Wife wants to take me out dressed.

[Traci-nc]

So my wife wants to take me out tomorrow night in Raleigh. For some reason she wants to go to a club or something. Even in my going out days I never cared much for them. Does anyone know of a place we can go that we wont be hassled. I am no way passing in my movements or voice. And I may think I look ok for the first 5 or so seconds looking in the mirror I soon begin to think to myself now that's a guy in a dress.

[Maria in heels]

Traci...I think that you should grab her hand and run out the door! Its a wonderful offer from your wife and don't waste it

[Diane Lynn]

Traci, you just have to confident in your self. If you feel confident, people will feel it.

[DeeArel]

Do a web search for Flex, Legends, and 313 in Raleigh. Icons in Cary.

[Traci-nc]

Never heard of Icons but being in Cary it maybe a little more low key. I will have to check them out online

[Beverley Sims]

Traci,
You are very lucky, pander to your wife's wishes and worry about the consequences later.
I am sure she will make it all good for you.

[stephNE]

The only thing I can say is - GO!

[kimdl93]

Does your wife have any place in particular in mind? Stop thinking about it, relax, be yourself and enjoy the experience. Dont think of this as a camoflage...its an extension of who you are!

[Traci-nc]

I think she wants to go to one of the adult theaters in the area. Some times so takes my dressing as a kink. But as long as she is happy and understanding that's all that matters to me.

[barbaraclothes]

I would be all over that, it gets lonely going out solo...

[linda allen]

You didn't say what led up to her wanting to take you out as a female. It's possible she wants a great night for you and believes that's what you really want to do.

On the otherhand, there's a possibility that she thinks you will be uncomfortable and will be hassled or insulted and that will cure you of dressing.

Just saying ...............

I wish my wife would suggest going out together as girlfriends. Just driving or walking downtown would be fine with me.

[Traci-nc]

I think she knows better. As a New Yorker people don't bother me and she knows that I have a don't care attitude when it comes to insults. I think its because the other day when she did my hair and makeup she had said that I was better looking than her. So I think she just wants to build some self confidence. I have none always been that way.

[linda allen]

That's good. I say, go for it. Or scale it down and just go to the mall or walk the streets in the business, tourist, or club district where you won't have to talk to people.

[Kate Simmons]

Maybe she wants to see just how serious you are about this stuff Hon. ;):)

[Traci-nc]

Walking at the mall sounds more like my idea of fun. From what I hear chapel hill is s tolerant place.

[DivaB]

Traci three words YOU GO GIRL! I am sooo jealous please post some pics.

[kelly0]

indeed. sounds like a great opportunity. go and have fun!

[LasVegasXD]

I've found you get a lot less flack when you go with a gg. Especially if it looks like you are hers. People just IDK, figure you are together and this is something the two of you do (which probably isn't far off the mark).

[Stephy]

I'm green with envy - grab the opportunity with both arms!

[Kimberly Michelle]

Oh Oh... Take Me Too!

My SO and I have gone out several times together to an accepting club and both had a good time. I think she may have even more fun than me! I would not pass up an offer like that, in fact if you do go , please post your experience as we are always looking for new places to go. Raleigh is not that far for us.

[Melissa in SE Tn]

PLEASE let us know the post event details. I truly hope that the both of you had fun.