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Sami
07-21-2013, 10:57 PM
Oh this is so frustrating I was going to tell my partner over the last 3 or 4 days and then someone comes round or something happens and I lose my nerve blah gotta get it together its driving me mental.

Jenniferathome
07-21-2013, 11:24 PM
the reward is far greater than the risk. Good luck

Greenie
07-21-2013, 11:44 PM
I GOT YOUR BACK. :)

You know! Message me any time. You can do it. :)

Kimberly Kael
07-21-2013, 11:48 PM
There's never going to be a good time, exactly, but it is worth finding a time when she can process the news without additional pressure or stress. Good luck!

Sami
07-22-2013, 02:02 AM
I GOT YOUR BACK. :)

You know! Message me any time. You can do it. :)

Thanks Greenie I was so close yesterday.

mikiSJ
07-22-2013, 02:13 AM
Fortunately, tomorrow almost always occurs together with another chance - get ready!!

Wildaboutheels
07-22-2013, 02:34 AM
Maybe, whatever it was that pushed you over the edge several days ago, was not really that big a push after all?

Sami
07-22-2013, 02:42 AM
Maybe, whatever it was that pushed you over the edge several days ago, was not really that big a push after all?

I have been planning to tell for ages and was about to and I keep getting disturbed or something happens

sweetmelody
07-22-2013, 04:25 AM
One of my favorite quotes is "if you pile up enough 'tomorrows', all you'll have is a lot of empty yesterdays". Good Luck!

Sonya
07-22-2013, 04:32 AM
One of my favorite quotes is "if you pile up enough 'tomorrows', all you'll have is a lot of empty yesterdays". Good Luck!

loved this quote,, back to Sami; I wish you the best of luck, i hope it goes really well for you

Sami
07-22-2013, 04:40 AM
Thanks girls it won't be today but it is imminent I am ready I think will keep you posted.

Beverley Sims
07-22-2013, 11:10 AM
I am truly sorry Sami.
My advice is think of what is left in the relationship and if it is not beneficial to either of you, just do it, with compassion.

stephNE
07-22-2013, 11:12 AM
Good luck Sami, I hope it goes well for you.

steeve
07-22-2013, 11:27 AM
My advice is this.. both you and your partner go into 'relax mode' and talk to each other,just be yourself,and you will find that there was never a issue in the first place .

reb.femme
07-22-2013, 01:12 PM
Hi Sami,

I didn't spill the beans straight after I got caught in her nightie etc. but waited until a time that I felt was right.
Actually, she had just shaved the hair of my neck when I did, so maybe I'm not the best person to give advice.
Maybe I was chancing my neck, not just my arm, as they say.

Do it at your own pace. My fingers are crossed for you.

Rebecca

Sabrina133
07-22-2013, 01:19 PM
It is the scariest thing you'll probably ever do and possibly the most liberating. I wish you all the luck and hugs in the world.

DonnaT
07-22-2013, 01:38 PM
Fortunately, tomorrow almost always occurs together with another chance - get ready!!
Tomorrow never comes!

Get 'er done today!?