Marcelle
11-09-2013, 08:15 AM
Hi all,
Well not exactly a huge milestone but one that I wanted to share. As a result of my social science experiment a few days back, I found out my car had a recall notice which needed repair and took it in yesterday to have it done. So . . . since Isha got me in this mess, I decided she would see it through to the end.
Dressed much the same, jeans, boots, top, coat and scarf and drove to the dealership for 9AM. Now the last time I went, it was mid-week and less busy. For some reason, Friday seems to be the day everyone takes their car in for servicing. So when I walked through the door to check-in . . . big line-up waiting to drop off cars (winter tire season up here). So, I took a deep breath and joined the end of the line. There were quite a few stares (nothing rude) but the GG in front of me was quite nice and told me she liked my boots so we talked quite a bit until we were both served.
When we went out to the waiting area, it was packed. A traffic jam had delayed the courtesy shuttle. I was still talking to the GG and didn't notice that two very nice gentlemen had got up and offered us their seats. Have to admit it was a pleasant experience but I am sure it was directed more at the GG and the other guy was going along with it out of courtesy . . . still it was nice. So we continued to talk some more until the shuttle arrived and she had to leave :sad:. I was waiting for my car as it was only suppose to take an hour. So, I was alone again in a waiting room full of people. There were a lot of stares, including staff who seemed to find a reason to come into the waiting area to have a look but then again nothing rude, just curiosity.
Now the hour turned into two and I couldn't sit any longer so I decided to get up and walk around the vehicles on display. One of the sales people (a GG) approached me and we talked about the new Santa Fe and got on the conversation of me being TG. It was funny because she wanted to know since my jeans were quite form fitting where everything was :heehee:. I explained a bit about tucking and she was quite surprised this could be done. The next question she asked was "which bathroom do you use when you are dressed?" Now this was a timely question as I did have a sudden urge to use the bathroom (stupid complementary coffee). So I told her I normally stick to family bathrooms or ones that are designated both genders. However I did confide in her that I needed to use the bathroom and as there was two separate ones for both male and female, I was not sure what to do. She was so sweet and said "Honey, all I see is a girl and all anyone is going to see is your boots in the stall. Go use the ladies and you will be fine".
So I did. I walked down the hallway and headed for the ladies washroom. Now I had been down this hallway a lot (boy mode) and it seemed weird to turn right instead of left. Took a deep breath, opened to the door and headed in. There was a GG at the sink, washing her hands, I was a expecting a scream and "GET OUT" but nothing, I just walked into a stall. Now this was the most nerve wracking few minutes (talk about performance anxiety). I was just finishing up and exited when another GG walked in and asked if I had any contact drops by chance. I did and got them from my purse. She fixed her contact, gave them back to me and added she loved my outfit and left. So I brushed my hair a bit, fixed my lipstick (just had to try it) and left. A bit surreal but quite fun.
When I got back out, the service guy informed me my car was ready and they were just giving it a complimentary wash. I went with him and paid. The guy washing my car asked if he should park it outside but the service guy said "That's okay she'll be driving it out" I smiled and thanked him. When I got to the car the guy washing the car held my door open and said "Have a nice day miss" . Now I am not sure they were just being facetious and had a good laugh afterwards or if they were being genuine. I for one prefer to think that human kindness is alive in the world and they were being just that . . . kind.
So all in all another positive day for Isha
Hugs
Isha
Well not exactly a huge milestone but one that I wanted to share. As a result of my social science experiment a few days back, I found out my car had a recall notice which needed repair and took it in yesterday to have it done. So . . . since Isha got me in this mess, I decided she would see it through to the end.
Dressed much the same, jeans, boots, top, coat and scarf and drove to the dealership for 9AM. Now the last time I went, it was mid-week and less busy. For some reason, Friday seems to be the day everyone takes their car in for servicing. So when I walked through the door to check-in . . . big line-up waiting to drop off cars (winter tire season up here). So, I took a deep breath and joined the end of the line. There were quite a few stares (nothing rude) but the GG in front of me was quite nice and told me she liked my boots so we talked quite a bit until we were both served.
When we went out to the waiting area, it was packed. A traffic jam had delayed the courtesy shuttle. I was still talking to the GG and didn't notice that two very nice gentlemen had got up and offered us their seats. Have to admit it was a pleasant experience but I am sure it was directed more at the GG and the other guy was going along with it out of courtesy . . . still it was nice. So we continued to talk some more until the shuttle arrived and she had to leave :sad:. I was waiting for my car as it was only suppose to take an hour. So, I was alone again in a waiting room full of people. There were a lot of stares, including staff who seemed to find a reason to come into the waiting area to have a look but then again nothing rude, just curiosity.
Now the hour turned into two and I couldn't sit any longer so I decided to get up and walk around the vehicles on display. One of the sales people (a GG) approached me and we talked about the new Santa Fe and got on the conversation of me being TG. It was funny because she wanted to know since my jeans were quite form fitting where everything was :heehee:. I explained a bit about tucking and she was quite surprised this could be done. The next question she asked was "which bathroom do you use when you are dressed?" Now this was a timely question as I did have a sudden urge to use the bathroom (stupid complementary coffee). So I told her I normally stick to family bathrooms or ones that are designated both genders. However I did confide in her that I needed to use the bathroom and as there was two separate ones for both male and female, I was not sure what to do. She was so sweet and said "Honey, all I see is a girl and all anyone is going to see is your boots in the stall. Go use the ladies and you will be fine".
So I did. I walked down the hallway and headed for the ladies washroom. Now I had been down this hallway a lot (boy mode) and it seemed weird to turn right instead of left. Took a deep breath, opened to the door and headed in. There was a GG at the sink, washing her hands, I was a expecting a scream and "GET OUT" but nothing, I just walked into a stall. Now this was the most nerve wracking few minutes (talk about performance anxiety). I was just finishing up and exited when another GG walked in and asked if I had any contact drops by chance. I did and got them from my purse. She fixed her contact, gave them back to me and added she loved my outfit and left. So I brushed my hair a bit, fixed my lipstick (just had to try it) and left. A bit surreal but quite fun.
When I got back out, the service guy informed me my car was ready and they were just giving it a complimentary wash. I went with him and paid. The guy washing my car asked if he should park it outside but the service guy said "That's okay she'll be driving it out" I smiled and thanked him. When I got to the car the guy washing the car held my door open and said "Have a nice day miss" . Now I am not sure they were just being facetious and had a good laugh afterwards or if they were being genuine. I for one prefer to think that human kindness is alive in the world and they were being just that . . . kind.
So all in all another positive day for Isha
Hugs
Isha