Where's all the guys gone??

[Tamara Croft]

This section used to be full of FTM members, but most have vanished... it's very odd, I used to have so much fun in this section, but then one by one they all started to leave...

Soooooo, we need more members, if you know any FTM's, tell them where we are :D and if you know why they left, tell me so I can drag them back ;)

Tell me what this section needs, what it lacks, too much of etc...

[mistunderstood]

O my god a thread was started and I did not start it.

[kristinacd55]

Sorry to hear that....I'll check in my meetup group to see how many are there and send them a link!

[sandra-leigh]

The FTMs that I know personally would probably not hang around a FTM section much. They would be looking for a section that welcomed people who might not belong to "the gender binary"; and when they looked around and found that it did not exist, they would likely leave without joining at all. (Note: this is not "I guess". I've had discussions with them about support resources and support groups.)

I make no claim that the FTMs that I know personally are at all "typical" in that regard; the city I live in has a long history of attracting the more inclusive LGBT* folk.

[RADER]

Tamara, you are correct, there where a few FTM that regularly posted here,
now none??????
I hope we did not scare them away, I would hate to see that happen.
Rader

[Julie York]

Is there another place which provides an opportunity for FtM to chat and talk with other like minded people? Maybe they all found a corner to huddle in without distractions or interlopers butting in.

[mistunderstood]

No. We closed the Club House do to lack of membership. If it picks up then it will re-open.

[Tamara Croft]

There is a new ft t-man, his name is Stark... I've seen him around the board, maybe he has friends :D

[Ryan A.]

Well, I've been almost one year here, unfortunatelly I haven't met one of them (the ones that are gone now).

I must confess that I've been on YouTube much more than in here to find support and see others experiences trought hormones and surgery :P I'm more visual and not so good at talk lol I'll try harder...

[Beverley Sims]

Ryan,
I have noticed a sharp fall off in this section as well.
I would ask the occasional question and now everyone has has gone quiet.
Even Andy 66 I think has disappeared.
I have seen Stark around but not talked to him.

I just looked, Andy's last activity was on 31st July 2013.

[Kate Simmons]

Yeah, I miss the good old days when we used to banter back and forth, have Pirate balls and just generally have fun. A guy, a guy, my kingdom for a nice FTM guy. :battingeyelashes::)

[Iona]

I'm.. sort of?

I don't really know that I count ;P

[Kate Simmons]

Looks like we are getting more guys. That is great as I miss talking to the guys. I realize that many have probably gone on after transition, etc. but I'm always looking to meet new F T M guy friends.:battingeyelashes:

[LenGray]

I don't know if I count but I'm here! ^o^ I'd love to meet some more FTM guys here ^_^

[RADER]

There is one, Shadow Wayrror, I think is his name.
Seems a real nice person.
Rader

[LenGray]

It is definitely quieter here than it is in the MtF TS and CD sections :) I really hope that more people, guys and gals, feel more comfortable posting here in the future and that it will become more lively :)

[Kate Simmons]

With cute guys like you my friend, definitely. ;):battingeyelashes::)

[Lady Slipper]

Yup, kinda slow in this section. I miss Andy66 and his hilarious avatars :)

[Tamara Croft]

So we have new guys :D I've not been around much, well I have but busy keeping the forum running, so a belated 'hi and welcome' to you guys :yahoo:

[LenGray]

Hi! I feel very welcome :)