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Megan_Renee
05-03-2013, 04:52 PM
I have been wrestling with what to wear out. I plan on going to a club for a night on the town. I want to blend as well as possible, so the purple dress is out. The last two times I went out I wore my LBD, so I want to wear something different. Ideas?

Brynn_A
05-03-2013, 05:11 PM
Why not the purple? It makes a statement, yet can be sedate, though I haven't seen it.

4mymichelle
05-03-2013, 05:52 PM
Megan,
From what I gather, you have not been to this club before. Otherwise you would know what everyone else was dressed like. Depending on what the club is known for may give you an idea of what to wear. If they have a website that could be helpful also. The style of the dress is what matters more than color in a club setting. Most important is to just have fun!

Megan_Renee
05-03-2013, 08:38 PM
The website is the problem! It seems like most of the girls -- I think they are lesbians -- seem to be wearing T-shirts and jeans... Not my ideal dress up and go out outfit!

I will post a picture of the purple dress, but it would be Monday at the earliest...

RenneB
05-03-2013, 09:39 PM
For me I'd dress business style with a knee length black skirt and a lighter colored top maybe even a silk top. Throw on a dark sweater and it's as if you just got off work from the legal office..... Nude hose and a pair of 4" heels and you're good.

Renne.....

Jenniferathome
05-03-2013, 09:47 PM
I advise scouting the club in advance and dressing appropriately for the night and location. In some clubs, ****ty is the dress code. In most, casual to professional is the rule. What are the ladies wearing on the night you plan to go?

thechic
05-04-2013, 01:18 AM
Its pretty safe to, if wearing a skirt or dress above the knee length, with a tank or cami if its with jeans or skirt ,a tunic is ok with or with out tights depending of the look of your legs , This style tends not to stick out too much , use current trend colours..
and don't forget good heals ,not boots

NathalieX66
05-04-2013, 01:21 AM
Pick from the nice fun outfit from Macy's...... but not the prom stuff.

Chickhe
05-04-2013, 01:39 AM
I would go for the jeans and t-shirt...

melissakozak
05-04-2013, 08:23 AM
Nope...if it is a club, wear CLUBWEAR. I wear minidresses all the time and they are fun....

Joanne f
05-04-2013, 08:37 AM
A little red PVC crop top matching red PVC very short skirt and thigh high red PVC 6" heel boots :devil:

Lynn Marie
05-04-2013, 10:22 AM
In my neighborhood, we have girls night out on Fridays. When we're there, we own the place. I've worn everything from a skirtsuit to jeans and have always gotten great compliments. Killer heels are a must.

KatieTaylorTX
05-04-2013, 10:52 AM
If i was to go to a club, I would want to "Blend" in with what the normal patrons wear. Why would you want to "Stand Out"?

Rogina B
05-04-2013, 11:53 AM
Nope...if it is a club, wear CLUBWEAR. I wear minidresses all the time and they are fun....

I agree,if it is a nightclub,then go with the LD and have fun ! You can wear the "longer stuff" when you get old!

docrobbysherry
05-04-2013, 12:08 PM
A nite club where they wear jeans and T shirts? What kind of club is that? Oh! You're in NC. Sorry! Never mind!

Beverley Sims
05-04-2013, 12:13 PM
I would check out the club and see what others are wearing.

rocketscientist
05-04-2013, 12:54 PM
I've got a novel idea for you. Why don't you wear what YOU feel most comfortable and femme in? It's a club! Just about anything (within decency limits) goes! Don't worry about what others are wearing. Have fun with your fashion. One of the things I like about going to some clubs is the diversity of styles. I don't want too see everyone dressed the same. How boring is that? The most important thing to wear when you go is a SMILE! Remember, if you are not comfortable with yourself, nobody else will be either! Hope this helps. Hugs,Tonya

Lynn Marie
05-04-2013, 02:35 PM
I'm with Tonya, the rocketscientist, why on earth would you want to blend in at a club? At a club, I want to stand out and be noticed! That's why I'm there. I like blending a little at restaurants and other mainstream venues.

JaytoJillian
05-05-2013, 05:22 AM
Nope...if it is a club, wear CLUBWEAR. I wear minidresses all the time and they are fun....

Amen--if your LBD is tired, sounds like a great reason to shop for another one.

Billie1
05-05-2013, 05:41 AM
Nope...if it is a club, wear CLUBWEAR.


+1
Heck, YEA!
Clubs are for their dance floors and glitzy lighting. A shiny lycra top and heels (that are easy to slip off when really shakin' it) usually are good choices.

Megan_Renee
05-07-2013, 10:51 AM
Here are the promised pictures of the purple dress...
Front:
http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7369/8716934531_7a9d880a7c.jpg
Back:
http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7408/8716935383_680fa3fcc9_z.jpg

Sabrina133
05-07-2013, 11:48 AM
Nope...if it is a club, wear CLUBWEAR. I wear minidresses all the time and they are fun....

Totally with you Mellissa - thats usually my rule of thumb.

Sabrina133
05-07-2013, 11:49 AM
A little red PVC crop top matching red PVC very short skirt and thigh high red PVC 6" heel boots :devil:

am thinking i like the clubs where you hang out. : devil:

gender_blender
05-07-2013, 02:28 PM
From the responses, I'm guessing most go to some pretty tame clubs. I'd go with either a latex catsuit with platform boots, gothic attire with death metal New Rock boots, or jeans/tshirt depending on the dress code at the club event.

4mymichelle
05-07-2013, 03:16 PM
I have been wrestling with what to wear out. I plan on going to a club for a night on the town. I want to blend as well as possible, so the purple dress is out. The last two times I went out I wore my LBD, so I want to wear something different. Ideas?

Megan said she wants to blend as well as possible. That is why it was suggested to see what other girls were wearing (answer: t-shirts and jeans). If she wants to stand out from the rest of course wearing something flashy would be the way to dress. Megan, I like the purple dress, especially if you feel comfortable in it. That is what matters the most!

Sabrina133
05-07-2013, 03:59 PM
From the responses, I'm guessing most go to some pretty tame clubs. I'd go with either a latex catsuit with platform boots, gothic attire with death metal New Rock boots, or jeans/tshirt depending on the dress code at the club event.

No am with you. I tend to wear short, tight and shiny whenever i can.

Tami Joy
07-21-2013, 08:46 PM
Hope you went out and wore what you wanted.

ArleneRaquel
07-21-2013, 08:49 PM
Purple, magenta, red, whatever that you look best in. T-shirts and jeans to me are well not up to what I would wear, which a little more revealing, elegant but alluring-I hope.

heatherdress
07-21-2013, 09:27 PM
Megan - you want to blend and they wear t-shirts and jeans at the club you are going to. If that is not your "ideal dress up outfit", either go somewhere else or don't worry about blending (my recommendation).

Your purple dress looks great. You will look terrific in the purple dress, or something new if you don't want to wear your LBD a third time.

Go there, wear what you want to wear, and have fun.

VinylQueen
07-22-2013, 05:17 AM
I always wear pvc so its an easy choice for me

joanna4
07-22-2013, 05:29 AM
The best clubs I've been too were in Los Angeles. I noticed a lot of dressy,edgy,sexy outfits. Its a CLUB, have some fun and enjoy it.

melissakozak
07-22-2013, 08:13 AM
Club wear is a blast to pull off....just DO it. I don't blend in at the clubs I go to but I simply don't care. Go to AMI Clubwear, Forplay, or Venus and check out some of the cute dresses they have....hugs, Melissa.

Lynn Marie
07-22-2013, 08:34 AM
Two month old thread resurrected! So what did Dela wear girls?

sherri
07-22-2013, 10:36 AM
Ok first, are we talking a club club or more of a bar? If the latter, most ggs by far will be wearing jeans, and lots of shorts long and short in the summer for both straight and lesbian. There will be a dress or skirt here and there, but not many. In the summer I wear casual above the knee skirts or short shorts.

If it's a club on a weekend night, you'll see the whole spectrum, from the very butch to street casual to very sexy, including skin tight dresses and mini-skirts. Anything goes pretty much and if you want to doll it up you will be accepted, even complimented provided you do a good job of putting together an attractive look. Gays and lesbians especially appreciate the extra effort and flair. I would advise stopping short of the hooker look. :-)

CrossKimmy
07-23-2013, 02:18 AM
I'd wear something short, tight, and daring!

MysticLady
07-23-2013, 02:28 AM
Don't wear stilts if youre planning on dancing sweetie, they're murder on feet:heehee:

Sami
07-23-2013, 02:59 AM
Sassy sexy flirty or foxy go as you please :)

gender_blender
07-23-2013, 09:13 AM
Black pants with strappy heels go well with most any cute top and still looks decent.