Boy Friends

[Janette Walters]

Hi girlfriends!



I want to thank all my new girlfriends that dropped by and said hello. I just love being a woman! I have a question for the woman's point of view. I'm thinking of going steady with my BF but I'm not sure. I like to cuttle and dress pretty for him but how about other things like sex and how I'd fit into his life. Appreciate a woman's view and your experiences. Love and kisses. Janette

[Beverley Sims]

Janette,
This really depends on your sexual orientation.
Most here are heterosexual dressers.
If you are gay there are some here that may have some advice for you.
I would read some of the posts in the various forums to ascertain whether they are the type of forums you are looking for.

[Jenny CD]

Hi Janette... Welcome!

I'm fairly new to the dating scene as Jenny. I've been out as Jenny a thousand times and love it. I recently started dating a man and I couldn't happier with the way things are going. I suppose I can call him my boyfriend (tee-hee, still can't get used to saying that!). After about three weeks of dating, we finally did the 'deed' and it was wonderful. I guess I'm smitten!
I guess an obvious question is the same one Beverly asked of you.

[shy one]

hi, its crossed my mind when i am dressed to get off with a guy, does sound like fun

[Janette Walters]

Jenny,

Oh thanks for the reply. I'm going to be a woman and men are the opposite sex. I love cute guys, I'm so attracted to them. Does that answer you question? Do you feel there is a natural bond forming between the two of you and is the chemistry there? Do you like to please him in every way. I'd love to do the deed but I'm so afraid, should I be? Janette

[Sabrina133]

Hi girlfriends!



I want to thank all my new girlfriends that dropped by and said hello. I just love being a woman! I have a question for the woman's point of view. I'm thinking of going steady with my BF but I'm not sure. I like to cuttle and dress pretty for him but how about other things like sex and how I'd fit into his life. Appreciate a woman's view and your experiences. Love and kisses. Janette

Hi Sweetie,

I am a bi CD who has had several long term relationships with guys. Feel free to PM me and we can discuss.

Hugs Bree

[Janette Walters]

Sabrina,

Darling, I'd love to talk over these issues off line as they are so important to us. What is PM? How do I find your PM? Janette

[Jenny CD]

Many of the ladies here are so very supportive and they (we) will help you through your journey as much as we can.

Yes, I was afraid, not gonna fib about it. But, after Paul and I were intimate... It was fantastic and I can't wait to see him again. I'm not going to discuss details, this is not the place for that. And what happens behind closed doors... But, I will say he was gentle and knew that the experience was still fairly new. And, to be honest I'm VERY attracted to him and just couldn't wait to hold him close (or he hold me close).

[Kate Simmons]

The only thing I can say is that if love is involved: "Where there is a will, there is a way." People in love will find a way to express that to their partner. :)

[Janette Walters]

Jenny,

I'm so happy for you!!!! Are you in love now, can you hear the bells? Would you consider HRT or anything else along those lines? Love and kisses girlfriend. Janette

[Sabrina133]

Sabrina,

Darling, I'd love to talk over these issues off line as they are so important to us. What is PM? How do I find your PM? Janette

Hi sweetie, just go to my profile and send me a PM (Private message) or submit 3 more posts which will allow me to go to yours a i can send you a PM that way.

[Tracii G]

Welcome Janette I do find some guys attractive and date occasionally if it clicks it clicks.
I'm on the bi side so I have experimented some.
Its not the act of sex for me I have to be in love deeply for sex to happen.
Remember crossdressing doesn't make you gay or have anything to do with sexual preference.

[Janette Walters]

Post #1 Hi

Post #2 Hi

Post # 3 Hi

[Girl]

I've only had an occasional fling with a guy but I think it would be great to have a long-term boy friend. I LOVE the sex but I it's not so romantic as having a boy friend.

[jenni_xx]

Hi Janette

Unless you are specifically asking GG's, and hoping for a response from them, then you will not get an answer to you question from a "woman's point of view". You will, instead, get responses from people who identify themselves as women, but are simply not women.

If you are thinking of going steady with your boyfriend, then do it. The answers lie within yourself. Do you like your boyfriend? Do you love your boyfriend? Do you want to be with him?

Answer those questions for yourself. For it's yourself who actually matters. No one else.

[Karren H]

Post # 3 Hi

Clean up on Isle 3.... 2... and 1... Mods must be on break? lol

[Vickie_CDTV]

If you don't want to have sex with him, I'd make that clear to him right away before it goes further. Don't lead him on if that is what he wants and you don't, it is a bad idea for many reasons.

[nethiker55]

Hi Janet for me I have never found a good reason to exclude anyone from my love life just because of their plumbing. ( yes I go Bi) and enjoy it

[Lorileah]

First, just because you 'plan" on being a woman does not mean you HAVE to date men. Either you like them or not. That is up to you. If you are dating a man just because you either dress like a woman or plan to be a woman is not a good excuse.

Second, love should never look at "plumbing" as someone said. Loving someone and wanting to have relations with them should not depend on what gender. Sort of the whole premise for same sex marriages. You don't have to like a person just because they are a certain sex.

If you are dating men just because you appear feminine, you are in for a huge disappointment. You should date a guy or girl because you like them.

And as stated if you want women only to respond you need to ask for GG's only.

[DanielleT]

As a woman, I cannot imagine not having "boyfriends" (or girlfriends if the case may be). I think each case, date if you will, should stand on it's on merits, depending on what you expect to get out of it. If you are just looking for a fling, nothing wrong with that, lots of girls do, just don't set the bar too high with your expectations or you may be disappointed. I like being with men, I keep things in perspective and I have a lot of fun, in and out of bed.

[docrobbysherry]

I real boyfriend is someone u do everything with, Janette. Not someone u have a cuddly or fantasy relationship with.

I'd say if your not ready to give you're all to him, you're not ready for a boyfriend. Or, he's not the rite one.