LelaK
11-06-2013, 12:02 AM
We like to look and feel like girls, but do we like to act much like them? I prefer to act "natural" myself, neither feminine nor masculine.
Do you like to be gifted like women do? Do you know what women like? I read that they like to get small, personal gifts about every week, that show that you put a lot of thought into it and get her something she really likes.
I consider that kind of high maintenance, because it would require that I put a lot of time into getting her those annoying thoughtful gifts every week. I say it "would", because I've hardly ever had a girlfriend, even though I've long wanted one, kind of.
Men supposedly like big, expensive gifts, but not very often, maybe once a year or less. They don't care about thoughtfulness much, as long as it's something they'd like to have.
Something like 80% of men and women are said to be typical of their own gender like that, while the rest are more typical of the opposite sex. It's like how some guys like women's work and some gals like "manly" work. I like both kinds of work (including flower gardening, gardening, art, sewing etc).
So, how much are you like women, liking to get frequent small personal gifts? And are you high maintenance like women who spend their spouses' money on clothes, furniture, pretty things for the house and other things that women spend money on? Or are you low maintenance?
Definition
I'm describing the second definition of high-maintenance in the Urban Dictionary, which I just now looked up. The definition is:
A person who has expensive taste (re. clothing, restaurants, etc.).
This person is never comfortable because he/she is constantly concerned about his/her appearance.
This person feels they are better than most people and usually judge others based on outward appearances. Well, at least what I'm talking about is closer to that definition, than to the first definition.
Do you get little gifts for your S.O. each week or so? Women also like the gifts to be surprises. Do you surprise her? Does such high-maintenance annoy you, like it tends to annoy me a little?
Do you like to be gifted like women do? Do you know what women like? I read that they like to get small, personal gifts about every week, that show that you put a lot of thought into it and get her something she really likes.
I consider that kind of high maintenance, because it would require that I put a lot of time into getting her those annoying thoughtful gifts every week. I say it "would", because I've hardly ever had a girlfriend, even though I've long wanted one, kind of.
Men supposedly like big, expensive gifts, but not very often, maybe once a year or less. They don't care about thoughtfulness much, as long as it's something they'd like to have.
Something like 80% of men and women are said to be typical of their own gender like that, while the rest are more typical of the opposite sex. It's like how some guys like women's work and some gals like "manly" work. I like both kinds of work (including flower gardening, gardening, art, sewing etc).
So, how much are you like women, liking to get frequent small personal gifts? And are you high maintenance like women who spend their spouses' money on clothes, furniture, pretty things for the house and other things that women spend money on? Or are you low maintenance?
Definition
I'm describing the second definition of high-maintenance in the Urban Dictionary, which I just now looked up. The definition is:
A person who has expensive taste (re. clothing, restaurants, etc.).
This person is never comfortable because he/she is constantly concerned about his/her appearance.
This person feels they are better than most people and usually judge others based on outward appearances. Well, at least what I'm talking about is closer to that definition, than to the first definition.
Do you get little gifts for your S.O. each week or so? Women also like the gifts to be surprises. Do you surprise her? Does such high-maintenance annoy you, like it tends to annoy me a little?