Emma Beth
10-03-2013, 08:42 AM
A while back I posted about being in conflict about whether or not to come out to my Dad because he has cancer.
I just got back from my trip to visit my family and I feel great. I got to spent a good bit of time with my Mom and Dad as well as spending some time with my Sister and her kids. I got to meet my great Nephew and he is so adorable. We all had a big family dinner Tuesday evening. I wish I could have spent more time with my Niece, whom I have come out to.
Back to my op; anyway, I had an interesting conversation with my Mother and she kind of helped me decide as to whether or not to tell my Dad. She told me that she is afraid that he isn't long for this world. When she told me that my heart just broke. I couldn't help but worry for her after being reminded just how the two of them are together.
If things turn out different than they seem, then I will eventually tell him. Once things develop further for me I will tell the rest of my Family, including my Mother.
I wish that my wife and I could have spent a lot more time, but that just wasn't in the cards.
I love every one here that has been so supportive and thank all who have been there for me with an ear.
I'm hoping that something I have in the works will get me to my next stage.
Love and Hugs,
Liz
I just got back from my trip to visit my family and I feel great. I got to spent a good bit of time with my Mom and Dad as well as spending some time with my Sister and her kids. I got to meet my great Nephew and he is so adorable. We all had a big family dinner Tuesday evening. I wish I could have spent more time with my Niece, whom I have come out to.
Back to my op; anyway, I had an interesting conversation with my Mother and she kind of helped me decide as to whether or not to tell my Dad. She told me that she is afraid that he isn't long for this world. When she told me that my heart just broke. I couldn't help but worry for her after being reminded just how the two of them are together.
If things turn out different than they seem, then I will eventually tell him. Once things develop further for me I will tell the rest of my Family, including my Mother.
I wish that my wife and I could have spent a lot more time, but that just wasn't in the cards.
I love every one here that has been so supportive and thank all who have been there for me with an ear.
I'm hoping that something I have in the works will get me to my next stage.
Love and Hugs,
Liz