No more secrets

[Tiffanyselkoe]

For some time after revealing myself to my lovely wife, I would browse cd forums and keep this as well as my name Tiffany from her. We are now to the point where she knows all about Tiffany and we look through this forum together. I really do enjoy this site and cherish the acceptance and insight everyone here gives. I am still trying to figure out how to post pictures but haven't quite found how to get them onto my profile. It feels so nice to finally feel secure enough to include my wife in my husband role in addition to my Tiffany time. Just wanted to say thank you to everyone here. I don't feel quite so lonely any more. Don't let anyone get you down and know that everyone in this forum is making Tiffany's world soooo much better!:)

[Laura912]

Yes, it is lonely until one finds this place. Welcome to both of you!

[MissTee]

Welcome, and you and your wife are going to have so much fun together!

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Tiffany, Welcome to our forum when you are here you are home.

[Ceri Anne]

Welcome Tiffany, and if you don't figure it out, I'll show you how to do the pics sometime

[Tracii G]

Welcome Tiffany glad you are here.

[DebbieL]

One of the things that's great about this site is that it provides support for both Transgenders, including CDs and TSs, as well as their partners. It's wonderful that your wife is able to accept you. I'm sure that it was a bit of a shock, and she probably had some trust issues. She might even have a hard time understanding why you kept it such a secret. For me, I think it was like being a Jew in Nazi Germany. I could act differently, deny who I was, and even try to maintain an appearance that would "pass" for a man, but I also honestly believed that if ANYBODY other than my mother found out, that I would be beaten, and tortured, and subjected to any number of horrors before finally being killed.

[Emogene]

Good evening, Tiffancy! I found this website, it takes standard size images and reduces them to a size that can be used for your avatar.

http://www.shrinkpictures.com/resize.php

The website takes a photograph from your computer, cell phone, or camera to made the reduced image.

Just save the resized picture on your computer, remember the path to find it again, and you can then import the smaller image to this site as your avatar.

Have fun.

[Beverley Sims]

Tiffany,
It is good to see that you are making inroads into your acceptance.
Having your wife on side is good too.

[Claire Cook]

Welcome Tiffany, and it is great that you and your wife can share these experiences. And you have uplifted us by sharing your thoughts -- it really does work both ways!