Kimberlyfaye
09-11-2013, 10:48 AM
Can we be too confident? Too out there? Can we look at a situation and go into it with overflowing confidence?
I have had another outing today, in drab, and I have come out again! A short time ago I posted here about my experience of coming out while getting new glasses. Well today I went around town and asked a few of the lovely girls at the makeup counters about a foundation to use. Every conversation started with "This is probably a strange request, but I'm slightyly bi-gendered and I sometimes dress up as a girl...." Anyway I showed them all the picture of me dressed. The responses were varied. One said, "Oh ok. You look very passable." And then she proceeded to help me with my problem. Another said "Ok well I have some trans friends and I've seen drag queens and they tend to do this...." But my personal favourite, and a young lady I will speak to again if I see her to thank, said "That sounds fun. Is that really you! You look so good. Wow."
Anyway they all helped me without hesitation and they were all very nice. Some gave me samples to try and tips for using the makeup. The last one, she even sat me in the chair and put some on me to see if it solved my problem. Then gave me a sample to try at home.
But as I mentioned above, do any of you think I am becoming too confident? Now I'm just asking SA's outright and not caring. I'm feminine and masculine and I like myself that way!
Hope this inspires some of you like it did last time. The acceptance is out there, you just have to be brave and grab it!
Xx
I have had another outing today, in drab, and I have come out again! A short time ago I posted here about my experience of coming out while getting new glasses. Well today I went around town and asked a few of the lovely girls at the makeup counters about a foundation to use. Every conversation started with "This is probably a strange request, but I'm slightyly bi-gendered and I sometimes dress up as a girl...." Anyway I showed them all the picture of me dressed. The responses were varied. One said, "Oh ok. You look very passable." And then she proceeded to help me with my problem. Another said "Ok well I have some trans friends and I've seen drag queens and they tend to do this...." But my personal favourite, and a young lady I will speak to again if I see her to thank, said "That sounds fun. Is that really you! You look so good. Wow."
Anyway they all helped me without hesitation and they were all very nice. Some gave me samples to try and tips for using the makeup. The last one, she even sat me in the chair and put some on me to see if it solved my problem. Then gave me a sample to try at home.
But as I mentioned above, do any of you think I am becoming too confident? Now I'm just asking SA's outright and not caring. I'm feminine and masculine and I like myself that way!
Hope this inspires some of you like it did last time. The acceptance is out there, you just have to be brave and grab it!
Xx