Aahh!!!

[Aly Cat]

I suppose its a good problem to have, but my friend from work keeps linking me super cute outfits from pintrest that she thinks I would like to wear! It drives me batty to know that I cant have any of them!!! Shes like oohhh! you should wear this one! or that one! Im like...... >.< I CANT!!! :'(

[Alex]

Argh! That would be so frustrating! I know she is trying to be helpful, but...

At least you get to look at cute outfits, so that is something...I guess. Sounds like a good friend, to have, though. I wish mine spontaneously suggested cute things!

[Beverley Sims]

Why can't you wear them?
You need to explain.

[Aly Cat]

I cant wear them
A) because i dont have enough money to buy the outfits
B) because my home is not crossdressing friendly AT ALL lol.

I am attempting to conform for my wife. She royally hates crossdressing and finds herself religiously justified to do so...I know, I know. Ive been through all those hoops and nothing seems to change her mind. So as it is, I either get a divorce or conform. Im attempting to conform until after our 10 year anniversary which is on the 24th of this month and then I am going to be suggesting counselling. I know that crossdressing is a part of me and nothing can really change that so Im just biding my time for the moment.

[Kelley]

Well if you could afford just one maybe your coworker would let you try it on at her place. Not suggesting anything funny just a place to change.

[Aly Cat]

Hahaha I know she would. When I was allowed to (by omission only) dress, she was my supporting shoulder I leaned on to go out shopping for the first time for shoes. We went to Payless and bought a pair of Brash Platform pumps. Super cute shoes. Then we went back to her house and I got to wear them around the house and she waxed my chest. No funny business lol. Just a good waxing. That junk hurt! Anyways, that was one of the only times we have been able to hang out. My wife and I had a dinner outing with some friends and she was one of the friends there. They didnt get along so now Im not allowed to hang out with her. :( were both sad about that. There is no attraction between us or anything. just good friends. Shes a lesbian and Im married so it "should" be safe...for my wife though...its a no go.

[Jenni Yumiko]

However bad it sux, it's good that you arent stepping over yoru wife's boundaries with this other woman. Maybe work it into a conversation as a compromise?

[Aly Cat]

Well, I already explained to my wife that it is literally just a friendship and that seeing as I have so few friends as it is...only 2 that live in my area, I need people to be friends with. So she knows that we talk since we work together, but thats about all I get. We dont even work in the same store. We all work alone so we talk on google chat. I just simply dont get along with guys all that well and gravitate to women. My friend who lives about an hour and a half away was there at the dinner outing and was like...can I date your coworker? I was like...um...shes a lesbian...my friend said...hell, Id wear a dress for her! I had to keep my mouth shut at that point. I so wanted to tell him about my dressing but decided not to. Hes the kind of guy that would probably totally accept it and be like...cool man whatever floats your boat. Still not there yet in divulging myself.