yesterday was a fun day

[Patsy Ann]

Hello all I have only been here for a short while and found it really educational and welcoming, for that Thanks to everyone. In the past I have only dressed at home by myself and for really short periods of time. Yesterday I had to spend several hours in garage working on my car so I thought it would be a great opportunity to wear my bra and forms. After about an hour or so of working my wife walks into garage which she never does. I'm there wearing my coat and to me it was obvious she eirher didnt notice or say a thing. Because of the weather she wanted me to drive her to 3 different stores which I did still wearing bra and forms when i got into her car and put seat belt on it was more than obvious and while walking around stores I felt they were quit visible. Im a thin person and B cups i think looks great. It was first time around anyone and especially out at stores . I found it very exciting and liberating would have never been able to do it without having been here.

[Jamie Lynn]

Wow Patsy Ann, daring you!

No comments or looks from her or others? Does she know you dress?
Be careful..... that "exciting and liberating" feeling can be addicting!!! It's the Piiiiiinnnnnk Fo........g!

[Patsy Ann]

No she doesnt still trying to work on that. Did drop big hint last night she is switching for fall to winter clothes in closet so bedroom is very cluttered and do to her work schedule wont be able to finish until Monday I made statement no big deal " we can try them on and organize them then". I am pretty sure one lady did notice them in store she just smiled in a very nice way as she walked past. Iwould not have done it all but really didnt know how to tell wife wait a minute so I can take these off if I didnt mention it in first post the seat belt was very complimenting.

[KayleeTaylor]

Hi Patsy,

Your wife knows, she may be just waiting until you talk to her about it. You should talk soon so you can start enjoying your life :)

:hugs:

Kaylee :)

[linda allen]

Your wife spent time with you and you were wearing a bra and forms and she didn't notice? Does she need glasses? You are wearing a bra and forms at home while your wife is home and you're trying to hide it from her?

I can just imagine what would have happened if you were in a store with her and she noticed the bra and forms. Not good.

You are just begging to get caught and the results will not be good. You need to either be sure she's not around and won't be around when dressing or you need to tell her about it. Much better to do it on your terms than to have her catch you, especially in a public place.

I suggest putting all your female things away for a while and spend some time reading the posts on this forum about telling wives about crossdressing. The advice is all over the place but at least it will get you thinking about your own situation and how best to handle it.

[Jaylyn]

I'm with Kaylee I think she might have a hint. If she knows and is ok with it then you will have a great friend and help in all this journey. A willing helping wife is some precious in the field of cd ing. I have one and love her more every day for it. Just always remember to treat her nice and do things with her that are special and she'll love and can be a beautiful resource for you.

[linda allen]

"Hints" are more likely to leave her thinking you are gay than a crossdresser. Either hide your dressing (better than you have been) or sit her down and talk to her about it.

BTW: You couldn't tell your wife you had to go to the bathroom before leaving, then take off your bra and forms in private?

[Cynthia Anne]

On the assumption your wife doesn't be ware! Your braveness also called ''carelessness'' better known as ''stupidity'' is headed towards a large case of ''she-it'' hitting the fan!

[Janet Bern]

It really is amazing. I wear 40B/C bra and wear the bra and forms under a bulky sweater or a light jacket and
shop often. I have lunch and walk around stores in malls and pass a lot of people. No one looks at me at all.
I suppose when they aren't looking closely (which no one does when they are busy) they just don't a man who
happens to be wearing a bra and forms.

[Beverley Sims]

Hmmm! I wonder, a lap sash seat belt sits snugly in the cleavage, two tits poke out one each side of the belt.

Are you in Noddy land or is your wife blind?

You had a good time for now, but if you play with fire too often you WILL get burnt.