Ms. Laura
10-15-2013, 10:49 AM
Hi,
So, it has taken me since April to finally get back to my support group. I had an experience last time, walking by a LOT of muggles and the stares and the self doubt and the fear and the...
Anyway, it took all summer to realize that the thought of holing up in my basement again, forever, is terrifying as well. So, I calmed myself down and went, and it was really nice. It really helps having people accept you for who and what you are. Sure, there was a small amount of muggle interaction but I just let it roll off. (Funny note, 2 women asked to "pass through" the room, I think without realizing who was there. OMG, what they must have thought.)
So, now I'm stil conflicted about where I go from here. I don't want to retreat, but mixing with the general public seems stressful beyond belief. I guess for now, hang with the sisters and see where things go. My wife doesn't want me to go out anway. She's fine with the group and T-activities, but not the public. So we'll see.
And if you can believe, after 20+ years, this was the first time I ever shaved my legs with a razor! Once, I clipped them short but no razor. I wore a pretty skirt with some sheer hosiery and some cute round toe, high heel wedges, with a 3/4 sleeve turtleneck. Wish I had some pics but I don't. Maybe I'll photo the outfit at a later date.
Thanks for listening. I got a lot of encourgement from everyone leading up to my first outing and it really helped.
So, it has taken me since April to finally get back to my support group. I had an experience last time, walking by a LOT of muggles and the stares and the self doubt and the fear and the...
Anyway, it took all summer to realize that the thought of holing up in my basement again, forever, is terrifying as well. So, I calmed myself down and went, and it was really nice. It really helps having people accept you for who and what you are. Sure, there was a small amount of muggle interaction but I just let it roll off. (Funny note, 2 women asked to "pass through" the room, I think without realizing who was there. OMG, what they must have thought.)
So, now I'm stil conflicted about where I go from here. I don't want to retreat, but mixing with the general public seems stressful beyond belief. I guess for now, hang with the sisters and see where things go. My wife doesn't want me to go out anway. She's fine with the group and T-activities, but not the public. So we'll see.
And if you can believe, after 20+ years, this was the first time I ever shaved my legs with a razor! Once, I clipped them short but no razor. I wore a pretty skirt with some sheer hosiery and some cute round toe, high heel wedges, with a 3/4 sleeve turtleneck. Wish I had some pics but I don't. Maybe I'll photo the outfit at a later date.
Thanks for listening. I got a lot of encourgement from everyone leading up to my first outing and it really helped.