Is it normal for a crossdresser to be attracted to other crossdressers?

[FemPossible]

I'm into crossdressers and yet I am a crossdresser. Does anyone else feel this way or know someone who does?

[NathalieX66]

Sure.
It happens.

[Princess Grandpa]

From what I saw at my first Tgirl Saturday at hamburger Mary's, its fairly common. /chuckle of course anecdotal evidence is no evidence at all, but there were lots of ladies hooking up. I suspect a lot of times, a CD looks female so the attraction is possible, when it comes to the plumbing, I can only assume playing with male bits allows further immersion in feeling feminine. Pls understand I'm saying what makes sense to me without any real knowledge on the subject.


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[paulaprimo]

only as friends for me... :)

[mollycd99]

I dunno - or care - what's "normal". It is, however, quite common.

[noeleena]

Hi,

From what i have heard from other dresser's & trans yes , there is an attraction , why because most males wireing is by sight what turns a guy on , much of my life we were taught males see it wont it, so yes its common .

Now for us its a bit different yet theres quite a few who when we talked or others i know said ...... hey thats a hunky guy i wont him so do women see it in the same way, i cant answer for others here because its not an issue we have talked about& i dought they will. so ill say yes in some ways women see a nice guy & would & i know some who do its into bed .....thoughts here , there are other details that turn us on as well. ask any woman her feelings on the matter , youll get different answers,

Now dont get me wrong i have seen some lovely men i think they look pretty neat, , the ? am i interested from my posts else where answer is no im not one bit though thats myself, other reasons ....as to the no.

Now ill turn this around would a guy wont to be my friend let alone a bed mate, simple answer is no way, though i am surprised that i have been asked for a friendship. remember those who asked me have never seen myself face to face, only my pic, & what i have writen them, how do i say it nicely, being female does not allways bring every thing at birth, so i dont lead men on. i know they would be very disaponited . For me its very imbarrising so i keep men at a distance, okay said enough.

...noeleena...

[Sandieland]

I believe that anytime you're attracted to someone...it's normal - whether that someone is a crossdresser, gay, bi, straight, female or any of these. I see ladies on this site every day that I bet I would be extremely attracted to in person. I don't question why I'm responding in this way, I just accept it.

[mikiSJ]

Hmmm, I would think this forum would be the last place to bring up the concept of normal. The spectrums of gender from masculine to feminine, of sexuality from straight to gay are so wide that they accomodate everyone, yet to label one individual normal and another not beggars the question of what is normal.

[Kate Simmons]

People are people. If the feelings and chemistry are there, does it really matter?:)

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi FP, It's having friends with a common interest .

[Erica Marie]

I sure hope it is normal. I have no physical attraction to genetic males what so ever but I am very physically and sexually attracted to ts and tg girls and cders. Hopefully Im not the only one who feels this way. But as far as a relationship goes I would only want to be with a gg or ts.

[Beth Wilde]

Who cares what "people" define as "normal"! Who sets the boundaries of "normal" anyway?

My partner and I are both crossdressers and gay males.... We can be: Girlfriend and Girlfriend, Boyfriend and Boyfriend, Boyfriend and Girlfriend or Girlfriend and Boyfriend! We consider all of that normal, it makes us happy and we aren't hurting anyone!

[Marleena]

It seems to be quite common. As a crossdresser you have to work harder at your presentation than a GG. If you look in our picture gallery the girls are dressing extra feminine and many of them are very convincing. Are you attracted to the feminine image?

Now imagine that hot crossdresser with their clothes off and see how you feel. Or look for the girl/boy thread where you can see CDers as guys and after their transformation.

[Beverley Sims]

Yes I think so, both have like interests, both are crossdressers.

[Jaylyn]

I am attracted to some CD's on here but that is really just when they are dressed. I love the way they look in dress. Maybe the way they their lipstick looks or the way they wear their clothes and heels. I am talking the way they look dressed only. Now with that said if I saw them in guy mode I may not be any attracted to them. There has been very few guys that I knew that I would even think in my head about any other desire to proceed farther than friendship with. I have a weakness for the sexy looking girls, blonde headed, short skirts,red lips and tall heels and when they are made up yes I am attracted to them. Take outside looks away then the personality, trust, interests, education, manners and many other factors come into play as to my attraction to anyone. I know deep down that most CDs are male underneath. I just imagine them as a GG and if they are what I would look for in a relationship, if I were in the market for a partner. I am happily married now to a beautiful gal, not just on the outside but also on the inside.
I also love wearing and feeling women's clothing and makeup on me. I love walking and imitating a female and I get aroused by it. In my old age I enjoy it so why not have a good time while participating in the activity, but yes I do find some cd's on here very attractive. They make very beautiful women and really pull off the passing. Hope this makes some sense and not rambled to much.

[Lynn Marie]

I'm quite fortunate to have a number of CD girlfriends. I love them all and find many of them quite attractive. We are of the same ilk! I'm also quite well aware of who they are under the lingerie. That sort of keeps things on an easy platonic level so things don't get all sticky. LOL.

[Trishpdxcd2]

Yes, I am very attracted to other crossdressers. Even the pornography I view is mostly centered around cd's but it doesn't have to be any kind of porn to make me excited, just an attractive gurl.

[Sami]

This is a good subject I see quite a few CDs attracted to other CDs and guys when dressed I guess it's just personal preference for me I am attracted only to my GG partner and when dressed still only my partner or myself lol. I am still in the closet though and I am not to sure if my partner would feel the same attraction :(

[Janet77]

Normal or not, there are a lot of cross-dressers (many are members here :battingeyelashes:) who are very attractive.....

[Barbara Dugan]

I think is a lot more common than cross-dressers attracted to men

[docrobbysherry]

If CD's turn u on, FemP, it's "normal".

So far, it's been "normal" for me not to be.

[GroovyChristy]

Feels normal to me, but then I'm bi anyway.

[Taylor Ray]

oh hell yeah!

cherish attraction wherever it may roam

[FeliciaCDSNJ]

what is normal nowadays? I much prefer abnormal, although it is normal to be attracted to other cders.

[Annaliese2010]

I'm into crossdressers and yet I am a crossdresser. Does anyone else feel this way or know someone who does?Yes! I definitely am. But only if she is a she, not a he posing as she, you see? 'Cause a rose is a rose by any other name, smells and acts the same. But a he who would pose to be a rose, gives himself away, eventually. Not my cup of tea.

Me being me can only make love with a GIRL, whether T or GG. But never a male, posing as girl, no matter how prettily.

Gender ID originates deep, isn't a surface thing. He is he if simply crossdressing but not M2F TG. I only make love with GG's or TG's like me i.e. those who are feminine transgendered from within, not having fun or pretending.

As a matter of fact if she is a she, no matter the body embodied? When you make love the truth will come out. Cause it's all about Honesty, not usury.

Might seem confusing but it's really not. I take sexuality seriously. And if you're TG lezzie, you will know immediately. The difference is night and day.

[GBJoker]

I would have to say that it is not normal, but it is expected.

I am physically incapable of reviewing the things others on here have seen or experienced, so I cannot know how they acquired their opinions. My exposure though, has thus far led me to believe the phenomenon as quite abnormal. I have only rarely witnessed a person some where on the TG spectrum being truly attracted to another person present on the TG spectrum. The vast majority I've encountered are attracted to pure genetic males, who have no intention of ever crossdressing, with a large minority who are firmly attracted to only genetic females who also show no inclination to crossdress.

I state it as expected, because a random crossdresser bumping into a random crossdresser will instantly have something in common, and a rather large and important facet of their lives being in common. Similar to two people wearing equal football jersey's bumping into each other. Immediately then, a connection is made without a word being spoken, and we all prefer conversing with those who are analogous.

[NicoleScott]

I agree entirely with Jaylyn (post #15). I see a woman in the style that gets my attention (same as Jaylyn: short skirt, blonde hair, red lips, tall heels) and I'm attracted. If that woman turns out to be a CDer, I'm still attracted. But to clarify what "attracted" means and doesn't mean, I'm attracted to the look, the physical presentation, and not sexually attracted. Like Jaylyn, I like to transform in the style that I'm attracted to on others (gg or cd). "Attracted to" doesn't have to mean sexually.

[meganmichelle]

What is normal really? The way I see it is I am attracted to all aspects of femininity. So whether it is a GG, CD or TG, if they are dressed feminine then there is always the possibility of attraction.

[Crissy Kay]

What is normal really? The way I see it is I am attracted to all aspects of femininity. So whether it is a GG, CD or TG, if they are dressed feminine then there is always the possibility of attraction.

Very good way of saying it Megan. I do think its very possible.

[Tina B.]

It may not be "normal" but it sounds completely human to me. While I don't find myself attracted to men, or men CD'ing, I can understand who and why others might be.
Most all TG's talk about admiring women, and we love all the visual aspects of womanhood, so it is easy to see how a person, seeing a female looking form, well put together, cute as a button (there is a lot of you here) why wouldn't you find something to admire or even desire in that person.
Even in my youth I was never that sexual, even when seeing a great looking women, I'm more likely to want her look rather than her, I just don't see people as sexual objects and that is something that only develops for me as I get to actually get to know someone. My wife says I'm such a girl about things like that, but without love and feelings, it's just mutual masturbation to me. never was in to casual sex. Which was something that ran around with hippies in the
70's.
But then it has made it easy to be a very fateful husband for 43 years and no slips.

[AmandaJean]

Fempossible,

If you feel it and it doesn't hurt others... it's normal.

Yes, I find some of the "girls" on here very attractive. Who knows what combination of traits each of us finds attractive?? Though I am attracted by the presentation of some of the girls here, it does not extend into a sexual attraction.

[GeorgeA]

I find that some CDs here can be very attractive. However, what I find attractive is the image of a woman they project. Meeting them in person I think the attraction would diminish considerably, as I would know that under those alluring clothes there is a man. And I absolutely have no attraction to men, even if they seem to be gorgeous women. I could probably develop a friendship with a CD, but attraction? No way!

[Brooklyn]

It's common among the CDers I know, although I am not attracted to other CDers personally.

[ArleneRaquel]

I have a great crush on 2 CD'ers at the moment, one a member here, who I have never met in person, and the other a local lady who is so graceful, dignified, and gorgeous. I am attracted to GG's, not so much the last few years, guys, and CD'ers.

[kellibra]

for me the answer is yes. as long as it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck then it's a duck. but must be an attractive duck not an ugly duckling.
i worship women and always feel great attraction to femininity. men, and pardon me if i offend here as i don't mean to, do nothing for me, they are in fact a huge turn-off. but... cders and ts who identify as, and look female, are very attractive to me.

[Dalva]

It's normal for me and that's all that matters for me. That is my preference and I have no qualms about it. That said, I can also a enjoy a wonderful platonic friendship with another CD without any sexual attraction.

I absolutely adore the female figure as it were but given the choice, I would choose another CD in a heartbeat.

[deebra]

If you're attracted to a person that is dressed as an attractive female and you are dressed and presenting as female would it make you feel more womanly and female performing and doing the things to that person that a GG would do???

[StephanieCD21]

I am only attracted to the people that I find to be attractive in my opinion.

[Lacyfem]

Not sure what normal is as not attracted to males unless I'm dressed and then only attracted to them if they like me fem. As for other cds yes definitely attracted to them a lot.... but what is normal?

[Kandy Barr]

You bet.... A pretty girl is a pretty girl. There are many on here that just seeing their pictures I see a very pretty girl..... doesn't mean I want to jump in bed and have sex with them, It just means I appreciate their beauty and I am attracted to that.

[Dannigurlfriend]

I'm attracted to who they are more than anything since they usually appreciate the same things I do i.e dressing ect. I do become physically attracted to other crossdressers and why wouldn't I LOL.

[Angie G]

I love all the girls here but I'm not going there girl.:hugs:
Angie