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Mumstheword
11-10-2013, 12:53 AM
So after seeing so many beautiful pics of you fine ladies, I came to the conclusion that y'all have way hotter bodies than us GGs... This is why, can you say cellulite?? NO YOU CAN'T BECAUSE Y'ALL DON'T HAVE ANY!! Y'all are seriously perfect! I'm beyond jealous! But super excited for y'all as well.. Please tell me how to shrink my hips? Be thankful everyday for no fat dimples!

Beverley Sims
11-10-2013, 01:02 AM
I say, "You are what you eat". :)
You gotta be kidding?
"There 'aint nuttin' like a dame." :):)

Amie Marie
11-10-2013, 01:08 AM
I would love to have the body of a GG! You want to shrink your hips, tell me how to get some hips. :heehee: I can't speak for anyone but myself, but if it wasn't for tape, padding, and being and illusionist I would be so so depressed :o. My gf has seen pics of Amie Marie but doesn't want to see her in person. Her reason is she is afraid of Amie being prettier then her. I reply back with I wish I could be half as pretty as my gf.

All I can say is the grass isn't always greener, we just can't see the brown spots because the fence is in the way. :2c:

Cynthia Anne
11-10-2013, 01:20 AM
Gotta' disagree with you! IF God created anything sexier then a GG then he kept it to himself!!! IF you are a GG then you should know this!

Julie1123
11-10-2013, 01:26 AM
Also, gotta disagree. Although, there are a lot very sexy CDs as well.

Mumstheword
11-10-2013, 01:31 AM
Awww Cynthia you really have us GG's on a pedestal... Most of the pics I've seen today are absolutely stunning, smoke, mirrors, tape, & what knots included y'all are still so beautiful, here's a secret we do the same things. Spanx are our only friends lol! I have this dimple on my thigh I can't get rid of, I needed some work out tips. Thanks for any advice !! Amie eat collard greens & do squats! ;) that gave me my round booty... Just gotta say I LOVE THIS FORUM

Tracii G
11-10-2013, 01:46 AM
Spanx are my friend they hold it all in the right places Mum

whowhatwhen
11-10-2013, 02:55 AM
Do you hear it?
The sound of a thousand profile clicks.

:P

Sandra
11-10-2013, 04:52 AM
Really as a male they may be, but when dressed up they come no where close to sexier than a GG. Yes those of us who are ok with their SO being trans will say that they are sexy but not sexier than the GG and certainly wouldn't say this after just looking at pics a few pics on here.

AmyGaleRT
11-10-2013, 04:59 AM
Hotter than a GG? You flatter me. I'm 6'2" and 300 pounds, I would be nobody's choice for Miss America. It is through sheer force of will that I manage to look as good as I do.

But you're a sweetie to think so. :hugs:

- Amy

thechic
11-10-2013, 05:03 AM
I wish I was but alas no.

Vickie_CDTV
11-10-2013, 05:15 AM
As a male, I don't have cellulite but I do have chubby legs and hips... but my rear presentation is not big enough to be proportional to pass as a GG. So I get the worst of both worlds, depending on how you look at it.

Having cellulite is a normal part of having a GGs body, it is not something to be ashamed of. It is just how you are made.

BOBBI G.
11-10-2013, 05:38 AM
My endocrinologist ask me what I expected from my HRT. Two of the items on my wish list are a little more hip and some more junk n the trunk. My sister-in-law said just keep on taking your hormones. You're way ahead of me and i'm green wishing I had what you have naturally.

Bobbi

BLUE ORCHID
11-10-2013, 07:57 AM
Hi Mumsie, It's like they always say , The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

Ressie
11-10-2013, 09:08 AM
Men's bodies don't curve much, and certainly not in the right places. But my ex used to admire my legs because they're thin. GGs have to work harder to keep fit because they don't have the amount of skeletal muscle tissue that men have. We CDs are just trying to emulate women, while some women take their beauty for granted.

Launa
11-10-2013, 09:16 AM
Do you hear it?
The sound of a thousand profile clicks.

:P

one thousand and one more

CarlaWestin
11-10-2013, 09:34 AM
Hi Mumsie, It's like they always say , The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

Seriously, do you know how much silicone padding I have to haul around to look natural. "I can't help it if I'm born this way!"
Yeah, my wife thinks it's effing unfair, too.

gautier_nikolai
11-10-2013, 09:37 AM
The ideal airbrushed female body nowadays as espoused in many womens' fashion magazines such as Vogue and on the catwalk seems to be an adrogynous, very slim, tall body which is unattainable by most GGs even when they are younger unless they are 6 foot and very young and eat nothing.This is much more easily attained by males because they can reach lower body fat percentages (especially when younger and less muscle mass of older males) more easily and are naturally taller.

All this airbrushing and use of impossible standards for females is disturbing.They did impose a minimum BMI for models for a while of 18 but i don't think much has changed really since the advent of Kate Moss and the heroin chic runway look.

So much seems to revolve for younger GGs nowadays around being slimmer than your friends.

Lacyfem
11-10-2013, 09:59 AM
Nice try there but I wish I had the curves of a GG much less wanting the breasts which are curves too.

TGMarla
11-10-2013, 10:03 AM
Can of worms? Meet can opener. LOL

Jenniferathome
11-10-2013, 10:10 AM
I think you are being disingenuous.

Bethany38
11-10-2013, 10:16 AM
Can of worms? Meet can opener. LOL

That's right Marla.

Mums you are very sweet, but really?:believeit:

gautier_nikolai
11-10-2013, 10:40 AM
Jenniferathome

I think you are being disingenuous.



A dwarf or giant from Scandinavian folklore and children's tales where at times they are bent on wickedness and mischief?

Sabrina133
11-10-2013, 10:47 AM
So after seeing so many beautiful pics of you fine ladies, I came to the conclusion that y'all have way hotter bodies than us GGs... This is why, can you say cellulite?? NO YOU CAN'T BECAUSE Y'ALL DON'T HAVE ANY!! Y'all are seriously perfect! I'm beyond jealous! But super excited for y'all as well.. Please tell me how to shrink my hips? Be thankful everyday for no fat dimples!

LOL, thats because we have to try harder hon.

Marcelle
11-10-2013, 11:12 AM
While some men can look quite fetching is certain women's attire, there is a lot of work that has to go behind it to carry it off - some can do this with ease and others need more smoke and mirrors. However, in the same bent while GGs have the natural physical proportions for the clothing, there is still work that has to go into the look - some can do it with ease and others have to work harder. Now before someone wants to burn me at the stake - my wife's words not mine :).

I think some men can do justice to certain looks just as GGs can do justice to certain looks. My wife will attest that she thinks I look better in skinny jeans than her because my narrow frame suits them better. It doesn't mean I am more gorgeous than my wife, it just means I suit the look better. Just like my wife can rock a low cut hip hugging dress far better than I ever could (smoke and mirrors included).

While the OP may have indicated CDers are more sexy than GGs, reading through the lines I don't think the intent was to be facetious or mean she was just pointing out an observation based on some photos posted here. Can a man look sexier in an outfit than a GG . . . quite frankly depending on the guy and his ability to apply smoke and mirrors . . . yes it is plausible. However, in the end it is what it is "presentation". Theoretical physics will tell you an elephant can hang suspended from a daisy by their tail over cliff . . .will it bear out true? Not likely.

In the end we are all gorgeous/sexy and just plain good looking in our own way. It doesn't lessen that in others when we say it.

My 2 cents.

Hugs

Isha

Megan72
11-10-2013, 11:15 AM
While I am sure everyone is super flattered by your comments Mumstheword, I know I am...I have curves, and they are all in the wrong places, it's only through a good wig, makeup that could be put on with a putty knife, and a corset that could hold a hippo in am I able to get even the hind of a figure and look okay...

Beverley Sims
11-10-2013, 11:30 AM
I do have to digress from a previous reply.
Some of us when dressed do do mess with guys heads.
Not always the ones on their shoulders either. :)

audreyinalbany
11-10-2013, 11:41 AM
Mums, its certainly no secret what a hit you are on this forum. Every thread you've started in just two days has run to two pages of responses!

Megan72
11-10-2013, 11:41 AM
Some of us when dressed do do mess with guys heads.
Not always the ones on their shoulders either. :)
Beverley, that's funny...my post only had a hint of sarcasm, I hope you saw that.

Mssusan
11-10-2013, 11:59 AM
What we see on this board is photos of CDs who have put considerable amounts of time, effort, and heart into their looks. We do not see the same for GGs, because this board is not a forum for GGs to share our looks. I'd hazard a guess, Mum, if you saw photos of your fellow GGs all dolled up, each in our own unique way, you might soften your stance.

Sexy is different for different people, no matter the gender.

farrah60
11-10-2013, 12:03 PM
there isn't anything better than a GG wish I had hips and butt

suchacutie
11-10-2013, 12:10 PM
Ok...so I ha e great legs (so says my wife!), and she can tell me all she wants how jealous of my legs she is, but my jealousy of the rest of her is monumental!!!

Even after I've spent hours transforming to Tina, any GG casually walking around the mall has a better chance of turning a head! Women are just amazing, and I know I'll never catch up to that.

But I am willing to try! :)

Chickhe
11-10-2013, 12:36 PM
It is nice to have a fan, but seriously, don't pick up a magazine and assume the models look good is real life. The images you see are all best picks, involve padding and tape and sometimes edited. You are comparing apples and oranges. Don't compare your self image to anyone else's photo...it is not the same thing. However, try your best to look great and post that image and do the comparison and then you might have something to talk about. However...I do tend to agree that anyone, male or female can look good with the right effort and some people have really put in the effort and it shows.

Stephanie47
11-10-2013, 12:50 PM
Hey Mum, if you had made this statement as a CDing male, the world would have jumped in your ____! Yes, I have seen many pictures on this site of very attractive CDers. I have seen many that are not at all passable and have very masculine features. I would be one of them if I ever had the balls to post a picture.

On occasion I jump over to a very tasteful website where there are A LOT of very very attractive CD-ers. Some of the girls who post here also have posted there pictures on that site. I'm positive there has been a lot of effort gone into emulating a natural women. Their presentation has taken a lot of exercise, dieting, and general care of the their bodies. Sure, if one is a cross dresser, then some padding may be necessary to enhance the effect.

I do a lot of people watching or always scanning my surroundings. At the mall I see the true America. I see fat flabby disgustingly looking men and women who are headed for health issues if not an early death. They are chowing down at McDonalds and other less than healthy eateries. Men have the signs of early death- beer bellies, fat asses... They do not exercise. It is evident they do not care about their bodies.

I also see many men and women who are attractive. It is obvious they care about their health and bodies. They work at it. They exercise. They eat properly. They dress attractively.

Specifically concerning natural women, I see many attractive women. It takes a lot of work and dedication to be an attractive man or woman or a cross dressing man. Of course you have not factored in any of the mental traits that make a woman a woman, and, a man a man. My wife is always going to be more feminine than I, not matter how nice I may look in a dress.

binx
11-10-2013, 01:44 PM
So, then men out there with cellulite are less hot than other men, but hotter than a woman with cellulite? And the women with wider hips but NO cellulite..? Where does that put a fully transitioned woman with cellulite?

ridiculousness

There's no need to compare sides and have a "winner." Just say "hey, you, I think you're hot!"

Tracii G
11-10-2013, 02:10 PM
None of us will never measure up to the real thing.

AKKaren
11-10-2013, 02:47 PM
:battingeyelashes:Big or small, skinny or curvy, GG's are so much more than any of us!

Jill Devine
11-10-2013, 03:04 PM
I can only speak for myself but any pics that I post are based on about a 20:1 ratio - meaning only one out of 20 looks ok and maybe 1 in 50 looks good. Some of my pics are scary!
That's smoke & mirrors girlfriend.

windycissy
11-10-2013, 03:21 PM
What a refreshing conversation! We envy women their soft skin, curves and long hair, and they envy our boyish butts. As already observed, if the typical GG spent as much time dolling herself up as we do every time we get dressed, most of them would be knockouts, but they take for granted the feminine ideal that we aspire to. I work hard to keep my girlish figure - diet, crunches, running, swimming, nothing that would bulk up my muscles - and I must admit, when I go to the pool in my skirtini, I have a tighter body than most of the women there, but they'd trounce me in the evening gown competition :)

AllieSF
11-10-2013, 04:20 PM
Thanks so much for the compliment. I was going to say that same thing but I was afraid of being stoned by the mob here with the pitchforks.

CarlaWestin
11-10-2013, 04:53 PM
I'm not trying to measure up to being anything close to GG. I just enjoy femulating what my idea of what girl is. Personally, I'm quite happy being a boy that generally does boy stuff. Cool stuff, not stupid stuff. Whatever the hell that means. Plus I've discovered the beauty secret of the ages. You just move the camera further away.

whowhatwhen
11-10-2013, 05:06 PM
Keep in mind that what people find sexy is incredibly personal and it may well be that the OP finds transpeople more attractive.
Most of us aren't going to be as stereotypically feminine, no, but also keep in mind that even supermodels are photoshopped almost into cartoon characters.

UNDERDRESSER
11-10-2013, 05:12 PM
I think some men can do justice to certain looks just as GGs can do justice to certain looks. My wife will attest that she thinks I look better in skinny jeans than her because my narrow frame suits them better. It doesn't mean I am more gorgeous than my wife, it just means I suit the look better. Just like my wife can rock a low cut hip hugging dress far better than I ever could (smoke and mirrors included). Yup, my GF is jealous of my legs, because it's easier for me to have lower body fat, and thus, more muscle definition. I think she's a stronger bike rider than I am, (slightly) but my legs show it more. Drives her nuts. On the other hand, I'd like my legs to look more like hers, not the female curves, (which she lots of!) but the smoother skin, the more smooth look generally, i.e. less muscle definition.

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In the end we are all gorgeous/sexy and just plain good looking in our own way. It doesn't lessen that in others when we say it.

aNice point Isha, be happy with what you've got, no reason to stop striving for improvements, but don't beat yourself up over what nature gave you. I feel so much better these days because I'm more content with what I've got.

And another thing, guys have just as many physical defect problems as women, probably more. But we are not expected, or even allowed, sometimes, to display our bodies, so we get away with it easier. I want to display my body more, and I've found out over the last 6 months or so, how much work that is. I'm talking here as a guy that is not, trying to look like a woman, so I'm not even talking about padding, falsies, etc, just shaving, working on posture, moisturising, keeping everything looking good. I spend lots more time on this than the GF.

Tamara Croft
11-10-2013, 05:54 PM
Mums, its certainly no secret what a hit you are on this forum. Every thread you've started in just two days has run to two pages of responses!Wonder why that is.... my :BS: meter certainly is taking a few hits :rolleyes:

melissagrrl
11-10-2013, 06:20 PM
Ya, my wife can get a little upset when the dress looks better on me than on her, and she is jealous of my legs, so that doesn't always help either.....

Steph_CD_62
11-10-2013, 06:28 PM
I think GG's are so much sexier...... I have NO curves (except my pot belly)

Kelly DeWinter
11-10-2013, 06:36 PM
OK, I've been wondering 'IF' the op was a gg for some time, this post is proof that she is not. Just sayin . :)

melissagrrl
11-10-2013, 06:37 PM
Ya lack of curves can be an issue at times. A-line skirts seem to work for me, and a good belt for dresses.

Tamara Croft
11-10-2013, 06:41 PM
As already observed, if the typical GG spent as much time dolling herself up as we do every time we get dressed, most of them would be knockouts, but they take for granted the feminine ideal that we aspire to.If we spent as much time dolling ourselves up as you do getting dressed, we'd never get out the damn door... plus we don't have to get all dolled up to be feminine, we are naturally feminine and don't need clothes or makeup or getting dolled up anytime soon to be so. You however have to put hours into it... awww... :violin: you are however pretty good at being an ass, you should work on that instead of insulting women!!

Kate Simmons
11-10-2013, 07:11 PM
Well it sounds good Hon but not on one of my best days do I look as good as a woman. Some things just can't be faked. That doesn't mean we don't give it the old "school try" but as Tam correctly implied, you would look good too after 4-5 hours of "hair and makeup". ;):battingeyelashes::)

Marleena
11-10-2013, 07:25 PM
With a thread title like this I had a feeling this thread would be very popular. Mum's avatar isn't hurting either.;)

CarmenSkye
11-10-2013, 07:30 PM
Mum, I'll happily trade any day- Just tell me when and where!

Tamara Croft
11-10-2013, 08:14 PM
Mum's avatar isn't hurting either.;)Hurts my neck having to look at it sideways... kinda reminds me of a blow up doll actually :eek:

:hiding:

Raychel
11-10-2013, 08:18 PM
and Just how do you know what a blow up doll looks like,:daydreaming::daydreaming:

do you have secrets in your closet :heehee::heehee:

Tamara Croft
11-10-2013, 08:19 PM
Allesandra told me :D

Only naughty ones ;)

Raychel
11-10-2013, 08:21 PM
The best kind, ;););)

Tracii G
11-10-2013, 08:22 PM
Y'all so crazy.LOL

Allesandra Rhodes
11-10-2013, 08:22 PM
Did not:D

Tamara Croft
11-10-2013, 08:23 PM
Yes you did, don't lie :slap:

Allesandra Rhodes
11-10-2013, 08:27 PM
Well yah but don't tell them that :)

Tamara Croft
11-10-2013, 08:29 PM
Ok, it's a secret then lol :D

Raychel
11-10-2013, 08:30 PM
Won't be a secret for long, I am telling, :heehee:

binx
11-10-2013, 08:40 PM
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Nicole Erin
11-10-2013, 08:40 PM
GG's often might make comments about a CD or TS and say, "You look better than I do!" It is a light hearted compliment. It is not a literal statement. Even if a TG does look better than some GG's, the fact remains that GG's can still offer things that no CD or even surgically butchered TS can. GG's just have a sexual energy that a genetic male cannot duplicate.


Hotter than a GG? You flatter me. I'm 6'2" and 300 pounds, I would be nobody's choice for Miss America. It is through sheer force of will that I manage to look as good as I do.
But you're a sweetie to think so.

Shoot you don't think some folks would LOVE to have a lady like you in their arms? You think everyone wants some petite skin and bones woman? Hell nah some of us don't mind a lot of woman with a lotta luvin :D You girl, are a REAL woman! Ain't dissin on anyone's taste, just sayin ya know, some of us like'em large.
Take like Viktoria Manas, Russian plus size model - to say I would kiss her belly button from the inside is the tamest thing I think about when I see her pics.

whowhatwhen
11-10-2013, 08:55 PM
kinda reminds me of a blow up doll actually

I swear this forum is about as inviting as a boner next to a wasp nest.
Unless there is proof otherwise why do we have to jump down people's throats so easily?

I'll give this section credit though, at least they leave some shreds of you left.

Candice Mae
11-10-2013, 09:00 PM
Even with my boobs and figure, I don't come close to a GG. Just can't beat the real thing...


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bd5C4_2C988

MonctonGirl
11-10-2013, 09:07 PM
I would love to have the body of a GG! You want to shrink your hips, tell me how to get some hips. :heehee: I can't speak for anyone but myself, but if it wasn't for tape, padding, and being and illusionist I would be so so depressed :o. My gf has seen pics of Amie Marie but doesn't want to see her in person. Her reason is she is afraid of Amie being prettier then her. I reply back with I wish I could be half as pretty as my gf.

All I can say is the grass isn't always greener, we just can't see the brown spots because the fence is in the way. :2c:

Yes I have been trying to match my hips to shoulder width with a multitude of homemade and online products (eg. Femskin girdle $975 ) though I don't want to have the shape during male mode. .. the first thing I now look at on a woman my height is her hip width and shape.

AmyGaleRT
11-10-2013, 09:58 PM
Shoot you don't think some folks would LOVE to have a lady like you in their arms? You think everyone wants some petite skin and bones woman? Hell nah some of us don't mind a lot of woman with a lotta luvin :D You girl, are a REAL woman! Ain't dissin on anyone's taste, just sayin ya know, some of us like'em large.

No argument, Nicole. My fiancee wears larger sizes than I do in almost everything except shoes. :D

Tamara and everyone else on this thread are absolutely right, though...the look that GGs have naturally by birth, we have to accomplish through sheer skill and force of will. It says something that I've been able to advance my skill to the point where I draw compliments like yours.

"You girl, are a REAL woman!" You, Nicole dear, could have given me no higher compliment. HUGS :hugs:

- Amy

Tamara Croft
11-10-2013, 10:02 PM
I swear this forum is about as inviting as a boner next to a wasp nest.You know that's an actual fetish right? :D Why you always gotta quote me... I was just saying :p

AmyGaleRT
11-10-2013, 10:06 PM
You know that's an actual fetish right? :D

Tamara, I'm sure you're aware of Rule 34..."There is porn of it. No exceptions." :heehee:

- Amy

whowhatwhen
11-10-2013, 10:15 PM
You know that's an actual fetish right? :D Why you always gotta quote me... I was just saying :p

Yeah, I've seen the picture ;)
But in all seriousness there is going to be that 5% chance where something is true.

Some women find transwomen attractive, it's not that far of a longshot that one or two would drop by here.

Leona
11-10-2013, 10:27 PM
My wife and I always argue over who looks better in what. I usually settle it by burying her face in the pillow and....

Anyway, what makes you CD's think we work harder at looking pretty than GG's? By my count, when it's up for getting all dressed up and going out, the effort is roughly equal, if focused differently.

MissTee
11-10-2013, 10:46 PM
You are a hoot, Mums. Hope you stick around.

Tara D. Rose
11-10-2013, 11:00 PM
Hi everyone, it's me Tara, I have really enjoyed reading this thread. I would like to say only 2 things. And this is just and only my opinion and observations through life, for I have lived a few years now, and a few months added to that. I have said it all of my life, though short as it may be, that there is nothing more beautiful or sexier than a woman, a true woman, when I say woman, I mean GG, and I was already of that opinion, long before I knew what GG meant. There is beauty in so many things in life. I love the beauty of a fog laying low on a big lake at sunrise, the beauty of the wind whispering through the leaves in Autumn with a distant mountain in the far distance saying "hey look at me", I see such beauty in so many things of this world. I hear beauty in song, songs that rock me, songs that make me sway, songs that make me cry with joy. The beauty of an innocent little child when they are explaining the world to us as they see it, to me, that is such beauty. Beauty in when my daughter was 5 or 6 years old and having a small spat with her older sister if Barbie was really in love with Ken, and how she looked at me with such trust to give her the right answer, oh that innocence, that was such beauty.

Beauty is when my grandmother used to whip my little legs all the way back to her home for I was wading in the creek way too long and just before supper. Or beauty is when my late Mother would fix her very special home made vegetable soup and looking for her children's smiling approval.

Beauty is one thing, but sexy, is another thing all together, which has been and always will be in the eye of the beholder.The title of this thread is "CD's sexier than GG's". Heck no, CD's can never compare, there is no competition, GG's are sexy, natural born sexiness as seen through my male/female eyes, and such femininity that rolls off of GG's from the top of their pretty heads and faces and rolls off their shoes, we/CD's can never come close, though try as we may, we will always fall so extremely short of their sexiness, always and a few more always. I find GG's sexy in so many ways, as does everyone, they don't even have to fix up to be sexy, I have seen them in stores just 15 minutes after getting up from bed and their sexiness continues to roll down in every way. As a life long cross dresser, I can put forth my best effort to emulate a GG, and can do okay with still pictures, but I and many others will always fall so far by the way side, when it comes to comparing sexiness by way of cd to GG.


So my bottom line is, no CDcan compare to the sexiness, and feminine things that are so hard to explain, CD's are not sexier than a GG.

But on one final note, that had it been a cd that said CD's are sexier than GG's, the op would have gotten stomped on.

Love and Peace, and Respect ,

Tara D. Rose

docrobbysherry
11-11-2013, 12:45 AM
I'm sure you're pulling our collective legs, Mum.:heehee:
But, in some ways, your post IS CORRECT! With enuff effort, some of us can appear to be incredibly hot. Especially in photos!

I think I looked pretty good 2 weeks ago.
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But, it doesn't matter how good we look using all the technologies and tricks that we do. We r still nearly ALL FAKES! And GGs, with all their faults or with none, r the REAL DEAL!:battingeyelashes:

Eryn
11-11-2013, 12:53 AM
Sexy is in the eye of the beholder, therefore any judgment about one group of people being sexier than another is moot as the next "beholder" might have a vastly different position.

Marcelle
11-11-2013, 08:24 AM
Hi all,

A bit confused. I am aware that the moderators and others should be prepared to call BS on threads that are dubious (not saying this one is or is not because to be honest, who really knows). Even if it is dubious, is the thought that the OP is lying to everyone (still not proven only surmised) that has some upset or is the content of the threat "CDers are Sexier than GGs"? I agree that the title is not well chosen and is insulting to GGs but the content of the post though not well chosen seems to have really inflamed some to the degree of ferocity.

I have to agree with Eryn's post on this "Sexy is in the eye of the beholder" and any comparison to one group over another is a moot point. While I don't consider myself being a fool taken for a ride, I felt obliged to make some observations on the fact that some CDers can certainly rock specific looks based on body shape, smoke and mirrors and look quite good doing so. Nobody is contesting that GGs are naturally feminine based on genetics and that men cannot pull of "au natural feminine" at all. However, there is no reason for us to flagellate ourselves because someone posted that CDers can look quite feminine if they have the right body shape, bone structure and smoke and mirrors (they do exist). For goodness sake, accept yourselves and your limitations and present who you are to the world whether you be CD/GG/ or just plain old GM (genetically male) . . . this is not a competition and the minute we make it one we cease to become a support group.

If you want this thread to go away then don't inflame the content . . . just move on. Oh and before someone says . . . Aren't you inflaming the content by posting again? I suppose that can be seen as true but I felt obliged to just have this last say . . . that is the guy in me :)

Kate Simmons
11-11-2013, 08:37 AM
I agree Isha but sometimes we just want to see how far it goes until it runs out of steam. :heehee::)

Gigi
11-11-2013, 08:45 AM
For goodness sake, accept yourselves and your limitations and present who you are to the world whether you be CD/GG/ or just plain old GM (genetically male) . . . this is not a competition and the minute we make it one we cease to become a support group.

well said isha. :)

Nicole Erin
11-11-2013, 08:57 AM
I agree Isha but sometimes we just want to see how far it goes until it runs out of steam. :heehee::)
That one fake TS we had on here went nearly 3,000 posts and tons of BS before she got outed. Yeah, the one who's life looked like a Danielle Steele novel only the lucky lady was TS.

sperow2003
11-11-2013, 03:50 PM
I tell you what Mums. I'm glad i'm in the closet because if you ever saw me dressed you would never had started the thread. Lol

ReineD
11-11-2013, 04:12 PM
So after seeing so many beautiful pics of you fine ladies, I came to the conclusion that y'all have way hotter bodies than us GGs... This is why, can you say cellulite??

It sounds to me as if you are wanting to be supportive, which is all well and good. But, I'm not sure if you are being patronizing. I hope not. In any case, to elevate one sex over the other is not necessary. First, not all members of the same sex fit into the same box and second, both sexes have their own merits.

That said, when you make comparisons I think it is best to compare apples with apples. Slim CDers should be compared to slim GGs, and heavier CDers should be compared to heavier GGs. Also, if a CDer is wearing large breast forms, a waist cincher and hip/butt pads, he should be compared to a GG who is wearing breast enhancers if she has smaller breasts, and a corset that will cinch in her waistline too. :p

I personally have never been jealous of any CDer. And I would feel bad if a CDer should be jealous of me.

robindee36
11-11-2013, 04:52 PM
Don't fret Mums. Help is here.

Been thinking about this since first reading the thread this morning. I do not believe CD's have better or hotter bodies than GG's. I do believe the current female body image promoted in advertising and the media is just better matched a male physique. Look at the women so many think are 'hot'. Many, many have slender frames and developed musculature. As one friend put it, skinny body with a large head. Typical of what is showing today in the media.

Looking back (we older girls will recall) and the feminine body image was more full and curvy. Being a Bond (shaken not stirred) aficionado, you can see the shift over time starting with the full round shapes of Ursula Andress (Dr No), Luciana Paluzzi (Fiona Volpe - Thunder Ball) or Claudia Auger (same flic), et al. The stereotypical 'hot babes' of the '60's.

Flash forward to Maryam d'Abo (Living Daylights) Britt Ekland (Golden Gun) and you can see the move toward what seems the current body normal. Slender, fit, not voluptuous in the slightest. Some exceptions always get in the way, but the trend is pretty consistent.

So, given that wide range of body types that have been held in esteem over the years, I can confidently say we can all be hot, CD's and GG's. Just depends on the temperature scale being used (Can't resist this red herring for the engineers to take up thermal scales ;) Personally I preferred the curvy shapes of the past but acknowledge my frame is better suited to the slender more masculine form of the present.

So Mumsie, leave those hips alone. Certainly we all need to be fit, but there is still an allure in a curvatious frame. Attack the fat; but love the curves.

Hugs, Robin

Alice Torn
11-11-2013, 04:55 PM
I would say, that most CD's dress up to the nines a lot more than GG's do, and dress more elegant and sexy or classy, for the most part, but if GG's wore the dame clothes, they would just as sexy, or more so.

whowhatwhen
11-11-2013, 05:01 PM
At this point my pole only reaches 9 feet.

Ressie
11-11-2013, 07:32 PM
I guess mumsie didn't realize that most of us are using GG photos for avatars. With the exception of the lovely Kate Simmons of course ;)

MysticLady
11-11-2013, 08:54 PM
What happened to the chick?

Did you all scare her away?

robindee36
11-12-2013, 07:14 AM
I guess mumsie didn't realize that most of us are using GG photos for avatars. With the exception of the lovely Kate Simmons of course ;)

And Robin(dee36).....what you see.......

AmyGaleRT
11-12-2013, 03:03 PM
And Robin(dee36).....what you see.......

And my new avatar/profile picture was taken of me, live, out and about and enjoying life. Even though I was treated as a lady, I'd still never be mistaken for a GG...

- Amy

Lorileah
11-12-2013, 04:19 PM
what a bunch of cynical sarcastic sniping people. First, you don't KNOW what gender
mums is, so you immediately attack her? Second, she didn't DO anything to you all, she posted something. You don't have to read it, in fact you should have just ignored it if you had doubts. Instead you take halfassed pot shots, then you all wonder why GGs don't respond to things on here. What ever happened to innocent until proven guilty. Any more BS OFF topic comments will be deleted. If you all can't play nice go play somewhere else.

Tamara Croft
11-12-2013, 04:42 PM
Really.... thread done!