Who relates?

[Tina_gm]

Hi everyone, I decided to call myself gendermutt because it just so describes myself. I briefly thought about kimothy, or timonia, so it would not be much of a stretch to figure out my birth name lol. I am Caucasian so timonia, as cool as it sounds to me sounds like I am not Caucasian. Kimothy is a good mix I guess.... but it is just a name.


So, a little about me, I am just all over the map gender wise. I am extremely competitive. I don't just want to win, I want to stomp you into the ground and make you beg for mercy. But I pride myself with losing with the grace of Grace Kelley. When I play golf, I want to hit it farther, higher and basically just dominate my opponents both physically and mentally, despite my being only 5'9" and 160.

I would rather drive an F-450 or a 69 mustang than a dodge dart, but I would rather drive it with a cute skirt and heels.:edit::donut: I rarely cry, have no issue with crying, I just don't have much of a cry response to things. But god can I be an emotional mess at times. My wife tells me my emotions are that of a woman. I plead guilty to this.

My natural mannerisms are feminine in nature. I see on this forum about having to learn or to improve on being feminine.... I have to hide mine more often when in public and with friends or with my kids. I have always hidden it until 9 months ago when for whatever reason, I had no more fight in me to completely deny my femininity.

I seem to feel equally comfortable hanging out with guys doing and talking about typical guy stuff, although when it comes to fixing or building anything I am pathetic. I understand it, but no matter how hard I try I completely fail at it.

When in the company of women, I can join right in and get chatty and gossip as if I were one of them, almost to the point where I forget that I am not one. I work with the mentally challenged and have many female colleagues. My wife jokes with me that I am one of the girls at work. sometimes, often times I have to fight myself not to be lol.

Netflix movies are a complete toss up for me, Jane by design or some sci fi or james bond movie. Maybe I could be Jane Bond lol. I can go on and on and on....

[Jorja]

After reading your post, I am glad to see you have experience dealing with the mentally challenged. You might need that here.:) So let me guess, your Caucasian and thought about the names timonia and Kimothy, that would make your real name Oscar? Picking out a femme name can be difficult for some. You might want to think about a movie star, a singer, or a friend that you admire. There is one method where you think of the name of your first dog and the name of the street you lived on when you were born. Mine would be Dusty Blaine. It sounds too much like a stripper for me though. You can have your name changed on the forum, you know. Just ask a moderator. However, you may be right for now from your description, gendermutt does seem to fit.

[Tina_gm]

Wow, I thought I hid Oscar pretty well but somehow you seemed to pluck it out lol.

[Jenniferathome]

Hi everyone, I decided to call myself gendermutt because it just so describes myself. I briefly thought about kimothy, or timonia, so it would not be much of a stretch to figure out my birth name lol.

DAVE! Is your name Dave? Damn, I'm no good at this.

[Tina_gm]

my middle name... Oscar Dave .........

I can see my work with the mentally challenged will indeed be useful on this forum lol

[Cheryl Ann Owens]

(Quote) "When in the company of women, I can join right in and get chatty and gossip as if I were one of them, almost to the point where I forget that I am not one. I work with the mentally challenged and have many female colleagues. My wife jokes with me that I am one of the girls at work. sometimes, often times I have to fight myself not to be lol." (End of quote)

LOL! It happens to me all the time and I have to catch myself in the company of those who don't know Cheryl. Even my mannerisims with my hands and voice inflections give me away! Fashion talk would definitely raise their eyebrows. I guess it's just me!

Cheryl

[Tina_gm]

Me too. I will give a compliment, like nice earings or something and then mentally go ooops!

beware of alcohol lol. I had been at an all day all night family event at my my wife's sisters.... was just walking along not even thinking anything or having any real fem moment.... and her sister commented on how I walked like a girl. I WASN'T EVEN TRYING! of course I heard of this and let them have it and really sashayed for a few steps. Damn those 12 beers lol. Of course my wife then whispers in my ear a minute later, If they only knew you really walk that way lol. the next day I had to go retrieve my man card back by carrying THE largest things around tearing down the party and manning the grill and firing off guns at anything that moved that had fur

[LasVegasXD]

My big problem is that I love shoes and will complement a woman on her fine choice of boots or sandals. The problem is most women think it is the common pickup line, "Hey nice shoes, wanna..." Some though do look a little more into it. Maybe they just think I'm gay. Speaking of which I knew a very judgmental and odd gg who thought any man who wore black was gay. Well to each their own. Reminds me of Samuel Clemens quote, "It is better to be thought an idiot and keep your mouth shut, than to open it and remove all doubt." ;)

[Tracii G]

I can relate to all of that Bubba Joe (that is your real name right?)
I gave up hiding my femme side and I feel much better about myself.
Welcome BTW.

[Tina_gm]

It is a double edge sword for those of us who have built a life and hid the fem side.... What makes us feel better or more comfortable makes those close to us uncomfortable. And it can have detrimental effects on kids especially. It isn't fair, but it is what it is.

[Cheryl Ann Owens]

I wonder and suppose that our true colors come shining through? I've been around some people who seem to detect my real feminine side, especially GG's who seem to give me "that look." Paranoid? I don't know. Not that there's anything wrong with that! LOL!

Cheryl (Geez! I almost signed my legal name!)

[Tara D. Rose]

Well hot taw mighty, Dang. Blow the wind up my skirt and call me a long legged loving machine.

I was reading your thread, and I thought I had you figured, then the more I read, the more confused I became. I then read more and then I was back on track, then I was confused again. But anyway, gendermutt, I want to welcome you to the forums here or the jungle/and or forums, same thing, come what may.
I hope you find what you're looking for on this site. But be cautious, ,,,,,,,,,,,,no, just roll along kentucky moon.

[Tina_gm]

Tara, if you ever get me figured out will you let me know please? lol.

[Davena Doll]

Well when it comes to fixing or re.building things...... a stationary diesel motor should be rebuilt after 20,000 hours, hope this helps.

[Tina_gm]

thanks, and you can also give me a number to a mechanic who will rebuilt it should I ever have a stationary diesel motor or are we talking an oil furnace here?

[Beverley Sims]

Well Daoscar or whatever, you have got us all thinking anyway.