Christina Kay
11-30-2013, 12:04 PM
It has been slightly less than 8 weeks. Since I came out to my wife. If you have read my initial post of coming out to my wife. I've comment on a few others threads, about this. :doh:
Has it been a relief for me,,yes. :battingeyelashes:For my wife, yes in that I am happier. " by coming out you have changed the energy of this house for the better" My wifes quote. But I know this hasn't been an easy time for her. :eek:There are still the lingering,,,When's the next shoe going to fall? Quite understandable, after the amount of time I lived a lie. :brolleyes:
She is an amazingly adaptable , women. One that i admire with awe, each thing she has encounter and over come with a resolve that would break most men.:) We have set our Boundries, and they have been adjusted as needed. :battingeyelashes:
She is so helpful to me in finding the balance point Aretha needs. I know there are benefits to this coalescing of Aretha/I . We do joke around more. We laugh, talk. And by letting my feminine emotions come more to the forefront .:daydreaming: I see and sense better. The confusion I have caused. Yes there is still the visual, of her man in girlie underwear. Yes I know it is such a sensory overload at times for her. :eek:
But I am now so much more hopeful of our future together. But this is only because of our past(the trials and tribulations tempered in the fires of our life together) :oIf it wasn't for that history, and the things we endured together. We could well be on our way separately. :eek:
So to those contemplating coming out. It is full of bumps in the road, of a road never traveled before. I came out for my own reason, and circumstances. As my wife said , You now own it. Yes iam a transgendered crossdresser. :oMy life is now more satisfying and fulfilled. I just hope this new chapter in our lives , is as fulfilling for wife also. I know it will never be the same for her, I just hope it is happier for her.
Nothing soothes me more than hearing my wife laugh and then say "Hey Aretha It's getting a little foggy in here" And I know she views our household , as a lot happier place to be now. Hugs Aretha
Has it been a relief for me,,yes. :battingeyelashes:For my wife, yes in that I am happier. " by coming out you have changed the energy of this house for the better" My wifes quote. But I know this hasn't been an easy time for her. :eek:There are still the lingering,,,When's the next shoe going to fall? Quite understandable, after the amount of time I lived a lie. :brolleyes:
She is an amazingly adaptable , women. One that i admire with awe, each thing she has encounter and over come with a resolve that would break most men.:) We have set our Boundries, and they have been adjusted as needed. :battingeyelashes:
She is so helpful to me in finding the balance point Aretha needs. I know there are benefits to this coalescing of Aretha/I . We do joke around more. We laugh, talk. And by letting my feminine emotions come more to the forefront .:daydreaming: I see and sense better. The confusion I have caused. Yes there is still the visual, of her man in girlie underwear. Yes I know it is such a sensory overload at times for her. :eek:
But I am now so much more hopeful of our future together. But this is only because of our past(the trials and tribulations tempered in the fires of our life together) :oIf it wasn't for that history, and the things we endured together. We could well be on our way separately. :eek:
So to those contemplating coming out. It is full of bumps in the road, of a road never traveled before. I came out for my own reason, and circumstances. As my wife said , You now own it. Yes iam a transgendered crossdresser. :oMy life is now more satisfying and fulfilled. I just hope this new chapter in our lives , is as fulfilling for wife also. I know it will never be the same for her, I just hope it is happier for her.
Nothing soothes me more than hearing my wife laugh and then say "Hey Aretha It's getting a little foggy in here" And I know she views our household , as a lot happier place to be now. Hugs Aretha