Have women ever hit on U when U were out in drag?

[Jesse69]

Have women ever hit on you when you were out in drag? I'd like to know what most women think when they see a crossdressor out in public. And if you ever got hit on - tell us about it!

I only think that women who are slightly lesbian or kinky would like a guy in drag.

I've never been out in public yet, but I have everything to do so. I have shoes, a wig, breastforms, beard foundation, a women's watch, and a purse. Plus a lot of clothes.

[lydia7]

Never heard of such a situation, but I am excited to heare about some stories on either side of that one!

[SweetHosedFeet]

Hi

Actually I was kind of popular among a group of lesbian friends I used to go out with.

The girls were always crazy about caressing my legs and ass in pantyhose, unfortunately they seldom wore really feminine outfits but still they seemed to appreciate those on me.

Anyway... those were the days.

Yours,
Zara

[Diann]

The only time I went to a Halloween party dressed the girls were jealous of how good my legs looked the Quote was I'd kill to have legs like that! Don't think for a minute we are not crossing a line competing with them. They don't like the competition. Diann

[Sweet Susan]

Have women ever hit on you when you were out in drag? I'd like to know what most women think when they see a crossdressor out in public.

Never been hit on by a woman while en femme. Been hit on by a few men....

[Mitzi]

When I first started going out en femme to T-bars, a GG with a reputation for hating men, had a drink sent to me. We'd seen each other at the bar before so she knew I was a t girl. I didn't know how I should respond, so I thanked her and bought her a drink in return, and that was that. Not quite getting hit on...but...

On another occasion when I was en femme, as I got ready to leave the T-bar, a GG asked if I would give her a lift somewhere. I said said sure...we drove a few blocks, when she asked in a nice way,whether I would be interested in..oh, you know...getting acquainted a bit more intimately. I wasn't exactly a "40 year old virgin", but I was scared, and declined as politely as I could. So I drove her to her destination and dropped her off...

Oh, the missed opportunities...

Mitzi

[Sophia Rearen]

It happened to me. While I was dressed as a bride for halloween. It was the third stop of the night, around 12:30. I went to this party being held by a 20 something yo swf. Her friends were all about the same age. It was chilly outside and they had a fire pit burning on the patio. I sat on one side of the pit and after a minute or two a girlfriend of the hostess came over, sat next to me and introduced herself. We chatted for a while. Let me tell you, it didn't suck. However, as a married man with an accepting wife, I know, I can't go there!

[Emily Ann Brown]

Not in public, but I had a rash of lesbians hitting on me on my webpage. One knew I was a dresser and seemed to be MORE interested after I enlightened her. Geesh.

Emily Ann

[Tamara Barclay]

Nope!

[JoAnnDallas]

Like emily, I too have had men hit on me on my web page, but not in public. Sheess she has all the fun.

[MsJanessa]

I get hit on by men a lot in bars---occasionally by ladies---have gone home with a couple of the GGs and had a fun time.:dom:

[Teddie]

Just my wife.:dom: :love:

[connie rotten]

Never has happened to me. I'm not sure how I'd react if it did. One thing is for sure she would have to be as pretty as me to pick me up.
Call me vien. Call me shallow.It is only me being my Rotten little self. :tongueout

[MarinaTwelve200]

The only time I ever went out in drag was at a Halloween costume party just over a year ago.---I seemed to attract the ladies like a magnet. I said to myself ,"Its a bit drastic, but its a great way to meet girls" :) I was dressed as a sorta sexy gypsy fortune teller, and all the gals surrounded me---they all wanted me to tell their fortune. ---And this was a church sunday school halloween party too.
I think women are facinated by a guy in drag. I think it is a 'girl thing" with them. Perhaps they craved male companionship with a guy that they saw as being "safe", I really dont know. None of them suggested that they thought i might be gay or something (I'm not) . Its just a very interesting observation that GGs find guys in drag interesting.---

[Stormgirl]

No,Im sexually unattractive.

[tammie]

Hi All: I cannot pass and do not try, but I underdress often. About 2 yrs ago in the winter, I bought my first Wacoal lace cup minimizer udnerwire bra.
It is great and when it came in the mail I tried it on and WOW! I could fill the cups [42C] no wrinkles and no forms, and it felt great and looked better. I didn't want to take it off so I put on my levis and a polo short over my new lacecup bra and my Wacoal LLPG and off I went to get a haircut. Now I checked to see if I showed, and it was so subtle I thought no wone will notice. That was before I drove several miles and moved around and stretched my shirt etc. So at the salon the young woman that cut my hair knew either by the side shaping [no projection to speak of, but totally round breasts] or she saw the straps as I got in and out of the wash chair. She smiled so devilishly at me in the mirror and rubbed my bra straps. I got a great cut and felt so liberated to know she could tell I was wearing a bra.

When I got to my car I started for home and decided to just pop into Safeway to pick up 2 RXs that had been phoned in. I went down this aisle, and a woman stopped dead starring at me, I turned around and went down another aisle and here she came. I did the reverse manuver again and tried a 3rd aisle, she was there again. I decided to go past her, and when I did she satage whispered to me "U look great in a bra". I was so taken aback I could only mumble "thanks" and kept going, htereby missing what might have been the opportunity of the decade fo rme.

When I got home and looked in the mirror, I was shocked to see the lace cup bra was printing like crazy thru my shirt, outlining my breasts like I wanted to show the world my brassiere. Now I always do what women used to always do to not show, I wear a slip or cami over my bra to let my shirt slide over it without clinging to it. I have some great short slips and I just let it hang into both pants legs and it is both practical and comfortable. Also it keeps me from having my shirtail come out.

[Michellemartyn]

Lesbians must like us T/girls I don,t no why it has happened to me three times now.
The first time I thort she was taking the micky as she was about 21 and a stuner but told me it was a turn on for her
The next time I was with my wife that was a bad day but she put her right don,t think I,ll see her again
I must stop going to gay bars I DON,T THINK.
MICHELLE:cool:

[DragonLotus]

I know I wouldn't hesitate to politely throw down my rap if she was attractive to me and didn't seem unfriendly or full of herself. I would love something like that. Treating her like the most beautiful thing in the room would be my main objective, not getting her in the sack. That to me is just rude and dangerous (just my opinion, not a moral judgement ;) )

I think a lot of GG's who consider themselves straight are able to appreciate the female form in secret....and perhaps the sight of a man en femme stokes a wee bit of same-sex attraction that this average female would deny and downplay under normal circumstances. It's almost as if it's ok to experiment with flirtatious banter (and groping, kissing, etc) because they don't feel like their sexuality is in question.

Although I have been with women, I FAR prefer the company of men. But I think the softness and femininity of a man en femme would be a delight, because that is one thing I definitely miss when I'm around manly-men.

Nice thread! :thumbsup:

[Rachael R]

In my experience, I found that I had more women as friends and girlfiends as a woman than I ever did as a man.

[Deidra Cowen]

I've been hit on by two GGs out at the bars while dressed. I ended up dating one of them for a while and still am friends with her even though we broke up.

I have had a number of guys hit on me...probably average one every other night I go out. But they are usually pretty creepy and I politely send them on their way.

When we were at the Twinkledome party two weekends ago a very hot little Tgirl by the name of Claudia was with us. Two twenty something GGs raved over her and one of them kissed her. Was pretty cool even if the GGs perferred the young Tgirl over 'old' Deidra. :cool:

[Rikki Elisabeth]

I have been hit on three or four times. St. Louis, Chicago, and Itasca.

Twice were in predominantly lesbian bars. I was submissive; they were aggressive. I went to dinner at Morton's with one. I have to admit that I would be lesbian. I have had lots of guys hit on me but they are looking for only one thing. The girls may be looking for the same but they are much more subtle and sensitive.

So, the answer is YES, and I hope to God that it happens again, and again, and again.

[kwebb]

Once in a bar at Halloween these GGs had gotten a 'lil tipsy and became fixated on my breast forms. I had on this skin tight, lycra body suit, and the nipples wer standing at attention on these forms, it was too much for 'em and they kept grabbing at them and trying to squeeze them. This was one of my first times out and at first I seemed flattered but flustered. Then I felt like they had disrespected me. Just because you like what you see doesn't mean you just go up and start grabbing. Maybe they were curious as to whether they were 'real' what they felt like, etc.

I saw these same girls the next day and they were the one's who seemed flustered then.

[Jesse69]

Hi All: I cannot pass and do not try, but I underdress often. About 2 yrs ago in the winter, I bought my first Wacoal lace cup minimizer udnerwire bra.
It is great and when it came in the mail I tried it on and WOW! I could fill the cups [42C] no wrinkles and no forms, and it felt great and looked better. I didn't want to take it off so I put on my levis and a polo short over my new lacecup bra and my Wacoal LLPG and off I went to get a haircut. Now I checked to see if I showed, and it was so subtle I thought no wone will notice. That was before I drove several miles and moved around and stretched my shirt etc. So at the salon the young woman that cut my hair knew either by the side shaping [no projection to speak of, but totally round breasts] or she saw the straps as I got in and out of the wash chair. She smiled so devilishly at me in the mirror and rubbed my bra straps. I got a great cut and felt so liberated to know she could tell I was wearing a bra.

When I got to my car I started for home and decided to just pop into Safeway to pick up 2 RXs that had been phoned in. I went down this aisle, and a woman stopped dead starring at me, I turned around and went down another aisle and here she came. I did the reverse manuver again and tried a 3rd aisle, she was there again. I decided to go past her, and when I did she satage whispered to me "U look great in a bra". I was so taken aback I could only mumble "thanks" and kept going, htereby missing what might have been the opportunity of the decade fo rme.
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Tammie - I only have 1 Wacaol bra panty set - this stuff is expensive but nice. But I can't believe that you as a man could fill a 42C bra naturally! Did you take hormones? Or do you have big breasts because you are overweight? Do you wear a bra all the time now?

Why'd you pass up that lady at Safeway? Was she ugly?

I guess I wouldn't be able to pass up a beautiful lesbian if one ever came up across liking me. I've never been to any gay bar, but maybe I'd try a lesbian bar. But I would only like a femme lesbian. I don't think it would ever work out if she's so hung up on doing other real women.

[kathy gg]

Have to say Jesse, in the less than two years that I was single and went to tg friendly bars looking for a crossdresser to date I never had to 'hit' on anyone. Once cd guys found out that I was interested in dating a crossdresser it was me that got hit on.

[Jodi]

I have been hit on a number of times by gg's when out dressed. I have been given phone numbers 3 times. I followed up on one of them and have been out with her several times. It was the third date before she saw me in guy mode. Her first comment, laughing, was--"OMG you are short without heels".
BTW, I'm 5'9" in bare feet.

Jodi

[Rikki Elisabeth]

I like being hit on. I guess it goes back to my high school days. I never went on a date with anyone to whom I was not introduced. I could never bring myself to approach the girl myself. I guess that is why I am submissive.

[Rachel Morley]

No....not exactly hit on, but of the times in the past when I was single that I have dressed up fully en femme for costume parties (and there have been several) I did get lots of GG attention :)

However all of the GGs that "fussed"over me either already knew me, or knew friends of my mine and so kinda knew that I was "safe".

Anyway, at the time I loved the attention and enjoyed being treated different.

[Marla GG]

I only think that women who are slightly lesbian or kinky would like a guy in drag.


:lame:

Oye! Who do you think you're talking to here? Jesse, you do know that there are GGs on this forum who like being with crossdressers, right? Are you saying we're all lesbians or perverts? I don't think so!

I looked to date and marry a crossdresser because I wanted to be with softer, gentler, non-macho kind of guy. I also happen to think crossdressing is sexy and fun. I am not a lesbian. Not even slightly. In fact I have never heard of a lesbian becoming romantically involved with a MtF crossdresser..... although if you're lucky they will flirt with you at TG clubs ;)

Anyway, it isn't nice to go around slapping labels on girls like me. We might just slap back! :slap:

[Lotte L]

My wife Anna knows I'm CD she does'nt speake about it but she makes remarks. Lastweek Anna and I were shopping in a medium large city, she spotted a CD a very bad impersonation of a woman. Than Anna tells me how pathetic that is, and I would look the same. Then I respond thats why I have to advice you all the time what to weare and how to dress. It's living on the edge.

Love,
Lotte L

[Joy N. Wearing]

What an eye opener !

It was the first time that I ever went out in public. My wife and I had just come from a make over session and were headed out for dinner but I realized that I had very little cash left as I bought a new wig and some other thing also. I stopped at a bank, and started to walk up to the ATM machine when this guy ( very well dressed, very hansom 40ish executive ) that was ahead of me seed “ please go ahead of me mam” and then started up a conversation with “ you look so beautiful tonight, are you going out with someone ?”. I answer without a flinch, “my wife and I are going to dinner and then dancing” thinking that would end it but he came back with, “ I hope that I see you ladies later tonight !” --------------- now know what my wife means when she sees “ wet my panties!” I took my money and seed as sweet as I could, thank you very much, and walked away. When I told wife what happened, she giggled and laughed and seed, now you see what we girls have to go through to get money.

But that’s not the end of the night, at the restraint this really cute 35ish girl started giving me the flirty eye when I went into the ladies room and so I smiled and thought that was it. When I came out and sat down to finish dinner, she was in my face as in my face with my wife sitting three feet away. Now my wife is very sweet and ever so gentle but I think that may have just pushed her over the edge (edge of the knife that she was holding). She told her that I was her girl and she better get lost – you get the picture of how the rest of the dinned went. When we left the restraint, it happened again, another guy, -- we went home. My wife still talks about that night. Now please understand that I am really old, super fat and regardless of how feminine I feel on the inside, the outside looks like a Mack truck and smells like a Greyhound buss. It was very gratifying all that attention but also a mystery as to why so few people have not had there eyes checked lately, must need a good HMO.

I hade dreamed as any girl would do, of what it would be like to be beautiful and adored but never once ever imagined or thought throughout my entire life it could ever happen to me but the attention I get now of people treating me as a lady is beyond any description or aspiration. As I seed, I still look like a combination of a Mack truck and a Greyhound but I feel like a princess.

Debbie Austin:p
debbieaustin@juno.com

[Davina]

In my teens i used to go out alot with a couple of friends GGs to clubs pubs got invited to there weddings used to go to aerobics i was quite a convincing tv but i never got hit on by a woman.
Got hit on by a guy once ,he grabed me from behind when i was dancing with female friends but i declined his offer.
Another Guy said nice legs when i got out of my Car.
That's about it.

Don't dress up as much these days only in private as i,m getting older but i look back and think what a fun time i,ve had over the years.

[Christina Nicole]

Nope, never hit on. I suppose that is one of the joys of being ugl... unattrac... plain.

Warm regards,
Christina Nicole

[Jesse69]

:lame:

Oye! Who do you think you're talking to here? Jesse, you do know that there are GGs on this forum who like being with crossdressers, right? Are you saying we're all lesbians or perverts? I don't think so!

I looked to date and marry a crossdresser because I wanted to be with softer, gentler, non-macho kind of guy. I also happen to think crossdressing is sexy and fun. I am not a lesbian. Not even slightly. In fact I have never heard of a lesbian becoming romantically involved with a MtF crossdresser..... although if you're lucky they will flirt with you at TG clubs ;)

Anyway, it isn't nice to go around slapping labels on girls like me. We might just slap back! :slap:

Oh no - I wasn't calling all women who like crossdressors as lesbians. I was just thinking that they were a little bit kinky but I didn't say pervert. It would be nice if straight regular women liked crossdressors too - but mostly I think they're turned off by us. Like I'm turned off by butch lesbians who dress like men - but seeing this is very rare.

[Mitzi]

Not a "hit on" story, but sorta related...

A tg shop in Hollywood I used to visit a lot, employed a middle aged GG seamstress to sew French maid costumes and such. I usually went drab during the day, but en femme in the evening. She pretty much kept to her sewing, never socializing with the customers, and went home after the work day.

One day I said I'd be back later en femme. When I came back that evening dressed, the seamstress was still there. She made a big fuss over me, saying it wasn't fair that a guy could look prettier than a real girl, and kept touching me. Uba, the shop owner said the seamstress was really anxious to see what I looked like as a girl, and stayed on until I showed up.

An unrelated story, Uba had a young CD working part time. He'd only seen me en femme. The first time he saw me en drab, he covered his eyes, and kept saying no, no. His fantasy of me as a girl had been shattered. I 've been there too...get turned on by an attractive CD, then see her en drab...thud...

Mitzi

[Charlene Marie]

Sure, been hit on from Gay guys in a few bars. I wasn't offended or flattered, I just had to explain that boys didn't do it for me. I have been approached by a few straight men, very scary actually, and again not my bag. I have GG hairdresser girlfriends who are real sweet to me, but they have no sexual interest. I am happily married, but I would like to have a girlfriend that I could really talk to. I knew a transexual girl a few years ago. I used to do her hair- hair extensions and color. She was beautiful and so sweet. She said I turned her on and she kissed me once when she was very pleased with how her hair came out. I'll admit, She could do it for me, and I was really tempted.

[Fallen Angel]

well i go out reguarly and theres been a few times ive been hit on and to me its a complament knowing that i have done some thing rite. and i have to really agree with marla on this you,d be suprised at the very sincere ggs that want some one that is tender and gentil. alot of gg's dont look at us a so-called eye candy.there has been many nites ive been invited to sit along with the true girls and have felt at ease and very welcomed by them.just the thought of being exepeted at level equal to them is a complament in its self and should not be taken for granted.Nor be miss understood for the sexual end of things.gay is gay no matter what gender they are and most likely have there own partners and most certainly dont stray from that.as far as the perverted or kinky end of things well in all the time ive been dressing and thats been over 15 years or so now ive ran accross one and i think its was more for the curiusity of it than anything else.when im dressed as la fem i dont want to be labled being bi,gay or otherwise knowing im straight !!! and most of the other girls would agree on this as well so marla has a point on the lableing as well.incounters of the third kind are more a fantisy than a reality.being a crossdresser does not make you automaticly gay and femals who enjoy being with us does not make them lesbiens either.

[Sabrina1575]

I'm not sure how I would react. But I would love the opportunity. :angel:

Sabrina,

[Davina]

Wish i Could find a gg that will put up with me .Maybe I should stop Cross Dressing .
What do you thinK Girls.

[robyn25]

I used to go to the Queen Mary in L.A. years ago and was often hit on by guys (which I loved by the way, even if I never followed up). Once a couple approached me, a husband and wife in their early thirties I'd guess. No real lead-up, they just said hello and asked if I wanted to go back to their place for a threesome. Once I got my breath, I politely declined. The bartender asked me later if that was what they asked me, and we had a good laugh about how direct they were.

[Debbie Kong]

A couple of Halloween's ago I was out at a club in Barrie and a woman approached and befriended me. We danced and at one point she pulled down the front of my dress and played with my breasts. She was somewhat aggressive but also very drunk. Soon she went home in a cab.

The other night, New Year's eve, in Toronto, a woman bought me a drink and insisted on dancing with me several times throughout the night and into the morning. I think she was high on Ecstacy. Young enough to be my daughter. All good fun. Later, a ******* Escort danced with me but she was just working the crowd.

I find that many woman are amused, in a pleasant way, when they see us. Lot's of smiles and winks. More than I ever recieved when out as a guy. It's the most gratifying thing.

Best wishes

Debbie

[hotxbuns]

I have been hit on numerous times by gg's at clubs but these clubs are usually fetish or goth clubs so the girls are pretty open minded. In fact two girls who had never been to these type of clubs before even asked me to go to the ladies with them and get to know each other even better, but i had to beg off because even though i only find women sexually attractive i dont find ALL women sexually attractive if you know what i mean. Of my last 4 girlfriends all of them met me dressed first and only later saw my drab self but i must admit 3 of those girls bad bisexual tendencies and saw me as a very safe option. I believe women find the fact that you are being honest about yourself when dressed a very attractive feature as well as being slightly exotic.
I have attached a photo of me with my ex (in pvc) and her roomy in my blond wig before mardi-gras last year.

[Jesse69]

I have attached a photo of me with my ex (in pvc) and her roomy in my blond wig before mardi-gras last year.

If you're the tall one in white with purple hair you're really hot! I thought you were a real woman! Post some more pics of yourself in the Picture Section. I can see why bisexual women would like you.

[Julie]

Funny you should ask....

I was out Friday, the first time in almost a month. I ran into a girl I had seen many times but only had casual conversations with. This night she seemed much more friendly and I wasn't about to walk away. We spent a lot of time being physical, kissing and hugging, and it seemed she was enjoying it as much as me. She says she's not lez or even bi, she just liked me. Cool! :cool:

I'll leave the rest to your imagination.

A real lady never tells.

[rachel_rachel]

I had a friend's girlfriend slap me on the bum everytime i walked past or near her on New year's eve, She even grabbed me on my breastforms, then even let me me feel hers. Good thing her boyfriend wasn't there.