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[Stevie]

I keep telling myself I just like to dress. It's true but I also want to just be myself while dressed. I enjoy wearing my clothes, but part of me is frustrated that I am alone in this. Just me myself and i. No one outside of this forum besides my wife who disapproves knows about me. Problem is that I do not really like isolation. Not being able to share my feelings is very hard. Don't get me wrong I do talk to people outside of this and it is amazing on how mean people can really be. Is it the area I live in or are all people two faced.
With that said I sit here wearing my favorite outfit trying to do things to make the experience more fun. I really want to go shopping right now.

[Vanessa5]

I can relate. I used to think I was the only one in the whole world that enjoyed womens clothing then to find out that theres a whole group....Wow. Now I want to make friends and go out (sometimes even crossdressed if I could) and meet with others who cd. My wife is the only one who knows this side of me and dissapproves but would like there to be a cure.

[NathalieX66]

I' m me. You're you.
Be yourself, and go.

[Chari]

You should always be comfortable and confident in whatever you wear - no matter how you are presenting. Some businesses are more in tune with the needs of the CD community and will listen without judging. Consider making an appointment to have your nails done, or perhaps visit a hair salon that is accepting to your femme needs. Stores like Dress Barn, Kohl's, Payless, and Thrift stores DO NOT care who you are or what you are wearing or trying on, but are hoping you will make a purchase. You may find SA's at some stores willing to give fashion advice to you, and help you to start (or increase) your wardrobe and makeup items. Be cautious as to what & how much you reveal to others, as some may not be as friendly as the members of this forum.

[kimdl93]

Choose your friends carefully...good people, people without hardened and rigid values systems exist in every community. You just have to find the,.

[Beverley Sims]

You still need to consider how others are going to accept you.
You do have to be discreet.