Wifes limit on dressing.

[Niya W]

Now that I've got your attention i have a question. For the married girls does your wife set a minimum limit on how much you dress? Are there days were she pushes you to dress?

[Carroll]

no more than once a week...mostly, which is ok by me

[Niya W]

I was just wounder cause I Know a CD who's wife really drives her dressing. she was closeted dresser before they met. THE wife gets like I'm bored put on some make up and lets go out.

[Eryn]

My wife doesn't put restrictions on my dressing. We go out a couple of times a week and she does support and encourage me to find the balance between my male and female sides. Sometimes when I'm feeling iffy about going out she'll say "C'mon, you'll have a good time!" and she's always right.

[Laura28]

My wife doesnt restrict me other then not when the kids are around. She also doesnt want to see me fully dressed and made up other then pictures. She says it is to much but once in while she will ask to see me made up. I travel a lot so i do get to dress often and she and i will skype while i am dressed. it is a good balance and seems to work for us.

[Maryesther M.]

How very fortunate for all of you. My wife totally disapproves and hopes earnestly that I've given up femme dressing for good. She has only seen pictures, never ME., so I'm afraid I'm totally in the closet.
I'd never pass anyway, so trying to dress & go out would be for me a total no-no.

M.

[marlenesexton]

No limits from the wife. I limit myself, and she agrees, due to our kids. With one of the me driving, who knows when he might show up when I assume he is supposed to be gone. I could do when they are at school (both wife and I work from home) but I'm working and I don't want run around dressed up having fun while my wife works. We used to take days off to mess around and such, even dress but lingerie mainly, but now with the older one driving, even when he's supposed to be at school he drops in between classes and usually right when you don't want him too (small school a mile away).

My wife has encouraged me to dress but not often. Same reasons. If they are home or might come home, we neither of us bring out all the clothes and paraphernalia. We might have sex, but nothing to crazy. Catching mom and dad doing it is one thing. Catching mom and dad dressed up in lingerie and...well you get the picture.

[sami1952]

no limits for me just as long as just us at home

[JBPerry]

Well, since I am an AD (Active Duty) Marine, if we are going somewhere on base where I have to get out and go around, then I am limited to women's clothes that are not obviously feminine....if we are going out in town, I have a little bit more leeway but can't fully dress up (dresses, makeup, skirt, heels) so that this way I don't run into another Marine that does know me(I do not pass by any stretch of the imagination)

[Abbygirl]

Now that I've got your attention i have a question. For the married girls does your wife set a minimum limit on how much you dress? Are there days were she pushes you to dress?
Is is just me or did everyone reply as though the question were "does your wife set a MAXIMUM limit" ???

[Erica2Sweet]

My wife does encourage me from time to time... but she always frames it in the form of a question... I blame that on the psychology classes...

[Niya W]

Is is just me or did everyone reply as though the question were "does your wife set a MAXIMUM limit" ???
It's not just you.

[Madeline80]

Her wanting to see me dressed has gone from once in a while, to once a week to every day. Which is fine with me. It's not all day, just a little while. I get home from work and try to change quickly into clothes, wig, and light makeup. This exercise has improved my makeup skills immensely. We actually spend a lot more time on manly pursuits like riding our motorcycles and fixing up the house.

[Barbara Ella]

The limit is when she is away, and the only pushing she will do for me to dress, is over the cliff.

Barbara

[Jenni Yumiko]

She requests me to, whenever I'm being too much a jerk, or overly aggressive. About every couple weeks if I don't dress. Her statement is put on a bra and relax.

[Cheryl T]

She doesn't push me to do anything and I dress practically every day, if not completely then at least partially and certainly every night for sleeping.

[Raychel]

No real limits form my wife anymore. and she certainly does not have a lower limit.
I am sure that she would not mid if this just went away all together.

[Beverley Sims]

No limits it is just an on demand thing in our household.

[MissTee]

My wife never provides direction (max or min.) We just go with it whenever and she's cool. That said, I do have self imposed boundaries rather than "limits."

[candydawn75]

No real limit from her just more the social aspect of CD and our kids. At home she helps me dress when we are alone and sometimes I wear a light amount of makeup out. Like today I will dress feminine with clothes she picks but still look like a guy.

[Jocelyn Quivers]

No limit's it's not really an issue, I guess she has become so used to me in girl mode, that it's part of the norm. The rules are still the same, no being dressed in front of company, no venturing off into the outside world dressed.

[heatherdress]

No limits - she wants me to be happy and encourages me to dress when I want to.

[slamddoger]

no she dosn put limits bon me bi put limits on mysalf

[suchacutie]

Some days it's tina and some days she just wants her guy

[Jennifer in CO]

"way back when" she wanted me dressed 24/7 unless I was at work or with family. She was on cloud nine when I transitioned to full time at work and around family.

[CherylFlint]

Actually, my wife calls the shots.
If she wants me to dress, she’ll go in the second bedroom and pick-out what she wants me to wear.
Sometimes she’ll pick-out something which means we’re going to the mall.
Sometimes it’ll be something for just around the house.
She’s the boss: I wear the dress.
My wife takes me to wig stores and has the SA have me try on wigs and if my wife likes what she sees, she’ll buy it for me. The SA always has a lot of fun.
Sometimes my wife will take me on trips just to window shop. I really like to window shop, and could, and do, spend hours and hours looking at skirts and slips.
However, most of my stuff comes from thrift stores.
Shehas me dress usually on weekends.

[MysticLady]

Now that I've got your attention i have a question. For the married girls does your wife set a minimum limit on how much you dress? Are there days were she pushes you to dress?

Yes, she says...............No CDing period:heehee:

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Niya, No limits it's a DA/DT kind of thinggie my wife just tolerates it but doesn't want to see it.

[GG7irish]

Hop0efully I can comment on this thread, I encourage my SO to dress. Unfortunately it is usually only on weekends due to work schedules. I know that when he is acting down or grouchy i try to encourage even more it relaxes him when SHE comes home :)

[stacey.eyes]

The limits are easing. Once it was "no way," which morphed into "you can go out occasionally, as long as I don't have to see you," to "you look cute, but I can't go out with you." We'll see where it ends up. A girl can hope.

[Di]

Sherlyn is free to be :love:
No max or minimum......no limit
Just free

[Michelle Crossfire]

My wife does not really limit my dressing. that is usually controlled by time constraints (classes, work, etc). i don't usually dress unless i have at least half a day available. prefer a whole day when possible. wife won't go out with me, but will actually buy stuff for me, help me try it on. she is always looking for me as well. i have to admit, that is awesome of my wife. she understands it is a fun stress relief for me and encourages it. the only thing is getting her to go out with me.

[StacyPump]

I'd love it if she gave me a MINIMUM limit! That is, telling, or asking, me to be dressed a certain amount of time. We are DADT around here, so I have never had the pleasure of her telling me to put on a bra (or skirt) and relax. That would be heaven.

[Trysha]

My wife has come a long way from finding out about my dressing, , which she was very confused about to
buying me panties for my birthday. To me that was not only courageous, but a tremendous act of love.
I am so thankful to have a wife like her, and I am hoping with patience it will lead to a better relationship.

[renaej7]

I wouldn't say a limit was set...but I know I can't do it everyday. I typically keep it to 2-3 times per week. On days that I don't I think I do a great job of dressing in camo (i.e. wearing gender neutral clothing).

[Taylor186]

Early on my wife agreed that I could go out fully dressed once a month to a support group or dinner with the group or other outing. This was a maximum limit not a minimum.

It turned out, for me, that once a month was too much. I didn't need it and now I go out only once or twice a year. This reduction in cd outings did not seem to bother her in the least.

Also, I never dress fully at home unless I am trying on outfits in preparation for going out.

I can think of one time in the last three years where she actually suggested I put on an outfit.

[AmyGaleRT]

Sabrina neither encourages or discourages me from dressing. She does like to have "her man" around for much of the time, but she will sometimes ask, "Are you planning on getting into Amy mode?" And I know she'll be OK whether I say "Yes" or "No." :)

- Amy