27th Jennifer
07-28-2013, 03:07 PM
I had a wonderful talk with my wife the other night about dressing.
She had noticed a bunch of Paypal charges on my bank statement, and wanted to know what they were for. Now she has known about my dressing for many years, but I usually just keep it to myself. I underdress every day, and keep my legs and armpits shaved and my toenails painted. Other than that, I generally hide any purchases of femme items so as not to end up in an uncomfortable conversation. This of course results in a lot of anxiety about anything about Ana being discovered.
When I immediately came clean and told her that I had purchased a dress. And some heels. And some jewelry, she said just wanted to be kept informed. She also expressed some worry that I would need her to participate, which I assured her that I wanted to learn how to do my own makeup and I was perfectly OK with going out on my own to meet up with other CD's.
So to summarize, everything is now cool.:battingeyelashes:
Thank you to everyone on this forum who has helped me get to this point. I've gotten some great advice, and just reading the stories that you have posted over the years has helped tremendously. It's so comforting to know that we are not alone, and many others have similar experiences to share.
Hugs,
Ana
She had noticed a bunch of Paypal charges on my bank statement, and wanted to know what they were for. Now she has known about my dressing for many years, but I usually just keep it to myself. I underdress every day, and keep my legs and armpits shaved and my toenails painted. Other than that, I generally hide any purchases of femme items so as not to end up in an uncomfortable conversation. This of course results in a lot of anxiety about anything about Ana being discovered.
When I immediately came clean and told her that I had purchased a dress. And some heels. And some jewelry, she said just wanted to be kept informed. She also expressed some worry that I would need her to participate, which I assured her that I wanted to learn how to do my own makeup and I was perfectly OK with going out on my own to meet up with other CD's.
So to summarize, everything is now cool.:battingeyelashes:
Thank you to everyone on this forum who has helped me get to this point. I've gotten some great advice, and just reading the stories that you have posted over the years has helped tremendously. It's so comforting to know that we are not alone, and many others have similar experiences to share.
Hugs,
Ana