First Time Out, Kind of...............

[EmilyMI]

I am not sure if this is considered coming out but yesterday was a major step for me. I went to my first trans support group as Emily. I first was terrified and was trying to make up any excuse for me to not go, but I am so tired of making excuses in trying to find a way to hide myself and not be happy. One I got there though everyone made me feel very relaxed and welcome. I know this one girl there from a support page that I go to, first time meeting her but at least I had someone there who I knew. They only meet twice a month but I defiantly plan on going back and get out more as myself. I know it is not a big thing for some but for me this is a major stepping stone for me in my transition and just wanted to share.

[Angela Campbell]

If you are going to transition then it is pretty important to get used to going out in public. It gets easier the more you do it. Good luck!

[WandaRae2009]

I understand. I have almost gone toba group meeting several time. Always can come up with an excuse. Congratulations. Every success helps many of us get one step closer. Thanks for posting.

[Chari]

Congrats on taking that "major step" on your journey of discovering your feminine side! Many of us have been there and have survived to become more confident and comfortable in who we are. You will too! Enjoy.

[EmilyMI]

If you are going to transition then it is pretty important to get used to going out in public. It gets easier the more you do it. Good luck!

I 100% agree, I am tired of hiding and feeling ashamed for being myself. Also I know that I needed to stop making excuses for me not to go out as myself. Making this step was at first difficult for me, but honestly after stepping out and showing who I really am was not a bad experience at all and it did really lift a major weight from my shoulders. I am very eager to keep taking those steps necessary for me to continue on with my transition and keep showing the real me.

[Kaitlyn Michele]

I have been there Emily

I have even checked into hotels with the intent of going out and couldn't walk out the door (anybody else ever check into redroof inn and ask for a room on ground level and pick a parking spot right next to your door??)

You can do it!!!!

[GirlieAmanda]

When I FINALLY met with others like me in Aug of 2010, it was so huge for me. I am not sure why I never did before. I was scared too. Why, I think now? It seems so easy now. I have progressed far beyond any who were at that little TG group picnic but back then. They really intimidated me. But, they were very welcoming too. I was someone new. This was a momentous moment for you. You will always remember your first as they say. I hope you can build off of that meeting and reach for your dreams. "You took your first step into a larger world."

[Anne Elizabeth]

Yep Scary as heck. The last time I went to my counselor i decided who cares and went right in and used a restroom at a convience (sp) store then after session drove to another city and met a Lady(fully transitioned) at a Denny's for supper in front of others. I just decided that if this is my lot then I better lady up and do the right thing.

[kimdl93]

Going out and meeting people as Emily certainly seems like coming out to me. Its a big thing...don't minimize that major step you've taken.

[EmilyMI]

When I FINALLY met with others like me in Aug of 2010, it was so huge for me. I am not sure why I never did before. I was scared too. Why, I think now? It seems so easy now. I have progressed far beyond any who were at that little TG group picnic but back then. They really intimidated me. But, they were very welcoming too. I was someone new. This was a momentous moment for you. You will always remember your first as they say. I hope you can build off of that meeting and reach for your dreams. "You took your first step into a larger world."

Yes I do not know why I waited SO LONG to go out as myself. I have been transitioning for over 3+ years and this was about the only time that I have been outside as myself. I really feel like a major weight was just lifted off of me and believe that this one step will be the catalyst that helps me get to where I need to be at. It really is an amazing feeling....

[bethdj]

Good for you, Emily
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Last Monday I went to my first support group meeting. It was a big step for me too.