If it wasn't for crossdressing.........

[CarlaWestin]

......I would probably __________________.

(fill in the blank)

[Cynthia Anne]

I would probably be happy 100% of the time!

[erica12b]

That too much ,maybe 97% of the time

[Madilyn A.]

be a very unhappy man wanting to know why I so admired women, and yet felt so unfulfilled !!

[PretzelGirl]

be rich! And not as fulfilled....

[Nadine Spirit]

be bored.

[Kristina_nolagirl]

be an ignorant people hater that follows the crowd and hates on those who are different. Hard to say if that is true, but based on my family and upbringing, I wouldn't be surprised! Plus a much less fashionable guy :)

[Jaylyn]

FURSTRATED because I wouldn't know what to do with those feelings I was having of wanting to feel the rush of playing in my makeup, hose, heels, and skirts. I would have to keep all that excitement pent up inside and wouldn't have a release. I would probably have popped by now if not for dressing. I could be in the mental institution if not for it..... Lol. Am I the only one that feels excitement when dressing. Like a faster heart rate and a rush of feelings hard to describe until I am completely dressed. Like a kid waiting for mom to finish those Christmas Cookies....dressing is a rush for me. I love it but usually after I have dressed and stayed dressed for an hour or two I can switch and want to get back in male mode and am so relaxed. Till it hits again from some outside stimulus.

[GretchenJ]

.. Be suffering with depression more than I currently am

[docrobbysherry]

Be bored, frustrated, have very little social and sex life!

On the other hand, I'd know what's going on in the country and world, have no fears, no guilt, and my house, cars, garages, and office would be neat and organized!

[ambigendrous]

... I'd only be half the person I am now.

[KayleeTaylor]

I would be lost in depression and closed off to the world. Much like I was when I was in the Army.

[Valarie]

I would be angry, and continue to yell and throw things when I got frustrated. Also I don't think my marriage would have survived if I remained in the closet to her.

[Lucy_Bella]

Spend more time in life with things that are more important.. Like my grand kids, my children , hunting ,fishing , restoring treasures like hobbies instead of X dressing..Kinda like having a life other than the one I have..

[Jenniferpl]

No longer trapped in the middle would open up the possibility of having more relationships with male friends. Have very few now.

[Beverley Sims]

If it wasn't for cross dressing, I wouldnt be enjoying life like I do now.

[mykell]

know that it would be called something because it exists, i wouldnt have shed all the self loathing, guilt and turmoil in my life.
but i have found this site, feel liberated...even if i may have less friends, less cash, less anger, less time
I learned that it is OK to be me, thank you.

[Allison2006]

Was going to say I'd probably have more visitors over, but no one visits anyway. So I'll say do more fishing, instead :)

[Allison_Leslie]

... I wouldn't be able to have accelerated my success as a MALE in my own work world since my female side takes on all the feminine emotional duties.. and I freely have told just about
everyone what I do and am proud of it. It's so freeing.. there's nothing like the feel of stockings or tights on your bare skin.. mmmmmmmmm damn.. and these new breast forms are fantastic.. I finally wore them long enough recently to WARM them "into" me and they seemed to stay naturally after being accustomed to my body heat. At any rate.. I LOVE CROSS DRESSING and I am VERY thankful for it!

THE other great side is the secret of UNDERDRESSING that Keeps me happy as a male!

[chrissy111]

If it wasn't for cross dressing, what would I do with the closet full of dresses?

[Megan b]

If it wasn't for crossdressing, I would probably still be married and loved by my ex-wife. My family would not be split apart. But you can't go back only forward.

[daviolin]

If it wasn't for crossdressing, I would have more money to spend on other things in my life. Thats funny, I can't think of anything. Oh well, I guess I will go shopping and by me a new dress. Daviolin

[Karen kc]

more money and a lot more closet space!!

[stephNE]

I would probably -
be less happy and more depressed.

[Annaliese]

I would not be me, Crossdressing is not the cause of why I dress, I dress because this is who I am.

[SherriePall]

If it weren't for crossdressing, I would probably be overweight, unkempt, unshaven, and lazy.

[Confucius]

Well, I may not be as happy, but my wife would be ecstatic. I would not need to hide this part of my life from my family/friends. I would probably have more self-esteem, more confidence and better social skills.

[Julie Denier]

... my life would be MUCH less complicated ;)

[Zylia]

If it wasn't for crossdressing I would probably wear men's clothes all the time.

[Kate Simmons]

....I'd no doubt be 10-20,000 dollars richer but it's only money, right? ;):)

[Crissy Kay]

If it weren't for crossdressing, I would probably be overweight, unkempt, unshaven, and lazy.

Good One!! I think this is me too!!! Wait a minute, it is me!!!!!

[MarciManseau]

I wouldn't have met Julie, the absolute love of my life. I'd be so much poorer when it comes to love and life experience, and I'd have a LOT fewer clothes.

[Stephanie47]

If it was for cross dressing I'd think men who wore women's clothing were a bunch of gay perverts.

[Jaymees22]

I would probably not be here...

[5150 Girl]

I probably would have killed myself from the depression and frustration of my outward appearance not matching how I feel inside

[Sissy_Michelle]

"If it wasn't for crossdressing........." I believe I would still be having issues with depression, and not being able to explain why for fear of ridicule. I am comfortable with what I am able to get away with and sometimes in my own way I challenge myself to go farther.

[jennloves55]

Not smile near as much. A dress and some silky lingerie and stockings make the world a better place.

[Chickhe]

If it wasn't for crossdressing, we would have to call it something else.

[julia marie]

If it wasn't for crossdressing I wouldn't be able to wear fabulous fabrics in pink or purple or teal.

[thisgal16]

If it wasn't for cross dressing I wouldn't have to worry about being caught in a dress

[barbie54s]

Been born female instead of being born male.

[Robin777]

I wouldn't need 2 closets to hold my clothes. I could store them in half a closet. Also I would have a lot more money.

[SashaJade]

I wouldn't be me.

[Katy120]

If I wasn't crossdressing, I would be even more boring than most people seemingly perceive me to be.

[Sallee]

have more money and a smaller wardrobe

[sometimes_miss]

................be married with a family instead of divorced spending most of my time in bars. Hmmmmm. Maybe it all worked out for the better.

[Valerie1973]

I'd be a Hell's Angel or a Bandito having all kinds of nasty women all over me, riding, parting hard, drinking hard, and end up in prison. OR, I'd been a soldier and died in the field with honer in Iraq.

[Michellegryl]

Life would be so boring

[Jessica giovanna]

Not run 60 miles a week for a skinny figure....or lost 125 pounds to squeeze into a size 4 darn it!

[MarciManseau]

I'm sure the effort was worth it in sooo many ways, Jessica. Cute tongue, too :)

[FemmeElastique]

Be having MUCH less sex than I do now.

[Dora]

For me it was almost as if it was an intervention, before I embraced crossdressing I was living my life in anger, I grew up in a very strict religious environment but growing up was always bullied around either by family or sometimes church elders, about 3 yrs ago I left the church I was raised in but had alot of anger because of stuff that went on in the past.
Now to fast forward to me embracing crossdressing, I had this light bulb moment one day that I need to accept that I have a effeminate side, as soon as I accepted that I noticed that all my anger has gone down to a minimal about things in the past so what I can say is I am moving on from the past and a new clean slate and am so much more happier:)

[Sarahwithanh11]

In the words of Jim Morrison, life would be simpler, and more confused.

[Lee Andrews]

be an ignorant people hater that follows the crowd and hates on those who are different. Hard to say if that is true, but based on my family and upbringing, I wouldn't be surprised! Plus a much less fashionable guy :)

Sounds like we were raised the same Kristina.
The fact that I crossdress has opened my eyes to others and their lifestyles. It would have never happened if I didn't like to throw on a pair of hose, heels and a skirt considering the environment I was raised in.

[Giselle(Oshawa)]

if it wasn't for crossdressing I would be a frustrated lonely person full of hate.

[CarissaM]

....I would have one thing in life I wasn't so confused about.

[Cindy CA]

...I would be wearing male clothes. That was too easy.


(Was this a trick question?)

[cindybabe]

I would be brain dead and unhappy easy :D:D:D

[Hell on Heels]

If it wasn't for crossdressing I would still be me, but no one has met that me yet.

[Robin777]

I would probably be spending money on something other than clothes and not be as happy as I am.

[SarahBJackson]

If it wasn't for crossdressing, I wouldn't be as open minded, accepting, or relaxed as I am.