only your hairdesserer knows for sure

[marny]

the woman who has been cutting my hair for 30 years has seen me dressed. we havent talked about it but ' the genie is out of the bottle' . I have been growing my hair out. Do I ask her to girl me up? and B do I ask her to help me with make up?

[Diane Smith]

It's impossible to say without knowing your stylist. But in general, I've found people in the beauty industry to be pretty accepting, and often they enjoy working with us because it is a technical challenge for them in what is, after all, often a rather boring day-to-day routine. If she has seen you dressed and hasn't said anything negative, I'd take that as a sign to go ahead and have the conversation about whether she'd like to help you with your femme look.

- Diane

[mikiSJ]

Why not. I told my hairdresser about Miki a couple of months ago and while I probably wouldn't want my hair or makeup done in her studio during biz hours, if I could arrange something private - sure!

My hair and makeup in my avatar was done professionally, and MUCH better than I could do by myself. (It was also great to be pampered for the hour and a half!!!!)

[Beverley Sims]

After thirty years she is hardly likely to refuse completely.
You have cultured a friendly intimate relationship.
Some marriages don't last that long.

[alexmarie]

Two years ago I started growing out my hair after 6 months I asked the hairdresser I have been going to for 10 years if she would curl it. Since then I have been going every Thursday morning for a wash and set. Ask her