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Kerigirl2009
04-24-2013, 09:21 AM
On February 13th I separated from my wife and kids, and as of April 16th I moved back in as this is the next logical step to take after the discernment counseling we have been through together.
I am hopeful that this will work as we obviously both still love each other. My wife has been trying very hard to accept me for who I am and I am trying to accept the fact that if we stay together I will never be able to transition to a complete woman.

She came out with me and my friends to see who I hung out with when I was not with her ( I was not dressed) it must have gone well because the following week she came out with us again and this time I was Keri. She did not make direct eye contact with me pretty much all night and I think I was more uncomfortable then she was. But we are going to see where we can go from here.
The next big thing we did together was to tell all of our children about their father, we did this with each one of them individually so that they could ask questions and not feel embarrassed.
It went as well as I could imagine, my oldest already knew but my 15yr old was quiet but cracked a joke and then my 12 yr old laughed his butt off and then my 9yr old daughter told me she already knew because she looked at pictures of me on my phone.
so here is to new beginnings, wish me luck

traci_k
04-24-2013, 09:53 AM
That is so good to hear. I hope you can all work it out.
Hugs,

melissaK
04-24-2013, 10:05 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S6R3MiAv9ac

Kinda says it all really.

Genuinely wish you good luck with the partial transition to someplace in the middle. Many of us will want periodic reports from the front lines . . .

Barbara Ella
04-24-2013, 11:19 AM
Wishing you all the best with this step. Really sounds like you both are going the extra mile to make this work.

Your experience tells us a lot about how well we can keep secrets like this from our children, doesn't it? Nine year old going through the phone. She is smart, but the one trying to keep it secret on the phone?.....lol

Hugs, and best wishes.

Barbara