Am I hard wired to love only a certain kind of shoe?

[suzy1]

I have spent over two hours looking at 4” heels on eBay and then wow, there they are! I would sell my soul for those heels. It takes over my life. Get out of my way b***h or I will tear you hair out.

Crossdressing has a lot to answer for……………like fun, pleasure, excitement, pleasure………..and a shrinking bank balance!:heehee:

Suzy

[Alexis.j]

Haha, the shrinking bank balance, I got you there... sitting in the same boat . Will give anything for that extra pair of heels

[Jaylyn]

Suzy guess I am obsessed by lipstick and high heels, think I maybe be hard wired some where to love those two things. I love looking the heels and love seeing a commercial for some of the lipsticks on the tv . Hard wired with maybe 8 gauge for high heels and lipstick and 14 gauged for the other accessories.

[kimdl93]

I believe they have identified the gene that controls shoe preferences. Be grateful you didn't get the one that prefers Crocs!

[ReineD]

I'm hard wired to love chocolate. Any kind of chocolate will do though.

I'm hard wired to wear shoes, else it gets uncomfortable in extreme heat and cold. I'm not hardwired to appreciate a specific shoe though. The type of shoe that I prefer changes depending on where I will wear it. But, I am definitely hard-wired to not want shoes that hurt my feet. :D

[Maria in heels]

Suzy...I can totally understand your obsession with a certain style of shoe!

[Beverley Sims]

Suzy,
An unusual question from the likes of you.
You know your tastes will change and another obsession will come along shortly.
Hard wired? No.
Maybe hard headed...... :)

[Lynn Marie]

Strappy heels! Hard wired? Don't know, just love the darned things!

[NicoleScott]

Suzy, I suspect your post was offered in a little playful fun, but it's a good question with a serious side. I'm not sure with is meant by "hard wired". Is it something in the DNA, as some believe their femme side is, or is it a result of early childhood imprinting? Certainly a love of shoes, certain styles, or even a high heels fetish can't be in the genes as MAYBE a feminine identity could be. I have a couple of strong fetishes; the thought, view, touch, or wearing certain things arouse me. Where did this come from? Why am I like this? I understand the reinforcement aspect of sexual fetishes, but how did they start?
Many CDers here on the forum are quick to dismiss any sexual aspect of their crossdressing, believing that their drive to dress is purer. And quick to trash dressers whose style is less conservative than their own (forum rules prohibit this, but what's the point if not enforced?). Across many threads, people speculate about the source of their feminine identity, but none that I can recall discuss the origins of fetishes. Pleasure dressers are expected to ride in the back of the crossdressing bus.

[Monique L]

A few hours at the old modeling bench will cure that :tongueout

[Sabrina133]

Suzy guess I am obsessed by lipstick and high heels, think I maybe be hard wired some where to love those two things. I love looking the heels and love seeing a commercial for some of the lipsticks on the tv . Hard wired with maybe 8 gauge for high heels and lipstick and 14 gauged for the other accessories.

yup and then there are those commercials that feature both....woohoo!

[Sabrina133]

Suzy, I suspect your post was offered in a little playful fun, but it's a good question with a serious side.... Certainly a love of shoes, certain styles, or even a high heels fetish.... I have a couple of strong fetishes; the thought, view, touch, or wearing certain things arouse me. Where did this come from? Why am I like this? I understand the reinforcement aspect of sexual fetishes, but how did they start?
Many CDers here on the forum are quick to dismiss any sexual aspect of their crossdressing, believing that their drive to dress is purer. And quick to trash dressers whose style is less conservative than their own... Across many threads, people speculate about the source of their feminine identity, but none that I can recall discuss the origins of fetishes. Pleasure dressers are expected to ride in the back of the crossdressing bus.

Nicole,
I certainly agree with you. Like you certain fabrics, materials or style of clothing absolutely is exciting to me and that forms a part of my female identity. Is having a love of Christian Louboutin shoesa stupidly insane taste for expensive shoes, the color red or just a plain ordinary fetish - who knows?.

[docrobbysherry]

Nonsense! Bev's rite! It's nothing to do with hardwiring. Simply educating your woman! Once u receive those shoes, you'll want something else, something different. Just as a young girl's tastes change as she ages, grows, so do dresser's!


Suzy,
An unusual question from the likes of you.
You know your tastes will change and another obsession will come along shortly.
Hard wired? No.
Maybe hard headed...... :)