Changing My Identity

[LelaK]

(Hiding my message for lack of acceptance.)

[Pretty Nails]

Perhaps you are not all girl and not all guy.

I don't have any super intelligent answers but I do know that in my case I feel that there are parts of both girl and boy in me. They are not mutually exclusive all of the time - they do intertwine sometimes. Also, sometimes I actually like my guy self more than my girl self - it wafts and wanes.

Your mileage may vary. Try and stay positive.

[donnalee]

What do you care? You're you. Accepting other's definitions of things is pretty meaningless in your situation.

[Kate Simmons]

Always being yourself is the important thing Hon. Guy, girl or something in-between. Cherish who you are my friend. :)

[kimdl93]

Clothes won't make you a different person. The point has already been made that you may be a mix, as most of are, of feminine and masculine. The question is how do you feel most comfortable and at ease with yourself. It may be one, the other or both. Spend some time finding your own space instead of trying to remake yourself.

[NicoleScott]

It seems to me that you are a guy who likes to crossdress, like so many of us. It puzzles me that you want a different self-concept than you have. We are what we are, and we do what we do. A guy is what you are. Crossdress is what you do. There's nothing wrong with either of those, so qualm the internal turmoil by embracing it and having fun.

[Beverley Sims]

Just be you and don't try to put labels on yourself.

[kimdl93]

Crying and sadness do not make you more feminine. It may be that women express their emotions a bit more openly than males, but its a reaction to real circumstances, not a pretense to appear feminine.