Georgie
12-01-2013, 06:51 AM
Hi all just want to ask you all for some advice....
As some may know I have a young daughter (age 4) and me and my ex are very worried anbout me coing out as trans and how it will effect her and how other parents and her friends will react with school etc
Well myself and my daughter were sitting doing a jigsaw the other day (it was of the ballet and their was boys on it doing ballet as well, so I think this is what made her think of it) and she said to me
"you can be a girl if you want daddy, I don't mind" I was shocked and went "erm why thank you, that means so much to me, anybody can be what they want to be, even if its a boy or a girl or a monkey or a cat" she then said "I love you daddy" and went on with the jigsaw
She has then several times called me a girl or a girl boy
and the next day when reading her a story (I always do all these funny voices and she always says "no daddy in your normal voice") well that night she said "no daddy in your normal girl voice"
So I had to read it in a girly voice.
So I think its clear now that she must know and is kinda saying its ok, no idea how she knows as me and my ex has not said anything to her yet, she must pick things up and over heard us talking I dunno.
Just want to know what your advice would be?
As I said we are worried mostly about how other people in the school will act etc
As some may know I have a young daughter (age 4) and me and my ex are very worried anbout me coing out as trans and how it will effect her and how other parents and her friends will react with school etc
Well myself and my daughter were sitting doing a jigsaw the other day (it was of the ballet and their was boys on it doing ballet as well, so I think this is what made her think of it) and she said to me
"you can be a girl if you want daddy, I don't mind" I was shocked and went "erm why thank you, that means so much to me, anybody can be what they want to be, even if its a boy or a girl or a monkey or a cat" she then said "I love you daddy" and went on with the jigsaw
She has then several times called me a girl or a girl boy
and the next day when reading her a story (I always do all these funny voices and she always says "no daddy in your normal voice") well that night she said "no daddy in your normal girl voice"
So I had to read it in a girly voice.
So I think its clear now that she must know and is kinda saying its ok, no idea how she knows as me and my ex has not said anything to her yet, she must pick things up and over heard us talking I dunno.
Just want to know what your advice would be?
As I said we are worried mostly about how other people in the school will act etc