup only, or the full works with you using their full supply of wigs, clothes and accessories with pics. One thing to realize is that they are normally expensive and it may not be something that you would want to do frequently.

whowhatwhen
04-19-2013, 02:32 PM
I had a transformation done and depending on your situation it may, or may not be worthwhile.

In my example I didn't have the resources or skill at the time to do a proper full MtF transformation and at the same time the stress around my gender issues was really high and I needed to see my real self.
Long story short: I can't remember the last time I was that happy, nor have I been since.
I saw my real self in the mirror, and I wasn't repulsed like I usually am when I look at my male image.

The experience was an affirmation that I'm on the right path, but it's not something I would do frequently due to the large cost.
Expect at least $100 per hour, but everything should be included in that.

4mymichelle
04-19-2013, 04:52 PM
Hi Felix,

I have used a few mtf transformation services. Depending on what you want and what is offered, this can be just makeup application to a full photo shoot session. From what I can see, you will be using the wardrobe, wigs, etc that they have. Yes you will be wearing what a woman wears. This is fine and they should help you find something that looks good. Of course everyone has their own style and should make choices they like. Therefore I don't recommend any particular outfits nor are any must dos. If you have more questions it's definitely a good idea to call the service and ask them. After all this is why they are in this business. The most important thing is for you to have a great experience. Have fun!

Maria S
04-19-2013, 05:00 PM
I once went to one in the UK but it was very expensive. You can buy everything you'll ever need and be made up and taught about cosmetics and spend time with other CDers and female staff who understand.

In my opinion not worth the money.

Maria

CassandraSmith
04-19-2013, 06:17 PM
We have a great transformation service here called Rainbow Transformations. While I have never had a transformation, I do frequently buy clothes and other services. A good transformation service will find a look that is appropriate for you and will make you look feminine, whatever outfits they put you in.

Victoria is great! I did a full transformation in January and she spent about an hour on my makeup. I was shocked at how good I looked--no dark shadow, great eyes, incredible choice in wig--what a day. I'm still processing it and learning from what happened. She has a party in June that I'm going to. It will be my first really public outing though I'll probably dress there (or more like finish dressing there).

My transformation experience there was a life changing event for me and worth the cost. YMMV.

Sometimes Steffi
04-19-2013, 07:32 PM
Depending on what they offer, it could be makeup only, or the full works with you using their full supply of wigs, clothes and accessories with pics. One thing to realize is that they are normally expensive and it may not be something that you would want to do frequently.

I've done 3 transformations with 3 different people

First was makeup and a few head shots. I came with my own girl clothes.

Second was makeup and photo shoot with about 250 photos on CD. She had a wide assortment of clothes to select from, plus wigs and corsets. I had 4 different outfits, two were from her closet and two were from my closet. Obviously, it was Bring Your Own Underwear. She was able to provide the outfits with all the accessories, including earrings, necklace and shoes. One of the outfits from her closet was a wedding dress. See my profile pic

Third was just a makeover, but I had photos scheduled with a photographer later in the day.

You should check with Phoebes Cross to see what you can and what you should bring.

Her rates for services seem quite reasonable. For me, it was the best money I ever spent. I actually looked hot. I would have hit on me.

LynnR
04-20-2013, 03:53 PM
I had a transformation a few years ago and, although it was expensive, it was well worth it. I'd always wanted to see what a professional dresser and make-up artist could do with my appearance and it took my breath away. I'd always felt like a woman and here I finally looked like one. Most pleasing of all was that I looked so comfortable and natural as a woman. However, despite the price, I came away with only two photos from the day.

I'm shortly to have another makeover. I've seen this person's work and it is stunning. You choose the number of hours you want and you are made up and try out different outfits from a wide range. You have to take along your own underwear. You also take along your camera and can have as many pictures taken as you want. I'm pleased to say the make-up artist is also a pretty decent photographer!

Cheryl Ann Owens
04-20-2013, 04:04 PM
I've been talking with my hair stylist about salons that do total makeovers. This is in a small town safely tucked away and easily accessible. I've also offered to coach her about CD personalities and what to expect to make it easy for everyone. She is considering it. She's fine with me! We'll see what happens.

I have been to Glamour Boutique in Auburn, MA which is also another really safe place. While there one gal completed her makeover and looked awesome! She seemed a little self conscious but the rest of us were sure to reassure her. After awhile she began to feel great! She walked out very happy!

Cheryl Ann

felix.samora
05-15-2013, 10:27 PM
Thanks for the advice! I'll let the professional pick my outfits and look as y'all said. At the end is all about making me look girly and having fun with a modeling photoshoot.

Nervous about the photoshoot though, I have never done any modeling!

Beverley Sims
05-16-2013, 11:23 AM
Felix,
Be guided by the experts here.
It can be expensive and extremely satisfying.
I had my girlfriends do me over regularly and they were expert at it.
I just had to go out with them dressed as a girl.
That was my part of the contract.

harmony
05-16-2013, 11:10 PM
phoebe cross has an exellent reputation and her fees are not too bad especialy for photographie.

carolinewalker_2000
05-17-2013, 11:55 AM
I don't known where you live, but my advice would be if you can find a reputable cross-dressing service near you; check any comments about it and, if it is reasonably reccommended; go for it. i use a dressing service in the UK all the time and I LOVE it.

Laura912
05-17-2013, 05:18 PM
Went to a makeover. Got the 19.99 job. They ran out of bondo for this old chassis. Make up booth sure was big with a lot of bright, hot lights. Think it was called Maaco. :battingeyelashes:

LynnR
05-18-2013, 09:16 AM
At the end is all about making me look girly and having fun with a modeling photoshoot.

Nervous about the photoshoot though, I have never done any modeling!

Hey Felix, don't be worried about the photoshoot. I've just had the makeover I mentioned earlier in this thread, and the posing was huge fun. By the end of the day I had learned lots about how subtle changes of position communicated different moods and messages. I loved it! It's all part of the enjoyment of the day.

You can see a photo from my shoot in the 'Picture and Video Gallery' to get an idea of how professional these services can be.

Nancie64
05-18-2013, 08:26 PM
I can only wish that I would have done it sooner. The 1st one had was maybe 10 years ago and I have had 7 since. Amy at "Just You" in Vegas does a wonderful job and makes you feel as if this is just a very natural thing. Have also been to "Roris" in Chicago and will be going back there in June and this will be the 3rd time. Have also had 2 done by Stephanie in Vegas. I usually leave the place dressed but really do not end up going anyplace other than for a ride and maybe fast food. I didn't feel any of them were expensive. The most I paid was $85 by Amy, but well worth it. Have fun..

Bonnie Stone
05-18-2013, 08:46 PM
I wish there was something here in West Virginia

heatherdress
05-18-2013, 09:57 PM
Las Vegas - transformation with Amy - didn't know what to expect - excited, nervous - arrived as "he" - left as "she" - it was terrific. She did full transition makeup and then turned my chair around so I could see myself - I was beautiful and felt beautiful. My wife loved it and wants me to do it again.

I did make a mistake, however. After Amy finished my makeup, she suggested that I get my wig and change into feminine attire at her shop, as she had advised me to do. I went outside to my car and then realized that I had forgotten my bag with wig/dress/heels in my hotel room. Panic. Nothing I could do but drive back to the hotel, park, walk through the casino and busy lobby, enter a crowded elevator, walk to my room - with false eyelashes, eyeliner, eyeshadow, lipstick, blush, long fingernails, short guy hair cut, guy jeans and guy tee shirt. I did just that and acted like I wore full makeup and dressed as a male all the time. Result - no looks, no stares, no smiles, no pointing at me. It was Vegas.

renee elizabeth
05-19-2013, 10:55 AM
Hi. Good luck with the makeover. Have had quite a few myself and for me my favorite salon is true colors makeup artistry, amanda does amazing work and i am always pleased with my results.

Jolene
05-19-2013, 12:40 PM
I never thought there was such a thing as a service to help you dress right. There are none around here to try but I do like the idea. :)

Emma500
05-19-2013, 03:55 PM
Hi, I tried a crossdressing service once and I really enjoyed the experience. But, it is very expensive so its important to try and plan what you want to wear before going there. The place I went to had a really good range of women's clothes and provided a makeover service. Its worth seeing if they offer things such as going shopping or to a club with you. Best of luck

famousunknown
05-19-2013, 04:27 PM
Yes you will be wearing what a woman wears.
Now what normal red-blooded guy would want to do that?

Annaliese2010
05-19-2013, 06:57 PM
I did a couple times just to get a GG's opinion & insight. Was fun. Worth it. But I always get carried away buying clothes, shoes etc while there waiting for my appointment (have a habit of showing up early for EVerything).

Yeah...of course arrive as the girl you are. Don't worry about it. You're just another customer. You'll get makeup color & technique tips if she's good at it. And it's like...wow...I've seen some uber hot M2F chicks at the salon I visited. Mad-sexy girls that I couldn't keep my eyes off of. Sheesh!

Kirsty
05-29-2013, 05:09 PM
I went to see Phoebe Cross on Thursday, while I can't vouch for any other service
I can say that for your first time you can't go wrong with Phoebe, she is a lovely lady
who will put you at ease.
For my first time I am glad I choose her, she chatted with me and made me feel very comfortable.

Let us know how it went :)

CherylFlint
05-30-2013, 12:52 AM
No matter if you use a professional transformation service or not, you're going to need expert advice on what works for you.
I take it your goal is to "pass". I can't tell you what you should do, but I can tell you what NOT to do.
1. Don't wear too high of heels.
2. don't over-do the make-up. Subtle is better than loud.
3. visit a dentist and have your teeth cleaned. A good smile is worth a million bucks.
4. If you smoke, quit. Nothing but nothing ruins a wig faster than smoke.
5. Don't wear anything too tight, it's not healthy and is a dead giveaway.
6. Wear what all the other girls are wearing. If they're in jeans, wear jeans. There's a time and a place to dress up, don't over do it.
7. Always take a survival kit with you in case you get a flat tire or something (guy stuff, shoes, pants, shirt, a packet of cleansers to wipe the make-up off).
8. If a guy tries to "pick you up" make sure he knows you are a CD. Say something like, "Well, I'm a CD and I like to do girl stuff" or something like that.
9. ALWAYS be aware that it's a dangerous world out there if you're a girl all alone. Park in well lit parking lots, stay away from 7-11's, and keep your eyes open.
10. Avoid eye contact unless it's safe. Dressing the part is just the tip of the iceberg: you've got to think and act like a woman too.
11. Yes, you got to wear everything "she" would wear. I wear real ($150 each) mastectomy pads and Jodee Bras ($50 each).
12. Once you finally decide on your favorite wig, buy two so you can rotate them. Use wig stands so they can air out.
13. practice walking in heels (mine are 3/4").
14. Above all, have fun. All of the hard work will be well worth it.
15. Thrift stores are the best bargains in town.

Darla Jean
05-30-2013, 06:34 AM
I had the opportunity to work with a transformation service in St. Petersburg FL several years back...it was one of the best days of my life - my emotions gushed and at one point I started crying - from happiness...The service was call Dress Me Up by Cherie, but I note that her current website says she is no longer offering makeovers in the Tampa Bay area. I have meetings in Orlando in a couple of months and I'm hoping to go early to do a makeover with Trading Faces - I understand that Josett provides excellent service. I'd like to go with someone else if I can, allowing us to go out afterward.

switcheralso
05-30-2013, 07:16 AM
In Indianapolis there is a girl named Kris. Kris is a licensed Cosmetologist and offers Make-up and Picture services for Cross Dresser's. She provides full make-up, along with some clothes, shoes, wigs, jewelry, hosiery, & lingerie. She is located at 4954 e 56th street.

Sometimes Steffi
05-30-2013, 09:25 PM
I wish there was something here in West Virginia


Hi. Good luck with the makeover. Have had quite a few myself and for me my favorite salon is true colors makeup artistry, amanda does amazing work and i am always pleased with my results.

Amanda is in Bethlehem PA, near Phili. There are a number of people here who are Amanda's girls.