Amazing Day, Sad Night

[Aly Cat]

Im sure most of you have seen my last post "ahhhh im a drag queen!!!!!!" So you know the day I had. The night is sad though.
I was talking to my wife about going back on friday again for more filming and everything was fine. What we didnt know was that my son was in the very next room listening to us while finishing up some homework. My wife got very upset with me about talking about the details of my outfit now knowing that he had been listening. He played dumb and didnt say a word about it but that didnt make my wife amy happier. A few minutes later I talked to her about separation. It has been a long time coming if you all have read my posts and know the background. Im not going to go into details since its all listed in months of posts. Saying it plainly, She doesnt accept me for who I am and we constantly chafe with this subject. Ive been unhappy for a long time and I am finally finding what makes me hsppy. It is not with my wife....we will be separating after the holidays are over and I am moving out then. I will be talking to my counselor about how to discuss this with the children correctly. It feels right to do but it is still very sad.

[Beverley Sims]

Eva,
I am sorry to read that.
Behind most members here, there is a sad story we all contend with, it would be nice to resolve your issue amicably.
I encourage everyone to work through it and try a little give and take.
In your case, that has probably already been covered.

[heatherdress]

Eva Lynn - I am sorry that you are sad and I understand. This will be the most difficult of times, but it will get better. Take your time. Seek friends. Stay busy. Work out. Keep seeing your counselor. Take care of your children. Look forward to your future. You deserve to be happy. Good luck.

[jessicamichelle]

I'm sorry to hear about your separation Eva. I'm new here and not familiar with your story but I don't like for anyone to hurt. If it helps at all I think you matter and that you are important and that finding what makes you happy matters just as much as anything else.

[kimdl93]

I'm very sorry to hear that your marriage is ending. Don't blame it all on CDing nor assume you are entirely at fault. Marriages fail all the time for a mix of reasons, but both parties inevitably contribute towards the result.

[linda allen]

It's too bad about your marriage but if you want out, that's the best thing to do. I don't understand why you would wait until after the holidays (I'm assuming Christmas). How does that make things better?

If it's over, pack your things and get on with your lives.

I hope you've thought this through, it's a pretty serious and life changing step. Alimony and child support can leave you living in a box under a bridge.

[DonnaT]

I was talking to my wife about going back on friday again for more filming and everything was fine. What we didnt know was that my son was in the very next room listening to us while finishing up some homework. My wife got very upset with me about talking about the details of my outfit now knowing that he had been listening.

It's a tv role, what's wrong with talking about the costume you'll be wearing for a part in the show? Easily explainable to your son, I'm sure.

[Christina Kay]

I am so sorry for you Eva. My thoughts are with you . Hugs

[Maria in heels]

Eva....some sad news. Who knows what will happen, but you do need to sit and talk with your son, and please remember to make it age appropriate so he can understand if he is young. Best of luck and we will all do our part to help if we can...just ask

[Michelle V]

My condolences, it is very tough getting separated when there are children involve. I wish you the best of luck.

[Stephania]

Sorry Eva, hope all works out in the end.

[docrobbysherry]

Divorce is NOT the end of your relationship, Eva. Actually, living apart can be better for both of u and your kids. As, they don't have to watch the 2 of u tearing at one another. U both can be yourselves when u r with them.

That being said, I have no idea how old your kids r. And, fiting over who gets the kids is by far the most acrimonious issue in most divorces! Try to work that out with your future ex BEFORE u both talk to your separate attorneys!