If "Panties Don't Count" do boobs?

[Deedee Skyblue]

ErinSassyPants started a thread asking other GGs what they had become used to in their association with an SO who dresses. I have a more specific question -

What does a lady think when she sees her SO with boobs?

Deedee :curious:

[kimdl93]

Yeah, boobs count. As does body shaping, a wig, full make up. Panties, by their nature are under and out of view. The more visible the change, the more it matters.

[Leona]

My wife gets turned on by it. Even with the most unrealistic forms imaginable (they're only a step above stuffing with panties), she gets turned on seeing them, rubbing them, etc. Even some mouth contact...

She also chooses positions where I can rub them on her, you know, during the act. Or where she can rub hers on them....

They're not normalized the way panties are in the other thread, but they are common enough that she's used to seeing them, and still not often enough that they still have some novelty effect for her, or are something for her to request when she wants to see them.

Besides sexual impact, she also really loves seeing me feeling good wearing them, so she encourages me to wear them whenever I want. She gets happy seeing me happy.

Even so, panties aren't really normalized for us since I wear men's underwear. Granted, it's bikini briefs and string bikini briefs, styled exactly like panties, but where everything fits. The skirts are normalized, and even so yesterday she was saying she would like to go to the store sometimes with her man in pants/shorts. I need to look at what's in my closet again, heh.

[Candice Mae]

But what if there real breasts?

[mikiSJ]

Are you bragging?:battingeyelashes:

[Cheryl Ann Owens]

My wife is encouraging me to either get implants or fat transfer. I'm still on the fence thinking about it. I already have man boobs that really show. She told me to go for it and be happy. And she said "Who cares what people think?"

[Zylia]

What does a lady think when she sees her SO with boobs?

That's kind of a broad question isn't it? Just with boobs? Or in drab but with boobs? Or in drag and with boobs? Or all of the above?

[Candice Mae]

Are you bragging?:battingeyelashes:

No, just not to many GG's have been to fond of my chest.

[anonymousinmaryland]

Leona, you are so fortunate to have her. Make sure you keep her happy. She is a rare breed.

[Jennifer in CO]

mine wanted me to have them, I grew them, she loved them...back then

[GG7irish]

One of the first times I saw my SO with breasts, well they were not straight, so once I straightened them so they looked good, took off the odd feeling I had. Now I think it is cool and envious that hers are "perky" where as gravity has attacked mine. She can also adjust her size, alas I am stuck with mine lol.. So I say kudos to you :)

[Leona]

Are you bragging?:battingeyelashes:
Not intentionally, but I can't say there isn't a little brag in there. ;)

Leona, you are so fortunate to have her. Make sure you keep her happy. She is a rare breed.
If only it were that simple. She did send me to jail after attacking me, and we're working on those issues. We've talked on these forums before about issues that might lead to a divorce and what impact CDing might have. I'm fairly convinced that if we do end up splitting up (and I asked to split up a couple of weeks ago, and we didn't), she'll look for another CD.

So, on CDing, I have nothing but good things to say. For the rest, this is not the forum for it, but I've now been here long enough that I'm willing to talk about it (which I wasn't when I got here, and quite pointedly so).

[Beverley Sims]

Boobs can be a giant turn off.
If you start small they are more likely to be accepted slowly.
Panties are not obvious.
Boobs are. :)

[Deedee Skyblue]

Boobs can be a giant turn off.

Thanks, Beverley, that's the kind of answer I'm interested in. Things like "Just the thought of my SO with boobs is a turn off; I told him never to let me see them", "It's ok as long as he's dressed", "it used to bother me but now I'm used to it/resigned to it", "I really like it, I wish she had them full time", etc.

Deedee :still curious:

[jackielou]

if your wife wants you to have large breast then go get implants and enjoy the love she will give you i would not hesitate a minute what a lucky man you are

[Dana L]

Oh yea boobs count. Originally I started getting my boobs to grow without telling my wife. When she started to notice they were getting bigger she didn't like them and I was starting to have trouble hiding them under my male clothes so I stopped but they didn't right away. My wife now loves them and wants me to get them bigger.

[ErinSassyPants]

I find them...in the way. They definitely don't turn me on, though I have no issues with them being on in normal hanging around kind of time. They just make things awkward, I'm pretty stacked and then if he's wearing boobs too we can't get very close front to front. Or if we are sitting close on the couch I have to sort of figure out if my arm is going to go under or over. His arm is behind my shoulders since he's taller and that's how it works out but my arm is stuck navigating them. Also, they just seem so uncomfortable and hot I don't understand wanting to wear them.

[ReineD]

What does a lady think when she sees her SO with boobs?

It took a bit of getting used to. :p

[Aylineira]

My wife now says that the look I have had to grow on her. As with everything, I had to take things very slowly.

[Kerigirl2009]

my wife wouldprefer that I do not have my forms on where as I would prefer not to need them and have real breasts. She alsodoes not enjoy seeing me in my bra but tolerates it.

[linda allen]

My wife is used to seeing me with boobs (in the house). I don't think she's thrilled with it, but she accepts them. When I first started wearing them she played with them but she doesn't do that any more. :sad:

As for growing "real" boobs, even if my wife suggested it, and even if I could grow them, I wouldn't do it. Just too much hassle with the outside world.

[Candice Mae]

my wife wouldprefer that I do not have my forms on where as I would prefer not to need them and have real breasts. She alsodoes not enjoy seeing me in my bra but tolerates it.

Unless your gonna eventually live full time as a woman have/growing breasts as a male as Linda also pointed out, isn't worth it. There useless for a man, you can't show them off there just balls of fat that require you to wear a bra. Now your a guy with breasts wearing woman's underwear, if the public notices there gonna have a field day. So you wear baggy clothes to hide them, and live with an uncomfortable bra until you find a private place where you can adjust it.

[MatildaJ.]

my husband just ordered his first forms...I’d say I’m far from thrilled but it’s not my place to control his body.

Also, this is my first post on this site. I've been on another site for partners of the transgendered, but I've been reading here for a few months and it seems like a friendly community.

JessM.

[Zaack]

Welcome to the forums, JessM :)

Did your husband discuss with you about getting forms?

Id be interested to know what you dislike about the idea - him going too fast, they look weird, seeing him as a woman is a turn off?

I hope you enjoy your time hereon the forums :)

[dawnmarrie1961]

My ex-wife used to be alright with breast forms but when the real ones started coming in her attitude changed. It was like I was treading into some kind of sacred territory. Of course maybe it was because the real ones didn't just come off like the fake ones did? It probably scared her.

[MatildaJ.]

Hi Zaack,

Thank you for the warm welcome! He doesn't ask my permission, but he lets me know what's going on. Not sure if that counts as "discussing" :-) My issue is that I'm attracted to him as a guy, but I'm not attracted to women in general. There are rare exceptions, but he's not one of those exceptions. He looks fine when he dresses, but it makes me think of him non-sexually. So I do worry that more and more of our time together will be spent with him looking less and less attractive to me. Just as if he started smoking, and his breath tasted bad so I no longer wanted to kiss him. That's a loss to me.

[Druscilla Supernovae]

Fake boobs do. I have a few items I use with a bra. Mostly I use what looks like a pair of stuffed smileys. They look like yellow teddy bear balls. Nice and soft and a real effect. I also have 2 spongy type balls that are alot lighter but bigger.

[Yvonne York]

But what if there real breasts?
I have real natural B cup breasts and my GG wife loves playing with them and helping me enjoy them. I can only say being close and having my boobs played with is one of the most sensual feelings I have ever experienced. And when I am underdressed, I just love her playing with my bra, and what fills it :-)

[BLUE ORCHID]

Just make sure that there not bigger than her.

[firststepnow_whynot]

same with me ... but it took some time before we reached this stage...

[ErinSassyPants]

Just make sure that there not bigger than her.

I've heard this before, but I don't understand why you would say it.

[ReineD]

I've heard this before, but I don't understand why you would say it.

A lot of CDers have said this, but in most cases they refer to forms and not real breasts since CDers don't normally take hormones. I think they say this because they think we are green-eyed monsters who hate other women (or CDers) who have bigger breasts, nicer features, better clothes, etc, than us. Thing is, forms are not real breasts. I can wear boob-enhancing devices anytime I want to as well. :p

[ErinSassyPants]

Shoot, why would I care if they were bigger than mine? Why would I be bothered by someone else's features or clothing?

Hell, I made a man fall down a flight of stairs one time just with the right bra and a tight shirt. But even if I was small or in the areas where others have body or feature characteristics that may be considered more attractive I've never felt any reason to be jealous.

Envy is a self defeating emotion and it's always built on illusions that someone else has it better than you but it's all apples and oranges. The most amazingly beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life (in person or in pictures) is one of my best friends, she was an international model at one point and its almost hard to talk to her she's so beautiful, its literally stunning to my brain when I look at her. But I've never felt envy or competition with her because she's a real person with a life filled with her own pains and struggles. Her beauty has not made her life magically perfect, if anything I feel like I was blessed to be in the middle. I don't know how she puts up with some of the crap her beauty brings.

I guess somewhere out there are some women who would be jealous but that isn't the norm in the women I know. The group of women I know have plenty of drama, they are certainly not perfect but they don't care whose boobs are bigger or who has better clothes. We know each others pains and joys and that wipes out the surface stuff.

I'll just throw in that she is not only visually the most beautiful woman I've ever seen but she glows from the inside out, she is a beautiful person so it's not a case of not being jealous because her beauty is only skin deep.

Damn, I miss her now. I'm going to go see if she's up on gtalk.

[MissTee]

My wife says she doesn't mind and beyond that really doesn't care. She's top heavy and I prefer not to be, so I have rather smallish forms. She will jokingly tweak them from time to time. For the most part, I can't even say either of us give it a lot of thought.

[Raychel]

My has specifically said that she does not mind the clothes at all, but the boobs freak her out.
So that causes a bit of an issue here, I sure do like my forms to be in the right place. and she
does not. :sad:

[Lorileah]

Hell, I made a man fall down a flight of stairs one time just with the right bra and a tight shirt. That was mean...he could have hurt himself. :heehee:



she glows from the inside out,
I wish more people would get to see that. I have been told that a lot (but I am beautiful on the outside too ;)) If more people would get to know the TG and not judge the shell I think we would be better off with society in general


I sure do like my forms to be in the right place. and she
does not. :sad: I am assuming she likes them in the box.

[MatildaJ.]

My husband is taller than me, and I think his body type looks better with larger breast (forms) than my natural B cup.

[ErinSassyPants]

That was mean...he could have hurt himself. :heehee:



I wish more people would get to see that. I have been told that a lot (but I am beautiful on the outside too ;)) If more people would get to know the TG and not judge the shell I think we would be better off with society in general



It was a shock to me, I had stayed over a friends house and borrowed his shirt I had never worn anything that tight out and about before. At least the one guy didn't crash his car:battingeyelashes:

I think that is true of everyone, we miss out when we judge people on the outside and don't get to know them. Maybe more than they miss out by not getting to know the people who don't bother.

[JUSTME]

After we had kids I too put on a few pounds. My wife lost hers but mine has stayed. Part of that process my boobs grew a little. Nothing to write home about, maybe an A cup. I noticed that when we were "together" she would reach up and grab them. Which was pretty cool. Fast forward to current times. A few weeks ago I purchased one of the Gillette Fusion trimmer kits and went to town on my chest. I stayed high on the #3 guard but it still made quite a difference. We spent a week on vacation getting some sun and I caught her eyes straying to my boobs when I would take my shirt off. And just the other day she reached over and grabbed one to get my attention. But she tried to make it seem like an accident and let her hand slowly glide over. So the other day I used the #2 guard. We shall see where this goes... :)

[Candice Mae]

I have real natural B cup breasts and my GG wife loves playing with them and helping me enjoy them. I can only say being close and having my boobs played with is one of the most sensual feelings I have ever experienced. And when I am underdressed, I just love her playing with my bra, and what fills it :-)

My chest has stopped a lot of GG's dead in their tracks, they usually feel them to make sure their real. Then things go down hill from there, usually the smaller chested GG's are more accepting from what I've found.

[Raychel]

I am assuming she likes them in the box.

Exactly, Not even sure she like them there, more tolerates:doh:

[Danielle_cder]

cool thread;) my wife doesnt mind it, seems to kinda like it as far as i can tell. She has never said i dont like seeing u with them on. I think she prefers me with the bigger ones because she plays with them, but not when i wear my smaller ones.

[wilt575]

My wife is encouraging me to either get implants or fat transfer. I'm still on the fence thinking about it. I already have man boobs that really show. She told me to go for it and be happy. And she said "Who cares what people think?"

Get off the fence and go for it. My wife not only encouraged it but found the doctor and helped pay for them. She always said forms always felt so phony, if you wear a bra have the real thing to fill it. She also says you can't nurse on forms, she likes the real thing.