Hello and my story

[AprilCross]

Hello girls, this my 2nd time ever posting on this forum but I have browsed here for a few years. I guess I'm making this thread to inspire some hope for some of the girls on here. First of all a little about me I'm 23 years I've been secretly dressing for about 5 years now. I've always had the tendency to want to get dolled up for the longest time and I guess it ate me out inside as I kept it a secret from everyone. I wasn't sure if I was transgendered or just a cross dresser. And I'm kinda still figuring out that still. The biggest thing that got me is I'm completely attracted to females so finding a girlfriend that would accept it would be a one in a million.well up into town I got really depressed thinking I would be alone forever until I came out to my best friend that's a girl and that I've had a crush on for a while and she completely accepted me! Not only does she accept this but she says shes very attracted to it! It put my mind at such a ease that shes on the same page as me! Now all of this just happened last night I'm barely taking it all in. Its crazy because shes talking about she wants to do my makeup and go shopping and its brings me to happy ness. I guess I'm writing all this because for all the girls out to know there is hope for us! It just takes time and patience but your soulmate is out their waiting!

[JenniferR771]

GReat news.Four minutes later. I am so happy for you!

And it gives other singles hope. There could be light at the end of the tunnel. Be respectful of her wishes and feelings. Don't go nuts on her.

[Karren H]

A half a day since this all happened is a little too early for happily ever after..... imho..... but congratulations so far.....

[AprilCross]

Well I can't say happily ever after but I can say a great start to a new chapter in my life and the comfort to finally be myself and be happy for once. I haven't felt this joy since I was kid so its all very overwhelming but awesome though!

[Maslow's Mum]

YAYYYYYYYY, AprilCross! I am SO happy for you....BOTH of you!

[Debra Russell]

Happy for you - enjoy the experience and hope the novelity for her last ................Debra

[Tracii G]

Lucky you April enjoy your time together.
My SO enjoys me in whatever mode I present.She was never into make up until we started seeing each other now she raids my stash of false eye lashes.
Its fun to go out as GF's.She even enjoys kissing another girl in public.LOL

[Kandy Barr]

I love to hear success stoties... so happy for you April and your SO, enjoy each other and have fun.. BTW, Welcome to the forum..... x Kandy

[AprilCross]

Thank you girls for the caring words, I never thought this would happen ever in my life and the fact its becoming real is so exciting

[Marcelle]

Hi April,

Congrats on finding someone special. My advice and it is not worth much as I only recently came out to my wife . . . go slow. Talk about everything you want to do and don't push. She needs to be on board with everything you would like to do. Even if it seems small and insignificant in your mind, talk to her about it . . . communication is key this early on.

Lots of great gals here with plenty of advice and don't be afraid to ask when in doubt.

Hugs

Isha

[Jorja]

First, let me say I am happy for you both that you have found each other. While it may seem at 23 you have the world figured out, it and its inhabitants will surprise you many times over your lifetime. Give that girl a special hug and show your appreciation for her often.

[paulaloha]

Thats awesome April!
I'm 23 as well and have definitely had those days where you wonder if you will ever find a girl that is OK with this part of yourself. So glad your friend is accepting and cool with this! Such an awesome opportunity for you!
I am hoping to come out to 2 of my close girl friends soon, this did give me some encouragement! Hopefully my friends will be as positive about it as your friend!

Congrats!

[Beverley Sims]

April,
It is wonderful now, but watch out for a change in attitude.
Take it slowly and carefully and don't smother her.

[barbaraclothes]

awesome make it last for both of you..