50 shade of CD :daydreaming:

[candydawn75]

So the wife is reading 50 shades. Yes I know I know it is way late! (I have never read it.) So she is to the point of the "contract". She wants us to umm have one. As I have said I lost my job and she is, for a lack of a better word my keeper. So I am an "kept" man. We have played around with the femdom thing at times for now there is that twinkle in her eyes that says she wants this. So wow sub me?? What?? I AM A VERY DOMINANT PERSON!! Oh wait wow I think I like it. Last couple of weeks waiting on her hand and foot. So umm ok so lets play!

Now my ?? to you ladies. WHAT DO I BARGAIN FOR?? Candy is non-negotiable and she knows that. So help me!! What else?? Come on get creative! Lets make this fun!!

[suzy1]

You probably have no replies Candy because the answers are not allowed on this forum, they are too naughty!

[Andinera]

Id say the experience is treat enough. I would sign that contract in a heartbeat. I have read the first book and it is good. The things I would love for people to do to me.

[Kate Simmons]

Well, I'm no "sub" for sure. Tried it once and was about ready to deck my "master". For myself it has to be an equal partnership, regardless of trappings. To each their own I guess.:battingeyelashes::)

[Beverley Sims]

Candy,
For you just go with the flow.
It will probably be fun.
Not negotiable? Is that an option? :)

[Lorileah]

What do you want? You can ask for anything but the Dom can refuse such also. And I would be careful what you ask for.
(ps 50 shades is a far cry from the real BDSM world)

[Kimberlyfaye]

I think you are lacking two words in your question, what do you 'WANT TO' bargain for? It's all up to you Candy :) You said let's be creative soooo.... be creative. That's all I can suggest really. Even if we could post our answers here, there would be no point, as it's your choice as to what you want. Just go with your feelings.

[candydawn75]

LOL thanks everyone. Ya I know it is way away from it Lori just more of some spice it up fun, but who knows where it will lead! lol

[suchacutie]

I believe the only way to answer is with experience. It sounds like you don't yet have that experience so bargain for weekly updates and then lengthen the update periods.

[Amanda M]

Go for something completely outrageous - that puts YOU in the dominant role. Let us know what happens.....

Oh and Suzy - is this cyber boyfriend thing going to your head - if you´ll pardon the expression?

[suzy1]

Go for something completely outrageous - that puts YOU in the dominant role. Let us know what happens.....

Oh and Suzy - is this cyber boyfriend thing going to your head - if you´ll pardon the expression?

I have no idea what you meen Amanda, your head?:heehee:

I now have two boyfriends [masters, I am a sub]] and one that I rejected and he keeps P.M.ing me, he wants me back?

Candy, there is a whole world of excitement waiting for the two of you.
Unlock your imagination and go to heaven.:)

[docrobbysherry]

If u can't think of anything to ask for, I don't think you've thot much about this sub/dom thing. After u play awhile, either specific things will come to your mind.

If not, this game isn't for u!

[Frédérique]

So the wife is reading 50 shades. Yes I know I know it is way late! (I have never read it.)

I haven’t read it, either. I treat any best-selling anything like it’s the PLAGUE… :evilbegon


So wow sub me??

Become familiar with the terms “seme” and “uke.” I am most definitely a uke… :o

[suzy1]

I haven’t read it, either. I treat any best-selling anything like it’s the PLAGUE… :evilbegon


then you missed a good read! Your loss.

[Marsha My Dear]

Hi Candy,
I take a subordinate role to my wonderful wife. I do all the housework, pick up after her, meet her at the door with a drink- anything that shows her that she's the focus of my attention. And it extends to our private life. Being submissive means you put aside what you want. My role is to follow her instructions, not to tell her what I want from her. We're a happy couple who have a strong married life, completely sharing the decision making. To everyone else I'm the Devoted Husband who opens doors and carries her packages. But at home I'm her Devoted Servant. She likes Marsha and will pickup some clothes or shoes when she sees something I would like. It's quite an adventure. My only advice- keep you line of communication with her wide open- assumptions have led to some rough moments.
Bon chances, Marsha