lisa_cd
08-10-2013, 12:33 PM
I come from a moderately large family, with four siblings, and through the years we have become spread out throughout the US. It's not like we all aren't still close, but at times the communication and closeness would suffer. But a few months ago I told my sister that I wanted to re-connect with her, to become more close, and she was all for it.
So we connected on Facebook (completely guy mode on there), and things were going really well...sharing thoughts on different subjects, nothing major, but just connecting. Then I joined a group for bisexuals, and she picked right up on that.
She sent me a message saying that she had seen that I had joined that group, and if I ever wanted to talk she would be there for me, and that she will always love me.
It was like a hurricane of joy blowing through my life. Forty years or so of hiding my sexuality from my family, hiding my love for women's clothing, seemed to be all swept away in an instant. I wrote her back, telling her how thrilled I was at the support from her.
This all happened Thursday evening. Thursday night I was so happy that I stayed up all night dressing, and taking pictures, some of which I am going to post later on today.
Since then I have chatted with my niece also, and she loves the idea of my cross dressing, my feminine side. I was just so thrilled.
I gave my sister the okay to tell her husband, and her two sons. All of their children are of the adult age, so now they all know, and are very supportive. I really just think that because of the open-mindedness of the entire family, it's just no big deal.
My sister also said that she had suspected I was attracted to men for the past few months or so, and that maybe that in a way, I wanted her to pick up on that.
So there you go! I am so relieved...
Love you all,
Lisa
So we connected on Facebook (completely guy mode on there), and things were going really well...sharing thoughts on different subjects, nothing major, but just connecting. Then I joined a group for bisexuals, and she picked right up on that.
She sent me a message saying that she had seen that I had joined that group, and if I ever wanted to talk she would be there for me, and that she will always love me.
It was like a hurricane of joy blowing through my life. Forty years or so of hiding my sexuality from my family, hiding my love for women's clothing, seemed to be all swept away in an instant. I wrote her back, telling her how thrilled I was at the support from her.
This all happened Thursday evening. Thursday night I was so happy that I stayed up all night dressing, and taking pictures, some of which I am going to post later on today.
Since then I have chatted with my niece also, and she loves the idea of my cross dressing, my feminine side. I was just so thrilled.
I gave my sister the okay to tell her husband, and her two sons. All of their children are of the adult age, so now they all know, and are very supportive. I really just think that because of the open-mindedness of the entire family, it's just no big deal.
My sister also said that she had suspected I was attracted to men for the past few months or so, and that maybe that in a way, I wanted her to pick up on that.
So there you go! I am so relieved...
Love you all,
Lisa