Tina_gm
11-01-2013, 11:41 AM
So lately, things between my wife and I have been not the best. I know not all of it is CD related. Not even sure if any of it is, although I am suspecting heavily that at least some of it is. Very little mention of it as of late and any mention of this side of me at all is brisk and with a slight negative connotation. This seems to be going on longer than the normal few days in which I know to lay low and not discuss it and reign in the fem side of me somewhat. This is going on now for a bit longer than usual, and a bit worse then usual as well.
A lot of other stresses are happening as well... work stress, and some untimely money having to go out around the holidays, blah. :sad: Oh and my wife is now entering menopause as well. Not the best of combinations I am thinking here.
Add to that, I am having patches of the fog. Not severe, or constant, but also a little stronger than whatever little I have experienced. Some hit me very recently, but also along with times where with all of the recent stuff going on, times where I feel even less than my usual fem side. So my head spins a little as well.
I guess on a positive note, I sort of was able to have some Halloween fun. I was going to dress up in a 70's get up for work, but needed to go in stupid early and then just said F-it. But when I got there (I have always dressed up) co-workers were disappointed. So, one women just hands me this sort of old lady victorian style dress she had brought in. Makes me wonder how read I am.... So I reluctantly agreed lol. Wasn't taking this real serious, no make up, I still have a goatee, but I sort of did this old lady thing with a grey wig. At work, people thought it was great. Hey, this is 2013 after all, and most really don't have much of an issue, plus its Halloween and I wasn't going all out. But a lot of fun, a lot of jokes, and y'know, it felt good to wear a dress too. :)
So later on after work, (she let me keep it for the weekend) hmm, how read am I? .... but I suggested to my wife that she, the kids and me would go out and do something, and I would wear the dress. Again, not a serious thing, but my wife was not interested at all, and said she would not be going out with me if I did. Plus my teenage kids just wanted to stay home, and it was raining horribly. So we did nothing.
But weird though, because my wife asked me to wear the dress so she could see what I looked like at work, plus I had a pic on my phone that she saw. She didn't seem mortified, but sort of shook her head negatively with an eye roll and an odd smile kinda thing. Well at least for a few moments she saw something, and her world did not end.
So I am hitting a bit of a rough spot here, and the fog is a little heavier at times, but very patchy. Overall, not one of the better moments I am having with all this, but yet somewhere a few very brief moments that are good have occurred. Wish this was all a heck of a lot easier.
A lot of other stresses are happening as well... work stress, and some untimely money having to go out around the holidays, blah. :sad: Oh and my wife is now entering menopause as well. Not the best of combinations I am thinking here.
Add to that, I am having patches of the fog. Not severe, or constant, but also a little stronger than whatever little I have experienced. Some hit me very recently, but also along with times where with all of the recent stuff going on, times where I feel even less than my usual fem side. So my head spins a little as well.
I guess on a positive note, I sort of was able to have some Halloween fun. I was going to dress up in a 70's get up for work, but needed to go in stupid early and then just said F-it. But when I got there (I have always dressed up) co-workers were disappointed. So, one women just hands me this sort of old lady victorian style dress she had brought in. Makes me wonder how read I am.... So I reluctantly agreed lol. Wasn't taking this real serious, no make up, I still have a goatee, but I sort of did this old lady thing with a grey wig. At work, people thought it was great. Hey, this is 2013 after all, and most really don't have much of an issue, plus its Halloween and I wasn't going all out. But a lot of fun, a lot of jokes, and y'know, it felt good to wear a dress too. :)
So later on after work, (she let me keep it for the weekend) hmm, how read am I? .... but I suggested to my wife that she, the kids and me would go out and do something, and I would wear the dress. Again, not a serious thing, but my wife was not interested at all, and said she would not be going out with me if I did. Plus my teenage kids just wanted to stay home, and it was raining horribly. So we did nothing.
But weird though, because my wife asked me to wear the dress so she could see what I looked like at work, plus I had a pic on my phone that she saw. She didn't seem mortified, but sort of shook her head negatively with an eye roll and an odd smile kinda thing. Well at least for a few moments she saw something, and her world did not end.
So I am hitting a bit of a rough spot here, and the fog is a little heavier at times, but very patchy. Overall, not one of the better moments I am having with all this, but yet somewhere a few very brief moments that are good have occurred. Wish this was all a heck of a lot easier.